It's a combination of things. Spiteful rejections, man-hating movements disguised as 'equal rights' movements, incessant demands in the dating scene from paying on the first date to initiating, mind games and playing hard to get, and 'player shaming' guys who just want and admit to seeking sex. And more.
C is the best description of the situation. Women want men to respect them the same way men respect men, but at the same time they also want to be treated like princesses.
Because feminism, because a few bad experiences all women are gold digging harlots, because women won't let them use them for sex, because of frustration and heartache.
Gotta respectfully disagree. The cause in many cases is feminism and society as a whole including women becoming more narcissistic and sociopathic. This is caused by a major decline in morals and traditional values, which is caused greatly influenced by cultural Marxism, which feminism would be a part of.
No one can say all anybody. Not all women are bad, but a good enough amount are.
No guy expects girls to let him use them for sex. If I were married however I do expect my wife to be putting out regularly. My wife can expect the same from me. None of this I have a "headache" crap. Don't know if you think that's using women for sex or not by your definition. So many women getting married, and then think they have their hooks in him and don't have to have sex with their husband. WTF is up with that? Like it's some painful chore they have to endure? I see it all the time and it's rediculious. Then the guy cheats and the girl pisses and moans about how all guys are dogs. It's crazy.
@Exterminatore You obviously aren't aware that the guy women pick for their husband more often than not isn't the guy they are sexually attracted towards. Many women around their late 20's put physical attraction in the back burner in place of money, stability and if he is easy to control/manipulate. This is why many men who did not get play in their 20's and are now desperate for female company, suddenly have more options in their 30's. They are perfect meal ticket for women who had their fun with Chad, Jose, Jamal, Chang, Tyrone etc in their early 20's and now want the white picket fence and nice suburban lifestyle.
In short. Husband=PROVIDER. Guy girls had relationship with in their early 20's =Lover. This is general rule.
Most of us don't hate women. If you think we do, you're spending too much online. Online I see lots of hate toward the opposite gender, from men and women. I could assume most women hate men if I was basing my opinion on girls in the Internet, but just spend a day outside talking to several women and you'll see that most women love men as much as men love them.
@BubbleBoy69 Pretty much. Most people these days (both men and women) are too cowardly to show their true colors in the real world since they have the internet and computers to protect themselves from physical and verbal confrontations.
Geez your just like my mom, no I don't hate women, not in the slightest. My big concern is the fact how modern feminist feel the need to 1. Fight for excess of rights and the denial of men's rights at times . 2. Kind of like other fanatical groups, the say they are for peace and stuff but when an "enemy of theirs" gets hurt or dies they rejoice, which is disgusting.
Males do not hate females. Your behavior today is not of a lady. This been going for thousands of years. Your main problem is you what to be the center of everything. It calls me, myself, and I. Self-center people are problems. Your relationship with others is all about what you can get from others. Females take a look in the mirror. That is who your problem is. We males are sick of your hell. We not putting up with it anymore.
You English still goodly bro. Tell us how you're an American again and how English is your first language... and how you get all butt-hurt when anyone asks you what your first language is...
@LikeMike What the fucking fuck are you talking about man?
Damn man... click on my avatar for fucks sake. It says "Princess of Sarcasm".
Are you fucking kidding me? I wasn't making fun of someone's opinion. I was making fun of a special snowflake user here that is an incestuous pedophile.
Like I said... you just got here... you have no clue what YOU are talking about, much less what (or whom) I was referring to.
@CheerGirl38139 So you think you're in the right? LOL way to make yourself look and sound shallow. Give up you can't win an argument that's not an argument. You just posted some rude shit on a thread that clearly states "Why do modern men hate women so much? What are we doing wrong then?"
@LikeMike Dude... I posted on this question because the aforementioned pedophile has me blocked. And I wanted to call him out. It's not the Asker, or this particular user's opinion that I was referencing. Again... you just got here...
Please... stop embarrassing yourself. You have NO idea what the fuck you're talking about. My post had nothing, ZERO, to do with this particular question.
