Is it true that once a hoe always a hoe?

[Capricornation]

Well when I was younger girl seeking attention from men my numbers went up, I was nieve and slut like. It wasn't the the slut type who just slept with anyone and did anything no.. I would talk to a guy and then we end up having sex.. Then we'd stop talking and so on.. Well it's been a while since I had sex.. Actually since January 2016. I don't consider myself a hoe, but my sister says I'll always be a hoe! Thou I don't believe I'll give myself up to a guy with out him deserving me

Always a hoe

Changed women

Updates

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Let me add. I have never cheated in my previous relationships. It's just me thinking that the current guy I'm dealing with I think that he's the one but it turns out he's not so boom he's another added to my list. And I move on to the next thinking things are going to be different.. And they don't. Which is why I've decided to hold out on sex and see where friendships first actually takes me..

[Thump12]

It seriously depends on your age and how many partners you've had. I'd be honest with you, I'd be more disgusted with a woman who've slept with 20 guys up to her mid-20s than a woman who've said the exact same number up into her mid-30s. I don't really care and I'm not really the "open-up" type. You can hate on me all you want but men are the commitment gate-keeper. Lets bygones be bygones. Do you think you are worth, especially if I have income than other guys, of my time and money when you opened up your legs to 20+ guys in the past? Might as well find someone who can tolerate your past in the nightclub!

[Thump12]

especially if I have a higher income than other guys****

[Thump12]

I'm laughing at the stats, why the fuck does "women voting" have to do with this? Not saying women can't vote but are you insisting on dating other women as well?

[Capricornation]

No but I'd like to hear feedback from everyone. No discrimination.

[ThisDudeHere]

I don't know what the objective truth is but for me it is safer to assume that once a ho, always a ho, than to give a "former" ho a chance only to possibly be disappointed later on.

[Capricornation]

Well I have never cheated in my previous relationships. It's just me thinking that the current guy I'm dealing with I think that he's the one abs it turns out he's not so boom he's another added to my list

[ThisDudeHere]

All I hear is that you let guys get in to your pants relatively easily and thus I automatically assume that the probability of you cheating is higher. Statistics show that promiscuous women are more likely to cheat.

[Capricornation]

Well I did.. But not anymore !!

[ThisDudeHere]

I can't know that.

[Capricornation]

Lol okay you won Jeesh

[Thump12]

@ThisDudeHere exactly, you are spot on!

[Anonymous]

you know its quite interesting how many judgmental guys there are!!! I get it to a degree they don't want to be with someone who has slept around but are those same guys holding themselves to those same standards? They don't know what was going on in your life during that time !! Were you going on a downward spiral of bad decisions, because I'm sorry but if people are going to judge you for your decisions they better be damn well perfect themselves.

[batesis]

Lol, no it's because, like many promiscuous women would say, she's "horny" and "cock thirsty".

[Capricornation]

yeah these people in these comments are crazy. I believe in change. You grow from your mistakes and learn how to value yourself as a person, but I guess since you made bad decisions those decisions are supposed to define you. You aren't aloud to value yourself and save yourself for someone deserving of you because your a hoe.. Smh I know I'm not a hoe anymore so fuck what the next has to say !

[batesis]

You're still are, regardless of your past.

[Wonderer89]

No. I fully believe it changes. Your needs and what you want out of life and a partner become more apparent, and you do what you have to for it. I have no regrets whatsoever about my promiscuous youth but I've been with my husband for almost 9 years and never have another thought but with him.
Our values change, and we change with it if we want to 😊 Loyalty is a choice

[Capricornation]

yeah these people in these comments are crazy. I believe in change. You grow from your mistakes and learn how to value yourself as a person, but I guess since you made bad decisions those decisions are supposed to define you. You aren't aloud to value yourself and save yourself for someone deserving of you because your a hoe.. Well ill have some of these guys know that most girls that portray themselves as the sweet one are the sneaky ones.

[Laa7430]

People change. Problem is they start to say they've changed when they really haven't so OTHER people think otherwise. You really Change when Others see it not when you see it.

[Capricornation]

I haven't had sex or giving a guy the least bit of interest. I can tell I changed because the guys I used to deal with. I want nothing to do with them

[Laa7430]

Continue taking it easy with the guys.. Settle down and prove ur sis wrong. She will tell u that uve changed. Head up Capricornation !

[Capricornation]

Well I honestly think her mind is set. She believes once a hoe always a hoe!

[Thump12]

Why?

[Capricornation]

@Thump12 well I'm not sure actually

[Bandit74]

I don't think they are necessarily going to cheat on me, but find it really unnatractive if a girl was easy to get for other guys and hard to get only when she meets me. I don't want to date a girl who isn't equally as excited to sleep with me as she was with her previous partners.

[Capricornation]

Yes, I understand 😞

[singlebee]

I have changed my mind set and I am thinking I would like a fun girl like you instead of a prude :-)
I have heard you girls like you don't cheat? As long as that is 1000% ture I don't mind you sexual history :-)

[Capricornation]

Wow I'm not sure how to take this lol

[singlebee]

Why? Did you like what I said?

[singlebee]

Don't misunderstand.. Though I never said a serious relationship or marriage LOL

Only sex

[Thump12]

Are you a player?

[singlebee]

@Thump12 I don't know

[Thump12]

What do you mean "you don't know"? It's either you are or you're not.

[singlebee]

@Thump12 I think I am.. Cause most girls think I am a player... They tell me that

[Capricornation]

Well I'll have you know your plan would fail terribly, as I stated above I would have sex with guys I was INTERESTED in and if things didn't work out I'd move on to the next. Nevertheless, I liked your post because all feedback is better than none." lame ass boy"

[Anonymous]

They can change! Absolutely.
So after getting bored of having sex with a man you simply ignored him and then forgot about him?
Now it's almost been a year since you have had sex, how do you control? Masturbation?

