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What did I do wrong? Should I try to make things work with her? (Page 3)
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If there is one thing I understand about people (not just women), it's the fact that they don't like excess compliments - its starts to sound not-genuine.
That's exactly what's happened here. You should text her with something normal, hang out and have some fun - go places. Tell her you realize you were sounding silly.
He has no reason to explain himself or apologize. She went way out of line.
I agree that she did. But I get why she felt uncomfortable.
I just want to clarify, you did nothing wrong by complimenting her. She was probably even pissed off for something else. You guys broke up over it?
From what I've read you've done nothing wrong. How old is this girl, and how exactly were you being a dick? She sounds very immature and inexperienced, at least from the conversation between you two. Her bringing up her ex and comparing you to him just because you spoke your mind is ridiculous. If you guys stay together, every time you get into an argument she's going to bring him up to try and make you feel bad for her and make you feel like a huge dick so you'll be the one to apologize, even if it was her fault. I know from experience. My ex boyfriend always compared me to his ex and I hated it. We clearly didn't last. If you and this girl end up making it work, then I wish you good luck.
She feels overwhelmed with all the lovey stuff you sent her. You should have stopped with sending her compliments after the first Aaaaw... I think you over did it now with pissing her even more off for trying to push her to much. Honestly, you didn't do anything wrong except that you probably annoyed the hell out of her by taking thinks to far. You should voice your opinion and if she doesn't like it oh well too bad.
you shower a girl with compliment, off course she will feel weird and upset? Imagine a a girl do that to you shower you with compliment that you really don't deserve. Plus what are you trying to do compliment her like crazy. here my tip you try make a girl feel special why you chose her over any other. Every girl will ask that question be ready to answer. if you can tell her that you can win a girl heart
You were acting needy. It became overbearing and she got annoyed. It wasn't creepy, just a turn off.
I would feel the same way, but I would of handled it differently.
But your response to her was not the best. She's been short with you in the past so you decided you'd get back at her by doing the same. She's your girlfriend. Immature decision
Dude. You're one of the good guys. Seriously.
Some girls in long term relationships RARELY get that type of attention from their significant other.
Leave this bitch.
She doesn't seem very into you since she dissed HER OWN BOYFRIEND'S ( of 1 year) compliments
Wow clingy much? I mean who exactly is the chick in this relationship... you sound needy and kinda desperate. You've been in a real relationship with this person for a year? It sounds more like you're being creepy toward someone who considers you a friend. Nothing in her responses indicate you two are in an actual relationship and if you are it sounds like she's trying to find a nice way to tell you to get lost.
Compliments and gifts doesn't feel legit to me neither. Its like saying you're good even though you're not.
Lying to herself by accepting everything will make your conversations be all about her being amazing. Compliments are equally annoying as insults and no thought should be mentioned even to those that have great pride and reasons to boast.
Well if you were trying to cheer her up, then she's just plain ungrateful. I don't really see anything wrong with the compliments. Especially if that's how you always are and she had no problem with it before. Then she flips out when you say ok. Like what does she want you to say? y'all are in a relationship and have been for a year. I'm sure this isn't the first time you done this. She seemed to be in a crappy mood and took it out on you and that's not cool.
Okay she might be upset about something.. but that's not excuse for being a bitch to you.. she could just say she's not feeling good atm.. and how about you two talk later... apparently she's not that into you as much you are..
If you put it all in one text it wouldn't have been so bad... it's the hitting send of each one basically asking for a response that was the downfall
I know how you feel, been in a couple situations like this :/ . I would stop speaking to her, she told you to stop so make it the last thing she'll want from you. I don't think you have a choice anyway tbh. I would leave it a while and she might start to get curious... or you could simply move on... you should only be putting the same effort she's putting in for you
you overdid with those complimetns bro , treat girls nice but not that nice , being a dick works from time to time... now with that aside , leave her , break up and dont look back she's not the kind of girlfriend that you want so why stay with her? obviosuly she has some problems and i dont wanna be an ass or anything but judging fom this one conversation she is already looking for someone else
I think you were just being a bit clingy & made her uncomfortable, one compliment is fine but after a lot you just don't know how to react. I broke up with my clingy boyfriend because everyone needs their own space & it made me feel suffocated...
He clearly said that she was feeling depressed and he was trying to Cheer her up... That's why he complimented get... I don't think he was being clingy
Yup i can't stand it with the complements! I am not perfect hahah! Stop it! Stop trying to complement haha! GOSH CODY! lol I am not mad @Cody3180 I am just tired of getting so much attention when i don't desrve it or have earn it. What can I say? I am complicated! Sometimes I feel like he trying to hard or he trying to hide something with these compliments! hahah Sorry for putting you at the spot! lol <3
My queen is perfect in every way haha
@Cody3180 <3 see what I deal with? How am I suppose to respond? Most people just say mean thing and move on hahah!
Yeah but most people don't have someone like you
@Cody3180 Why are you so nice (:
Because you're you and I treat people the way they deserve to be treated
@Cody3180 <3 Yes!
This is her way of saying it's over. I would love those kinds pf compliments from the guy I care about. What woman wouldn't?
All of that over you complimenting her? I think she's not only ungrateful, but a total drama queen and rude for no reason.
You'd be lucky if it was over.
The issue for me is that sometimes, too many compliments can come across disingenuous or that you're being extremely over the top so I agree, it gets uncomfortable when the entire conversation is: Oh my god, you're so amazing, etc, etc, etc... it is a bit "too much" as they say.
I Personally think that She Is Not the Romatic type or she is probably just on her period because I know that I feel like not hearing anything at times. So don't take it personal but is she is not on her period or going through some issues with you , then she is probably giving her attention to someone else and is already being told what you are telling her which makes her not want to be complimented by you again if she's getting it from someone else. Just be straight up with her nd tell her to be honest with you and tell you about whatever she thinks or feels
This girl sounds verrrrrry insecure about herself. And when she receives a compliment she may feel like she doesn't deserve it. She has asked you to stop, which you should but she seems to have a LOT of issues. Honestly, I feel like you'll have to walk eggshells around her. If you truly, truly want to be with her, apologize and work it out. If not, if she does NOT want to speak with you at all, then just move on.