Ladys, for one minute try to see this from guys perspectives. If I want a relationship, I first have to make myself desirable to many women; this alone can take decades. Then I have to ask a girl out, god knows none of them will ask me. Then I have to plan a date. Then I have to somehow convince you on that date that I am not a deadbeat. Then I Have to ask you if you enjoyed yourself and want another, which I again have to plan. If I ever want to marry I have to pick out a ring and I have to propose. I'm not just trying to complain but it leads me to ask the question. Why are women so afraid or incapable of making any decisions when it comes to dating? whenever this question is asked the most common responce is "that's just the way it is" I want a real answer!
I do consider the fact that women have to bear children. So they look for men who are capable of picking up the slack during that time. I just don't see why that means we have to make every major dating decision.
This question sounds more regressive than I intended. Sorry, I'm just a little off emotionally today. Thank you all for your input.