Is it true that once a hoe always a hoe?

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Well when I was younger girl seeking attention from men my numbers went up, I was nieve and slut like. It wasn't the the slut type who just slept with anyone and did anything no.. I would talk to a guy and then we end up having sex.. Then we'd stop talking and so on.. Well it's been a while since I had sex.. Actually since January 2016. I don't consider myself a hoe, but my sister says I'll always be a hoe! Thou I don't believe I'll give myself up to a guy with out him deserving me

Thump12 · Accepted Answer

It seriously depends on your age and how many partners you've had. I'd be honest with you, I'd be more disgusted with a woman who've slept with 20 guys up to her mid-20s than a woman who've said the exact same number up into her mid-30s. I don't really care and I'm not really the "open-up" type. You can hate on me all you want but men are the commitment gate-keeper. Lets bygones be bygones. Do you think you are worth, especially if I have income than other guys, of my time and money when you opened up your legs to 20+ guys in the past? Might as well find someone who can tolerate your past in the nightclub!

ThisDudeHere · Accepted Answer

I don't know what the objective truth is but for me it is safer to assume that once a ho, always a ho, than to give a "former" ho a chance only to possibly be disappointed later on.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

you know its quite interesting how many judgmental guys there are!!! I get it to a degree they don't want to be with someone who has slept around but are those same guys holding themselves to those same standards? They don't know what was going on in your life during that time !! Were you going on a downward spiral of bad decisions, because I'm sorry but if people are going to judge you for your decisions they better be damn well perfect themselves.

Wonderer89 · Accepted Answer

No. I fully believe it changes. Your needs and what you want out of life and a partner become more apparent, and you do what you have to for it. I have no regrets whatsoever about my promiscuous youth but I've been with my husband for almost 9 years and never have another thought but with him.
Our values change, and we change with it if we want to 😊 Loyalty is a choice

Laa7430 · Accepted Answer

People change. Problem is they start to say they've changed when they really haven't so OTHER people think otherwise. You really Change when Others see it not when you see it.

Bandit74 · Answer

I don't think they are necessarily going to cheat on me, but find it really unnatractive if a girl was easy to get for other guys and hard to get only when she meets me. I don't want to date a girl who isn't equally as excited to sleep with me as she was with her previous partners.

singlebee · Answer

I have changed my mind set and I am thinking I would like a fun girl like you instead of a prude :-)
I have heard you girls like you don't cheat? As long as that is 1000% ture I don't mind you sexual history :-)

Anonymous · Answer

They can change! Absolutely.
So after getting bored of having sex with a man you simply ignored him and then forgot about him?
Now it's almost been a year since you have had sex, how do you control? Masturbation?

LB33777 · Answer

Shocked to see your user name is Capricorn. So am I! Happy bday month fellow cappy! Yes you can always change.

dwiller943 · Answer

Not really. I went through a hoe phase as a cry for help.
Because when I was keeping my legs closed and being nice to people,
I kept getting harrassed by assholes, overlooked by good guys,
and sexually abused by my dad and guys at my school.
So I figured "heyy, maybe if I act like a slut, then maybe people
will stop trying to force me to acting like one".
But it didn't make much of a difference.
Only difference is that guys don't beg nor force as much.

Elastephen · Answer

No. They can change their ways if they have someone to help them find inner peace.

LastNightmare · Answer

nope. I don't believe that. one get chance to change but only for few times. if she mistakes repeats then there's problem.

Anonymous · Answer

Always a hoe. You slept with those guys, that makes you a hoe. You can't take back sleeping with them so you will always be a hoe even if you don't sleep with anyone ever again. Regardless once you hit a certain number you get that label that is with you for life. It is good you stopped being like that tho. But one day you will probably have to tell a future partner how much you done and at that point he might be done with you because you a hoe.

IdkSomethingRandom · Answer

The social stigma emplaced never fades... in the eyes of others. People reminding her of her history can push her into breaking, and it happens unfortunately quite often.

NajemEddine · Answer

its like an addiction u may go back to being like that

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Don't listen to your sister hun. You can change if you really desire a change.

Glen68 · Answer

as long as you're loyal to whatever guy you are with then you were never a hoe

AleDeEurope · Answer

Once a hoe, always a hoe.  Michael Jordan is a retired basketball player, but he's always gonna be remembered as one. So even if you're retired from being a hoe, you'll always be a hoe.

scooogy · Answer

I haven't let any girl fuck me until today, because the girls has to REALLY deserve me, which hardly any girl did so far, if any.

KnightCross · Answer

well... if once a whore always a whore then how about Mary Magdalene? she became a saint later... a much better woman than any of you

ChrisJJ · Answer

Your past defines who you are. Without your past you wouldn't be who you are.

Kaylyne · Answer

"A Leopard Never Changes It's Spots"

Foreskin-Atlas · Answer

No. Anybody willing to change can do so.

Anonymous · Answer

it is hard to change

Mhandl · Answer

Yes a hoe.

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