Why Do Girls Think It's Not Cheating If They Make Out With Another Girl?

[Anonymous]

Disclaimer, I don't mean all girls only some. Also cheating is technically anything that goes against what you and your partner agreed to and if your partner is ok with it then it's not cheating. But in this case many of these girls never even got confirmation that it's ok and just assumed.


In my experience it seems many girls don't consider kissing another girl cheating. Most girls I have dated will kiss other girls at parties and when they tell me and I get upset they basically look at me like "Well it's not cheating if it's with another girl, and aren't you supposed to like that?" 😑😑

Most of my guy friends have the same experience, where their girlfriends will make out with others girls at parties, although my friends are ok with it, but their GFs did it without even talking to them first, so they are just lucky their BFs happen to be ok with it.

Anyone else here have this experience?

[coachTanthony]

If the girl i was dating was caught with another woman kissing in some smoky bar kissing and making out and i walked in... OH BOY.. here is what I would do... and you might want to sit down for this:

I would go to the bar and send them both a drink and make sure it was from the handsome devil in the other corner who wants to take them BOTH home tonight. And WTF what couple sits down and agrees to any of the nonsense you are talking about? Who does that? I mean really... babe.. hey just so we are on the same page you can't kiss any other women? LMAO OKAY

[JCT666]

The reason why is because girls think their boyfriends enjoy watching their girlfriends get sexually intimate with another girl.

But when it comes to me, they are highly mistaken, it's still cheating and I would be absolutely furious if I catch my girlfriend getting intimate with another girl.

[Raggatip]

Well just my opinion but it's clearly not anything serious if it's between two straight people of the same sex. I've had guys I'm seeing get with their guy friends as a joke and I just find it funny. It's been the same vice Versa

It does seem kinda backwards though, in that's it's considered okay whilst kissing the opposite sex is cheating so I Get where you're coming from. In my head there's nothing wrong with it tho

[Asker]

It's wrong to do it without knowing weather or not your partner would be fine with it.

[notamy]

It depends on what it means to you.
studies have found that girls more so consider emotional feeling toward something else while guys consider it more as physical action.

But I mean if it happens in good jest and is clearly not serious then it's fine as long as both partners are okay with it. If she's doing it secretly then sorry dude she cheatin

[Asker]

These girls just do it with the assumption that it's ok

[DGER20]

Cheating is cheating whether they make out with the opposite sex.

[ProfessorScrewEyes]

If i had a girlfriend and she did that, she could kiss my ass as she walks out the door of our relationship

[JennieF]

A lot of girls just think it's normal.