Girls, Do you feel bad , sad and sorry about men?

Question

Do you feel bad about men for having LOTS of facial hair, it's almost like a curse. Even if they shave it daily they never get to have smooth absolutely smooth face like you all have, naturally.
Guys have way lots of body hair including sometimes HAIRY chest, stomach, shoulders as well. While women don't have this, naturally!!
Yippee for women.
They have saggy hairy balls, EW..
Once they get older men get balding head , women rarely do... Their beards and body hair turns grey adding to his ugliness.

Women, ever feel bad sad and sorry about men?
Plus why do you date and give sex to men? Out of sympathy?

MlleCake · Accepted Answer

Where did you get all these silly ideas? There are men who get really hairy and men who don't, and men who fall somewhere in between and they are all fine and normal. Periods cause physical pain every month, and a host of other symptoms depending on the woman, plus periods are stigmatized and in some places women are even shut in a chicken coop while they have their periods; but hair on a man doesn't cause him pain. It's normal to get hairier after puberty. It's not yucky or gross. Where did you ever get this idea that women have less pubic hair? Women and men with a similar ethnicity tend to have very similar amounts of pubic hair. Where did you ever get this idea that most women hate body hair on a man? Some women dislike it, some women love it, some women don't care either way - in fact, I think most women don't care either way. Women are not naturally hairless. There are women who have natural mustaches, natural beards, our armpits get hairy, we get pubic hair, we get hair on our legs, and after menopause we get even more hair. Women have much more pressure to shave than men. There's also nothing wrong or ugly about a bald man.

Jigsaw_Gal · Accepted Answer

No. Men should be proud of the beards and chest hairs.

tough_cookie · Answer

I actually like men better if they have a nice beard.. but I like it short and well trimmed.. I think having a beard and hairy body its like for women having a nice hair cut.. but men never think about all the work it means.. You have to put time in combing it.. buy treatments.. special shampoos for your type of hair.. for the rest of the body hair.. we.. in majority wax, shave or depilete parts of our body.. like armpits, legs, the bikini zone, arms, some facial areas.. the eyebrows..
You should stop worring.. If you think you are too hairy, just invest a little more time and trimm nicely once a week, and about the beard.. if you grow to much beard, you have to have to have a nice machine so you can give form, or if you like it long.. then you have to go to the barber and stop worring...

And about the last question.. well.. I would feel sorry for a man that dont loves himself.. And I will never date a guy or have sex with him just out of sympathy... I have to feel attracted to the guy.. for sympathy I just would accept a coffee if he is already my friend.. and I would be clear about "BEING just friends".. I would not lead him on..

JeonJungkook · Answer

No, we don't feel sorry and why do you think women need to feel sorry. And why would we let anyone invade our privacy out of sympathy? Do you think were nuts? and a little correction girls do have naturally growing hair. Obviously because of female hormones its lesser than males. If I sound rude, I don't mean to be.
A bald guy looks clean but it is not quite attractive, but a lot of hair is too disgusting to lay with. You know what I mean right. A little trimming will do get the look. There are some woman who love hairy and some who love bald. For me i like a Chris Brown type of hair growth. I like a little facial hair around the jaw and above the lips but a beard is a little annoying if it comes to getting over the face. But honestly I don't feel sad. And I believe most woman would only let you lay with her if she is interested in you or for her own purposes, and would date you if they like you. Hair is not really problem. Women also get hair but we clean it. Only Because it seems unhygienic and would you guys like a girl who has hair in her armpits? No right. Keep it clean but don't get bald. At old age use hair oil.

Bananashine25 · Answer

To be honest I don't feel bad for them because of this. This a trait that makes men even much more Marlier. In many situation it makes them look handsome when they have it very well kept. That's for facial and as for body? Chest hair is not all that bad, my husband has chest hair not a lot but it's decent and I find it very sexy especially for his body because he works out a lot. Facial the same. He keeps it nice and neat. As for hair in the genital areas. I really don't mind it, but it's best when it's not around lol I don't wanna keep taking piece of pubes out of my mouth 😅 but men should embrace their hairiness and be proud and confident because there's nothing sexier than a confident hairy man who doesn't give a crap of what anyone thinks of it.

jarofawesome · Answer

No never felt bad, because 1 not all men are Extremely hairy and usually only take care of their facial hair and 2 women aren't naturally shaven everywhere, we just shave, and some women even have it worse than others just like some men do.

