Why are women always expecting men to carry conversation?

[Anonymous]

Everytime I am around a woman, I feel like I need to tell to get attention and say something back to me. If not, there's never conversation with a girl at ALL. I mean never, and no girl comes to me to have conversation.

Why are you this way? I just don't get it.

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

Cause a lot of girls are way more insecure with themselves than guys. Not a negative, but think of how many girls, even on this site, ask what does a dude breathing 7 times in 40 seconds mean when it's raining and 53.97f out. Or how most chicks interact with their friends an do strangers vs most dudes. Most dudes will just go with the flow and say shit. I'll joke around with random dudes I don't even know. A lot of girls will pretty much keep to themselves. So when guys end up talking, it's more natural whereas a lot of girls just seem clueless. Hate making this sound like something so technical, but there's part of my 2¢

[Dim1213]

I feel the same way and I get that feeling a lot even with my female freinds.
I suggest just relaxing and try to have a nice talk with them. Women are really nervous and insecure. As guys we know how hard it is to approach someone. They usually have low self esteem so that makes it a lot harder to be around someone and to strike up a conversation with them.

[PlutoLastJuly]

It's very hard for us women to make intelligent conversation. We have to spend most of our time dumbing ourselves down so you won't feel intimidated, so when it comes to conversation we let you lead. Men know best what should and shouldn't be discussed and the last thing we want to do is upset the guy who is kind enough to take the time to speak to us, so we go along with whatever you are saying, as any woman should.

[Anonymous]

They don't. I initiate conversation with guys I want to talk to talk to. And I usually carry conversations in the beginning until I ask the right question that usually starts them getting more comfortable and start getting them to open up a bit. I've never had an issue with this.

[amarahorrorstory]

I usually carry the conversation with guys so I feel as if it's the other day around. Are you going for shy women or introverts? That's why, they don't carry conversation with anyone... you know, because they're... shy.

[10dsw]

Carrying a conversation and starting a conversation are two different things. Most girls won't start a conversation because (A) many are shy and (B) most don't have to because there is always someone around to try getting their attention.

If you can't carry a conversation or all the heavy lifting falls on you, it's time to get out because she's not interested.

[Anonymous]

Because if a guy talks with a gal and ends up he doesn't like her, it's no biggie. But if a gal talks to a guy and it ends up she doesn't like him, he may flip his lid for her "leading him on."

Not all guys, but enough flip out upon rejection that we're always playing defense.

[DT254]

lol tru tru

[Opinion Owner]

It's not really that funny, though. It's so hard to not worry every time you notice a guy noticing you and hope it's not going to end with a bunch of drama and stress or worse.

[Anonymous]

Because you are a man. Stop whining about everything like a little girl! So sick of guys on here and everywhere whining and bitching about why this why that, that's unfair, that's mean and boohoo! BE A MAN for gods sake stop whining it's so disgusting.

[Notorisch_Arschloch]

Say hello to one of the many reasons MGTOW is a thing everybody.

[Djaaaay]

Opinion owner. I totally agree with you. I always wonder wtf made these guys so weak in this generation.

[AriadneSky]

you seem to have pretty disrespectful view of Women, pink anon... Is that awkward for you considering you are one or are (you secretly a guy)?

[kikawi]

I expect a guy to start the conversation because that's how the man/woman relationship was designed to work. But once a conversation has started, I have no problem continuing it.
But that's just me.

[Azgeda]

It's a two way thing.
You have to create a conversation dynamic. Think of it as playing tennis , you have to know how to rally it to make the game interesting , it's not a debate.

[Goldie757]

Because they are nervous and insecure. It's not rocket science.

[Izzex3]

Probably means she's not interested in having a conversation with you?
That's what I do.

[starwarsfan66]

Women don't talk to guys unless they know them really well, imho.
Maybe they just don't have anything to talk about with you?

[Anonymous]

because they know they don't have anything to say that we would be interested in unless we're a gay hairdresser.

[KsyRose]

I don't know 'bout other people, but I'm just shy

[Adigelunar]

i don't expect such thing

[CT_CD]

Because they are scared and insecure

[Berki]

she's not into you

[Anonymous]

You're right. I don't know