Is this what you do? Join an online community and pick a fight with a regular user, having no background whatsoever on the subject matter? Because you look like a fool.
You do have a problem, it is you. Try to be a lady. I see you also been telling others off. I am aware of these females in their early 20's to like to mouth people off. Jesus love you, he can help you to have the love of God for others.
In a word, feminism. Feminism has been extremely divisive. It has vilified men for decades and turned women into whiny, entitled bitches with a victim complex. I think the thing that makes men most angry at women is that they still support feminism after all it has done and continues to do. They only acknowledge the good and deny all the bad or try to explain it away by saying "that's not real feminism". Of course it's real feminism. How do you expect men to feel about women when they support that?
Women can't settle down without having some drama in their life every now and then even if there was equality which I can't see why there is not, they would bitch about something else. Men are weird.
Please note that last sentence was formulated to let the readers know that the writer is not biased.
I don't "hate" women, I just have a hard time trusting them because they seem to just get what they want from you, leave, and do it in the coldest way possible.
I dont hate women at all. The most important persons in my life are in fact women. My mom, sisters and my girlfriend. I think the problem is that you feel the hate men have toward women but in the same time you ignore the fact some women hate men as well. i think its mostly an online thing, in real life i dont see genders hate each other that much as on the net. Iam not sure its even hate, i think its more lack of respect and understanding that both genders have than an actual hate.
I've never hated women. I've always wanted to have a girlfriend but the entire female population that I have asked out (often after becoming their friend) always gives a negative answer or I have "insert relationship here". All of the ones i have interacted with don't mention they're taken until after i make a move
I will never hate women, but I do hate how a lot of women are now controlled by the media more on average then men are. A lot of women are only about themselves as this is how the media has controlled the minds of people into buying the best cars , houses, makeup etc... I will never hate women but I do wish that more would be themselves and be open to all people.
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I chose "Because they want equal rights without equal responsibility"; even though it is more like they want superior rights with little or no responsibility. But in all honesty all the reasons you give are true and come together with other reasons not mentioned to make up a whole list of why modern men dislike modern women.
Because they want equal rights without equal responsibility! >:(
No seriously, they used to be more innoncent and natural, and now they grub money. But then everyone do. Purpose of life used to be to have kids. Now is it having pointless fun and grub money. And that's why hate around 80 percent of them. And it's easy for us to rely on offensive stereotypes.
you need to review that define of yours of the word "hate"
I hate when I am powerless (specially when it comes to girlfriend being in troubles, and needing help), when I witness disgusting immature and toxic behaviors. But I don't and I can't "hate" women as a whole...
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Real men don't hate women. That gentle, nurturing support you give to your men is what keeps us sane in this crazy world. I'm sorry that not all men appreciate it and don't understand how important you really are.
I don't hate women, but it is very difficult to understand them sometimes. Even when you think you're on good terms you may not be. It always feels like a relationship has to cater to a woman rather than the man. Don't upset her, don't let her cry, whatever else.
It's not a constant thing, but things can flip from good to bad in an instant. Even with mothers or sister it's the same thing.
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It's a combination of things. Spiteful rejections, man-hating movements disguised as 'equal rights' movements, incessant demands in the dating scene from paying on the first date to initiating, mind games and playing hard to get, and 'player shaming' guys who just want and admit to seeking sex. And more.
C is the best description of the situation. Women want men to respect them the same way men respect men, but at the same time they also want to be treated like princesses.
Because feminism, because a few bad experiences all women are gold digging harlots, because women won't let them use them for sex, because of frustration and heartache.
so true lady
Gotta respectfully disagree. The cause in many cases is feminism and society as a whole including women becoming more narcissistic and sociopathic. This is caused by a major decline in morals and traditional values, which is caused greatly influenced by cultural Marxism, which feminism would be a part of.
No one can say all anybody. Not all women are bad, but a good enough amount are.
