Am I being hypocritical if I ask my fiance not to wear a certain swimsuit?

So my fiance and I are going on a romantic getaway to Bermuda to have some time alone to relax. To get in the spirit of this romantic getaway I decided to get some new clothes and swimwear. Since we are on vacation thousands of miles away from anyone we know, I told my fiance I would get some bikinis I wouldn't normally wear, sex it up for him a bit. (Anyone who sees us on vacation is a stranger we'll never run into again anyway) He of course was excited for that. He too mentioned wanting to get some new clothes for the trip but I didn't think much of it at the time. So I went out and got three new thong swimsuits (pictures below) but what I didn't realize is that my fiance also ordered some provactive swimwear of his own! He ordered two briefs and a thong swimsuit! I questioned him as to his motives but he said the same exact thing I said, we are on vacation and no one we know will see. He tried them on and I must admit he does look pretty cute in them but I am not used to seeing my man in such skimpy attire.

My question is for other girls, is it hypocritical of me to ask him not to wear that even though I am wearing something sexier than usual myself? I mean it is vacation and no one will see us. I didn't think he would be into wearing swimwear like that and it's a bit of a shock.

The bikinis I picked out

Am I being hypocritical if I ask my fiance not to wear a certain swimsuit?



Am I being hypocritical if I ask my fiance not to wear a certain swimsuit?


Am I being hypocritical if I ask my fiance not to wear a certain swimsuit?


Am I being hypocritical if I ask my fiance not to wear a certain swimsuit?


Am I being hypocritical if I ask my fiance not to wear a certain swimsuit?


Am I being hypocritical if I ask my fiance not to wear a certain swimsuit?

The swimsuits he picked

Am I being hypocritical if I ask my fiance not to wear a certain swimsuit?


Am I being hypocritical if I ask my fiance not to wear a certain swimsuit?


Am I being hypocritical if I ask my fiance not to wear a certain swimsuit?


Am I being hypocritical if I ask my fiance not to wear a certain swimsuit?


conservative: Regardless of where we were in the world, I wouldn't want him to wear that. I am the girl I wear the sexy clothing
Vote A
moderate: I don't mind because we are on a romantic getaway vacation and no one we know would see us but he better not wear that after the vacation
Vote B
progressive: It's his body, his choice. If you think he looks cute in them then let him wear it
Vote C
other: The briefs are okay but ditch his thong swimsuit
Vote D
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