Based on these three posts it sounds to me like you have a hair complex and or fetish, blue anon

I dont really date in general because I don't care about having sex and don't want to get romantically attached to something when I'm still trying to figure out my life path yadda yadda.

simplyaramdomgirl · Answer

No, not really. Being a girls is not all pink and great. We have most of the hair that guys have, and some of us shave daily. The only thing that we don't have is beards, and some girls even have one. So no, I don't feel bad, sad and sorry for guys. It's natural to have hairy parts and for your hair to go gray. Even for you to go bald, everything that you've mentioned is just nature taking it's course. Also we date and have sex with guys because we find them attractive, it's how our brains are made. It's like asking a guy, why would you date a girl? We talk way too much
We fight a lot
We complain a lot
We feel too much
Honestly it's a miracle that someone tolerates how annoying a woman can be. by the way not saying that all girls are like this.

UglyKittenLovers9 · Answer

Well first of all you shouldn't think that you are not worthy as a man. You don't have to feel insecure about being a hairy men that is normal we are human ee have body hair that is normal and if you want to get rid of them then just do it. If that makey you feel insecure about yourself and makes you feel like people should think that you are someone who they need to feel bad. If you think that people need to feel bad about you is mostly because of that you feel bad about yourself. Try to love yourself and get rid off everything that makes you feel insecure that is gonna make you feel better 😊😊

LifeIsStrange13 · Answer

Ok woman still have to deal with shaving hair too! I mean we have it on our legs, armpits, private area, sometimes face (little moustache), arms (I have thin hair on mine).
We have to deal with pregnancy, periods and everything that comes with both of those.
Hormonal changes, birth control (which I have been very ill on before, damn side effects!)

So yes most woman may look prettier but that's because we maintain a beauty regime. Most of use face creams to get nice skin! It's not all that great being a woman.

Curlybeauty17 · Answer

No.
1.) I like facial hair on men.
2.) Women can have a lot of natural body hair and men don't necessarily have to have a lot of natural body hair but in either situation worst case scenario get waxed or shave.
3.) Having balls isn't as bad as having periods.
4.) Women can bald just usually not the same way men do. Women might lose patches of hair with alopecia.
5.) Everybody's hair turns gray when they get old unless you dye it.
6.) Women have sex with men because they are sexually attracted to them. Not out of sympathy.

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

I used to feel sorry for men only when they get kicked to their crotch but not anymore. Men don't feel sorry for women either. We suffer pain bcs period every month, most of us go through pregnancy sooner or later and we are laughed at because of our mood swings.

by the way hair is completely normal on both genders. Men tend to be more hairy, it's OK for normal girls! We aren't completely without body hair either, some have darker or longer body hair and it can make us nervous bcs it too. We simply like men, that's how most of us are born.

whitedahlia · Answer

Honestly, I prefer my man with body and facial hair. Something about it is so... sexy. And it's natural. If a man naturally doesn't have much body hair then that's fine too because it's *natural* and what he looks like. If he's covered in hair, that's fine because it's natural and nothing to be ashamed of - so why would I feel bad or sorry for him?
And why do women have sex with men? Come on. You can't be serious. Women get aroused too. Women get turned on and want sex too. There are so many things about men that we admire and appreciate. So, if you're asking if a woman checks a guy out for his body hair then, in my opinion, not really. Depends on the woman, I guess. But if it's a relationship then I'm with him for who he is and love everything about him.

parvulus · Answer

It's only human nature for men to have facial and body hair. Women don't naturally have smooth bodies, we get hair too and some women can be hairier than men on some parts of the body. I don't feel bad about it, why should I? Guys have a lot less to worry about than girls do. And it really is just preference. I prefer guys naturally hairy rather than completely smooth. Smoothness isn't appealing at all to me. I like manliness, and manliness is hairiness - and that's just my opinion. I don't want a feminine looking dude. Having a hairy body isn't a curse at all really, as there is a permanent solution now to it (laser hair removal) if someone has that big of a problem with it. Women get balding head too. Both women and men lose hair as they get older.

JaniyaRose · Answer

Most men I know are proud of their ability to grow a beard. I had one boyfriend who had particularly rough stubble that rubbed my face like sandpaper when he kissed me and gave me rashes. That guy I had to talk to about his facial hair care. But otherwise, I'm happy for guys to maintain their hair however they like.

Personally, I don't mind a bit of a beard. I probably draw the line and a mountain man beard. But if a beard doesn't overwhelm the guys face, they can look quite good. I'm also happy with clean shaven guys. I'm more attracted to the man than to the hair anyway =)

sweetheart_cupcake · Answer

Meh facial hair on guys really looks cute. I have a crush on a guy who has facial hair and I really think that it's the cutest ever!! He just doesn't know it. I don't feel bad or sorry for them, I actually feel happy for them, also, Some girls does have sex on their date coz they think that's going to make their relationship official and making them think they can keep the man that way by giving them "sex". Unlike girls who are confident, they wouldn't give that easy until they know the man is worthy

Glittergirl4 · Answer

We get hair too we just pluck and shave haha. But it's true we don't get nearly as much. I don't feel bad for guys, I love guys the way they are. Since the moment I came into this world I have loved guys, they are just so cute XD. I don't like super hairy but I like quite a bit of hair, it's really masculine to me. I planning on not having sex until I'm married, but the only person I would even consider having sex with at the moment is my boyfriend and I would be doing it out of love, not sympathy.

shan_shan · Answer

you make it sound like a disease honestly i dont feel bad sad or sorry if its about that you know everyone one day they will experience those things regardless of gender... too much hair shave (some girls find them sexy) nowday they have shaving powder that won't make hair grow faster after shaving and balding is genetic not everyone experience this grey hair colour it (nowdays youngstars turn their hair grey, I like them too)
why do men date and give sex to girls they have menstrual period every month its disgusting, vagina discharges? Out of sympath coz they lose blood every month😀
do you get my point?