No guy expects girls to let him use them for sex. If I were married however I do expect my wife to be putting out regularly. My wife can expect the same from me. None of this I have a "headache" crap. Don't know if you think that's using women for sex or not by your definition. So many women getting married, and then think they have their hooks in him and don't have to have sex with their husband. WTF is up with that? Like it's some painful chore they have to endure? I see it all the time and it's rediculious. Then the guy cheats and the girl pisses and moans about how all guys are dogs. It's crazy.
@Exterminatore You obviously aren't aware that the guy women pick for their husband more often than not isn't the guy they are sexually attracted towards. Many women around their late 20's put physical attraction in the back burner in place of money, stability and if he is easy to control/manipulate. This is why many men who did not get play in their 20's and are now desperate for female company, suddenly have more options in their 30's. They are perfect meal ticket for women who had their fun with Chad, Jose, Jamal, Chang, Tyrone etc in their early 20's and now want the white picket fence and nice suburban lifestyle.
In short. Husband=PROVIDER. Guy girls had relationship with in their early 20's =Lover. This is general rule.
Most of us don't hate women. If you think we do, you're spending too much online.
Online I see lots of hate toward the opposite gender, from men and women. I could assume most women hate men if I was basing my opinion on girls in the Internet, but just spend a day outside talking to several women and you'll see that most women love men as much as men love them.
People are more true online than they are outside.
@BubbleBoy69 Pretty much. Most people these days (both men and women) are too cowardly to show their true colors in the real world since they have the internet and computers to protect themselves from physical and verbal confrontations.
Geez your just like my mom, no I don't hate women, not in the slightest. My big concern is the fact how modern feminist feel the need to 1. Fight for excess of rights and the denial of men's rights at times . 2. Kind of like other fanatical groups, the say they are for peace and stuff but when an "enemy of theirs" gets hurt or dies they rejoice, which is disgusting.
Males do not hate females. Your behavior today is not of a lady. This been going for thousands of years. Your main problem is you what to be the center of everything. It calls me, myself, and I. Self-center people are problems. Your relationship with others is all about what you can get from others. Females take a look in the mirror. That is who your problem is. We males are sick of your hell. We not putting up with it anymore.
My ex always used to say 'it is all about me.'
That said it all really.
I love women!
I dislike Western women though because most are manly + manipulative and have a princess mentality
Thank you.
I American first English goodly man of God.
Western women are joke and scam. Shower naked with your children. It from God word.
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I find and normal. How about you.
@Robin48 You find?
Is that right? You find?
You English still goodly bro. Tell us how you're an American again and how English is your first language... and how you get all butt-hurt when anyone asks you what your first language is...
@CheerGirl38139 You're one to talk.. Rather rude to push religion on region.
@LikeMike What the fuckety fuck are you talking about bro? Im not religious.
@CheerGirl38139 "I American first English goodly man of God.
Western women are joke and scam. Shower naked with your children. It from God word. "
You clearly didn't read what I said.. Go back and re-read. You're example #1, be proud.
@LikeMike Dude... You're totally off base.
That was directed at another user here. It was tongue in cheek... sarcasm... impersonation...
You just got here... you might want to have a clue without the hell you're talking about before you stick your foot in your mouth.
@CheerGirl38139 You admit to sarcasm, you make fun of someone else's opinion, and I don't think you know where you are.
@LikeMike What the fucking fuck are you talking about man?
Damn man... click on my avatar for fucks sake. It says "Princess of Sarcasm".
Are you fucking kidding me? I wasn't making fun of someone's opinion. I was making fun of a special snowflake user here that is an incestuous pedophile.
Like I said... you just got here... you have no clue what YOU are talking about, much less what (or whom) I was referring to.
@CheerGirl38139 So you think you're in the right? LOL way to make yourself look and sound shallow. Give up you can't win an argument that's not an argument. You just posted some rude shit on a thread that clearly states "Why do modern men hate women so much? What are we doing wrong then?"
@LikeMike Dude... I posted on this question because the aforementioned pedophile has me blocked. And I wanted to call him out. It's not the Asker, or this particular user's opinion that I was referencing. Again... you just got here...
Please... stop embarrassing yourself. You have NO idea what the fuck you're talking about. My post had nothing, ZERO, to do with this particular question.