[Capricornation]

Yes I have to watch porn

[Opinion Owner]

Do you masturbate as well?

[Capricornation]

Unfortunately.

[Opinion Owner]

What's unfortunately about this!
Men do it all the time :p

[Capricornation]

Yeah your right

[Opinion Owner]

Most women don't masturbate regularly?

[Capricornation]

I don't know what most women do with their free time

[Opinion Owner]

Don't you wmen talk about this?

[Capricornation]

Not at all.. It's somewhat embarrassing and inappropriate.. Do guys?

[Opinion Owner]

Not really ;)

[Thump12]

"Unfortunately" Hey let me ask you something, why can't your boyfriend just dump you and you can go to being a whore again?

[Capricornation]

@Thump12 well I don't have a boyfriend otherwise I wouldn't be masturbating.. Hints * to the above conversation, but let me as you a question? can you comprehend?

[LB33777]

Shocked to see your user name is Capricorn. So am I! Happy bday month fellow cappy!

Yes you can always change.

[Capricornation]

Thank you actually just passed January 11 . Same to you !!

[LB33777]

Okay this is weird my birthday in also on Jan 11 lmfao!!!
I just turned 22!

[Capricornation]

Wow 23 me :-/

[dwiller943]

Not really. I went through a hoe phase as a cry for help.
Because when I was keeping my legs closed and being nice to people,
I kept getting harrassed by assholes, overlooked by good guys,
and sexually abused by my dad and guys at my school.
So I figured "heyy, maybe if I act like a slut, then maybe people
will stop trying to force me to acting like one".
But it didn't make much of a difference.
Only difference is that guys don't beg nor force as much.

[Elastephen]

No. They can change their ways if they have someone to help them find inner peace.

[Capricornation]

Finally someone who agrees. I was young

[LastNightmare]

nope. I don't believe that. one get chance to change but only for few times. if she mistakes repeats then there's problem.

[Capricornation]

Well this was my first time really stepping back and analyze that I was giving it up to soon

[LastNightmare]

don't give up. you gonna have best life you ever imagined.

[Capricornation]

Oh yeah.. visioning it right now

[LastNightmare]

you'll witness your success if you don't give up on your struggle

[Capricornation]

That's a really nice thing to say thank you

[LastNightmare]

you're welcome dear. I see much hope in you than what others say about you.

[Anonymous]

Always a hoe. You slept with those guys, that makes you a hoe. You can't take back sleeping with them so you will always be a hoe even if you don't sleep with anyone ever again. Regardless once you hit a certain number you get that label that is with you for life. It is good you stopped being like that tho. But one day you will probably have to tell a future partner how much you done and at that point he might be done with you because you a hoe.

[Thump12]

Of course, women have nothing to offer than what's between her legs and when a woman becomes promiscuous, it tells me she's "used" up.

[IdkSomethingRandom]

The social stigma emplaced never fades... in the eyes of others. People reminding her of her history can push her into breaking, and it happens unfortunately quite often.

[Thump12]

Of course, if average joes can't get laid often, might as well find an average girl to settle in with than a whore.

[NajemEddine]

its like an addiction u may go back to being like that

[Capricornation]

Very funny

[NajemEddine]

sometimes we can't change who we are

like the frog and scorpion story

[Capricornation]

I don't know it

[NajemEddine]

www.aesopfables.com/.../aesop1.cgi

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Don't listen to your sister hun. You can change if you really desire a change.

[Capricornation]

Thank you Hispanic dude :)

[Glen68]

as long as you're loyal to whatever guy you are with then you were never a hoe

[Capricornation]

Yeah now when I get into relationships I'm loyal very very loyal.

[Glen68]

then you are most definitely not a hoe.

[AleDeEurope]

Once a hoe, always a hoe.
Michael Jordan is a retired basketball player, but he's always gonna be remembered as one. So even if you're retired from being a hoe, you'll always be a hoe.

[scooogy]

I haven't let any girl fuck me until today, because the girls has to REALLY deserve me, which hardly any girl did so far, if any.

[Capricornation]

Me too smh, but according to ratio I'll always be a hoe

[scooogy]

so you're a virgin?

[Capricornation]

Nooo I had sex.. lots of sex but not over a year. I thought I was a changed woman, but I guess not !

[batesis]

You know you're putting your gender at risk because you said "you're not a changed woman". I guess us guys can't really have a relationship with you then.

[batesis]

Hoes will be hoes, which is why most men don't want to get married anymore.

[scooogy]

@batesis true

[Capricornation]

@batesis I'm not sure I understand what your trying to say?

[Capricornation]

@batesis yes I understand this, but most "hoes" are the ones that are married.

[KnightCross]

well... if once a whore always a whore then how about Mary Magdalene? she became a saint later... a much better woman than any of you

[Thump12]

Lol you're 13, you haven't even begun yet.

[ChrisJJ]

Your past defines who you are. Without your past you wouldn't be who you are.

[Kaylyne]

"A Leopard Never Changes It's Spots"

[Capricornation]

:( but the glass of water is half full not half empty

[Kaylyne]

If you say so.

[Capricornation]

Bol ok I tried

[Kaylyne]

You did indeed, and full marks for doing so. :)

[Foreskin-Atlas]

No. Anybody willing to change can do so.

[Anonymous]

it is hard to change

[Capricornation]

Not really !! I decided that I want men to respect me so acting accordingly is first step..

[Mhandl]

Yes a hoe.

[CT_CD]

Always a hoe

[Capricornation]

Awe man courage :(

[CT_CD]

Still a hoe

[Capricornation]

Bol twins !!

[CT_CD]

W0t?

[Capricornation]

Yeah, your a hoe too lol :)