Why do women mostly only care about traits that are passively acquired in men and don't care about hard work?

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Why do women mostly only care about traits that are passively acquired in men and don't care about hard work?
When we look at women's behavior on what they find attractive for men, it is always passively acquired traits. For example being born with a nice face, and height both of which you didn't have to work for because you acquired them from your parents. Whereas a guy who goes to the gym works out to get a nice body which shows dedication, strong mental fortitude and resolve, and toughness is not given much points of appreciation.

We see it also in personality. People say women like confident guys but rarely if ever will go for a less confident man and help bring him out of his shell or help nurture him into becoming the confident guy they want. They want the guy who is naturally by his personality he was born with that exudes confidence.

Similar with their reasoning for ambitious men. They don't want to be with the guy while he is in the progress of reaching his goals. They want the guy after he's gotten the prize and has a nice setup for himself. Rarely any woman would stick around for you while your building and trying to achieve these goals these days.

And we see this with male students who are going to become future doctors, lawyers, engineers etc. A large percentage of Girls there age are either going for the hot guy or for men outside of school who have a nice job, plenty of money to spend on them.
Why do women mostly only care about traits that are passively acquired in men and don't care about hard work?

Yet at the same time we don't see this lack of passiveness and in appreciate for hard work from men. A girl who works on her body goes up dramatically in attraction with men. A girl who is working towards a future goes up in attraction. Men will even try to bring out the best of a girl who others would have passed over or not too many guys have their eyes on and bring out the best in her. They will help a boring girl become less introverted and boost her social life for her. We see even extension of this with laws by men which encourage and support women such as with stem cell research.
Why do women mostly only care about traits that are passively acquired in men and don't care about hard work?
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