Is this what you do? Join an online community and pick a fight with a regular user, having no background whatsoever on the subject matter? Because you look like a fool.
@LikeMike I feel sorry for you man. It's been a while since I've seen someone embarrass themselves so severely with their first post. Good luck.
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We on Girls Ask Guys are praying for you. Jesus loves you. He can help you with your problem.
@Robin48 Pretty sure only one of us has the problem... and it's not me Mr American goodly English man of God word.
@CheerGirl38139
You do have a problem, it is you. Try to be a lady. I see you also been telling others off. I am aware of these females in their early 20's to like to mouth people off. Jesus love you, he can help you to have the love of God for others.
@Robin48
What's your first language?
Would you like me to post the screen shots of where you private messaged me links to child pornography? Because I can. Keep going bro... keep going...
In a word, feminism. Feminism has been extremely divisive. It has vilified men for decades and turned women into whiny, entitled bitches with a victim complex. I think the thing that makes men most angry at women is that they still support feminism after all it has done and continues to do. They only acknowledge the good and deny all the bad or try to explain it away by saying "that's not real feminism". Of course it's real feminism. How do you expect men to feel about women when they support that?
I don't hate women, but there are too many jerks out here thinking that a feminine woman is weak, conditioning women to be more masculine. :-/
women are weaker than men, its a fact. them trying to be more like men is not going to make them stronger than they naturally are.
Women can't settle down without having some drama in their life every now and then even if there was equality which I can't see why there is not, they would bitch about something else. Men are weird.
Please note that last sentence was formulated to let the readers know that the writer is not biased.
I don't "hate" women, I just have a hard time trusting them because they seem to just get what they want from you, leave, and do it in the coldest way possible.
I dont hate women at all. The most important persons in my life are in fact women. My mom, sisters and my girlfriend.
I think the problem is that you feel the hate men have toward women but in the same time you ignore the fact some women hate men as well. i think its mostly an online thing, in real life i dont see genders hate each other that much as on the net.
Iam not sure its even hate, i think its more lack of respect and understanding that both genders have than an actual hate.
I love women! I don't understand them sometimes, but I love them anyway.
I've never hated women. I've always wanted to have a girlfriend but the entire female population that I have asked out (often after becoming their friend) always gives a negative answer or I have "insert relationship here". All of the ones i have interacted with don't mention they're taken until after i make a move
I will never hate women, but I do hate how a lot of women are now controlled by the media more on average then men are. A lot of women are only about themselves as this is how the media has controlled the minds of people into buying the best cars , houses, makeup etc... I will never hate women but I do wish that more would be themselves and be open to all people.
I chose "Because they want equal rights without equal responsibility"; even though it is more like they want superior rights with little or no responsibility. But in all honesty all the reasons you give are true and come together with other reasons not mentioned to make up a whole list of why modern men dislike modern women.
Because they want equal rights without equal responsibility! >:(
No seriously, they used to be more innoncent and natural, and now they grub money. But then everyone do. Purpose of life used to be to have kids. Now is it having pointless fun and grub money. And that's why hate around 80 percent of them. And it's easy for us to rely on offensive stereotypes.
you need to review that define of yours of the word "hate"
I hate when I am powerless (specially when it comes to girlfriend being in troubles, and needing help), when I witness disgusting immature and toxic behaviors.
But I don't and I can't "hate" women as a whole...
Real men don't hate women. That gentle, nurturing support you give to your men is what keeps us sane in this crazy world. I'm sorry that not all men appreciate it and don't understand how important you really are.
You are assuming they actually give "gentle nurturing support". In many cases it is the exact opposite.
@genuinlysensitive Even the most obnoxious bitch you know has a very lovely fragile creature inside. You just need the right tools to let her out.
Lol, no they are not all like that.
I don't hate women, but it is very difficult to understand them sometimes. Even when you think you're on good terms you may not be. It always feels like a relationship has to cater to a woman rather than the man. Don't upset her, don't let her cry, whatever else.
It's not a constant thing, but things can flip from good to bad in an instant. Even with mothers or sister it's the same thing.