My girlfriend told me she would never cheat on me? does that mean she's going to cheat on me?

[Anonymous]

I was talking to my girlfriend earlier and I told her I hadn't been to sleep all night last night and early this morning, she asked why and I told her I was having nightmares that she was cheating on me and I was going crazy after we broke up. She then told me, "Awwh babe I'm not cheating on you and I never will. does this mean she's cheating on me? we both have been screwed over in relationships, her expecially. she said she hates cheaters and everything. I just need to know does that mean she's cheating on me? That she said she would never do it and has never done it?

[Red_Arrow]

If she says she isn't cheating on you, then it is obvious that she is. You really want her to say she is cheating on you so that you know that she isn't. And if she tells you that she has been sleeping regularly with one guy, but recently let a group gang bang her, then you know that she is very faithful to you.

NOT!!! Wake up from your dreams.

[Asker]

I'm either really tired or really confused with none of that is registering. Obviously it's not my dream for her to be cheating on me, but it secretly is? I don't understand what's going on with your answer, sorry sir

[SirenDep]

You 've had bad relationships in the past, you saw her cheating on you in your dream, you woke up terrified, asked for her reassurance and you still aren't sure you trust her, even though she reassured you. So, it's obvious you have trust issues. It's something you have to work on, if you trust her enough to be with her, you shouldn't doubt her.

[Sadly_It_Fell_Off]

How long have you two been together? What makes you think she is cheating or will cheat?

[ginnyweasley]

you're delusional if she hates cheaters why would she become one?

[ShaunaM95]

This doesn't mean she's cheating on you at all. Has she given you any reason to believe that she is? If not, you need to trust her more.

[psychomonkey]

No you are delusional