How does a shy girl get laid?

[Anonymous]

[Accipiter]

Shy girls typically give closed body language to a guy who's trying to approach her. Don't tense up and curl into your shell when a hot guy comes over and talks to you.

Shy girls usually aren't very good at facilitating the conversation, and give very short one word answers. This gives guys the impression she's not interested. Instead try to say more things and help keep the conversation going

[ScarletteFox_Red]

It's true! We do tense up!

[KingdomFictiom]

A shy girl would have to overcome that shyness for at least 1 minute to an hour for that one particular moment in time.

OR.

She would have to attempt a relationship with a guy who understands that shyness and they work toward being able to overcome it together.

[saracastic00]

Depends. But being shy shouldn't restrict her love/sex life in anyway. She just has to be a bit more confident with her body before letting anyone else see or enjoy it.

[Anonymous]

Find a guy who is really outgoing and will stick around them rough your shyness until you're comfortable.
I had sex at 21 for the first time because I was so shy.

[sbnalenon]

When with your boyfriend, dont feel shy be open and trust him.

[TheHooptyMiata]

Implying she shouldn't just go fuck a random dude. Boyfriend is a lot of pressure for a shy person, one night stands are easier because you never have to see them again...

[sbnalenon]

@TheHooptyMiata one night stands would be one great way, but should be secured enough i guess.

[jomu0136536]

Well.. There is a couple ways... 1) u can ask a couple guys if they want to have sex, id guess the fith guy u ask will say yes.. Mayb less.. 2) is there a guy that is always trying to talk with you? Ya, id bet money he likes you...

[ScarletteFox_Red]

Jomuuuuuu

[Anonymous]

She goes to a club. Stands there for a minute and looks lost. Gets approached by any number of men. Takes her pick.

If we're talking about a relationship, she'll actually have to communicate. I hear libraries are awesome dating grounds.

[Humping_Tornadoes]

1- Go to a bar
2- Get free drinks
3- Pick the guy you would sleep with

My point, is that easy when it comes to girls. You should do it right though, with a friend or someone you actually like.

[TheHooptyMiata]

By going to a bar, sitting alone and waiting... Seriously. It's not hard to get laid. If you're at least a bit hot, some guy will try...

[Krillanr]

Meet a shy guy, I offer my services.

A joke a joke. XD

[Revengercm]

Tell the guy. Want to have sex?

Works 90% of the time and the rejection it's like it never happened or they got something good from it.

[Tomsta]

Finds a guy she likes, opens up to him, dates him, become official - profit

[Gnome0]

Hand the guy a note that says "I want to have sex with you. Do you want to have sex with me?"

[chiragvirani]

Not any relation between shy girls and laid girls...

[Anonymous]

Mostly by using their not so shy hands in most cases I would think.

[Grisbosque]

dont go to a bar! humans are like animals, you

[Grisbosque]

find the ones you want by going to the right ambient, Bar guys are not a good mate. unless you like bars.

do an adult education course in something you are interested in, be friendly to the guys you like there, get to know them. find out who is single, buddy up to him, and start doing things together. it will flow naturally from there especially if you flirt with just him.

the bar scene is tacky and more risky, STDs and jerks. nobody of quality goes to bars, I was a bar tender. and what if you got knocked up by some loser? there are plenty of good guys doing good things. figure out what a guy you would like to know will be involved in, then go there.

[ScarletteFox_Red]

Tinder
Filler

[Melirain]

First directly helpful advice I've read. xD
The guys' advice was cute, sweet, and may be helpful in the long run, but the main problem for shy girls and dating/sex is 1. letting guys know you're actually interested, and 2. getting confirmation that the guy's interested in you too. Tinder takes care of both. :P

[Yanoa_Yanza]

By opening up towards a guy she likes and trusts

[jacquesvol]

The same way as other girls.

[Chadster]

By getting to know me!

[Anonymous]

Just ask the guy you like he will probably say yes

[Anonymous]

Same way as any other girl. You flirt