Iwant2beLoved · Answer

I think judging my your questions you're really insecure about your natural chest and facial hair. Nothing to be ashamed of. Some women like that because they don't like the "boyish" look. You're 30, a lot of mature women like the beard and chest hair because is manly. I'm personally starting to like the stubble and hair on my man but I'm still young. Be more confident in yourself. That's more attractive than you being insecure about it. If women see you're confident, then they'll find it sexy. Not if you shy away.

TraceyB · Answer

first of all 💯lots of men just get better looking with age. I don't know why but you do. u say men get saggy balls, womens breasts sag (see its the same difference) . 😊and as for sympathy sex, i dont think its very caring or moral to have sex with a guy out of pity. bc chances are if he seems that green then he is likely to think u have feelings for him. a woman rarely will say "oh i only had sex with you out of pity". that in itself is a rejection , which will hurt his pride and his feelings- hence defeating the whole purpose of it.

Anonymous · Answer

OK I'm just gonna run this down in a list.
1. women can be plenty hairy too, we're just good at hiding it when we do have it.
2. Women can develop hair on their chest and stomachs, and those who do usually remove it.
3. I'd rather saggy ball hairs than a bikini wax
4. Baldings a part of life, and some people can rock a bald head.
5. Beards can be plenty attractive as well as body hair.
6. No, there's no reason to.
7. Why the hell wouldn't we? The reason you listed we don't really care about. and sympathy? if men were so gross we would've all turned gay quickly

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe you have some insecurities towards your manhood but bread, being hairy is all about what men are about. It's sexually attractive but of course this varies from each individual. I personally love beards when trimmed and styled well, and dick and balls are the literal symbol of masculinity and I love that. And just so you know not all girls are perfect, some girls are hairy and becuase women are expected to be hairless we have to wax and shave bc it's not feminine to have hair in places except our head. Girls are expected to be toned but not too muscular too. There's pros and cons both ways and also we don't give sex to men haha it's a 2 way.

Daiisyy · Answer

There is nothing wrong with a hairy man. Be proud of it. Women love confidence. Also women bleed out every month (in pain). After menopause women start getting hairs in their face. Breast cancer has been growing substantially. Some women are left without breasts. How do you think that would feel. So we shouldn't be so consumed with our looks. Some woman will love you for who you are, and any excessive hair grow is not gonna matter. I by the way love hairy men and so do a lot of women. Stop being insecure. Rather worry about yourself within :)

samhradh_leannan · Answer

Nah. Men have body and facial hair, but it's acceptable for them to have body and facial hair. Women have body hair and sometimes even facial hair, but it's not acceptable for them to have it, so we have to spend huge amounts of time and money to pretend we don't. Women are in a much more difficult position with this one. So no, I don't feel sorry for men at all when it comes to this topic.

Carley99 · Answer

Do men feel sorry for women we have to shave our pubis for them when we get older our Brest sag and butt sag too, period cramps, child pain and I've even heard that menopause is terrible so do I feel sorry for men no I don't we women have it a lot worse.

heather4N0w · Answer

Every girl likes different things. A friend of mine loves a man with a big beard and chest hair. I dont like a baby bum face, a little chest hair is nice and a little face hair is nice too. Woman have to shave their legs and under arms then men can shave their beards... its also neater to keep it nice and clean or neat. dont want to look like you came out of a caveman book!

taelormilan · Answer

No because we deal with the same thing... I personally love when a man has facial hair but I dislike chest hair. It really depends on the woman out with and her sown personal preferences. I never date or sleep with a man out of sympathy I believe in giving everyone a chance because sometimes the one that's right for you is the one you least expect.

NemuTheDeer · Answer

What the fudge. :o
Hair on a man's body are the most sexy thing in the world.
A hairy men is the best men. <3

And I don't have to feel bad cause I'm a really hairy girl. Guys, you should feel sorry for me.
Being a girl and having hair on my butt that I have to shave to feel like a real woman. :c

BulooAskingYou · Answer

We all are destined to become old, grey and saggy. Lol. Sex is special, if I had sex when it wasn't special I felt gross and ashamed. (Like when I had a one night stand) do you know girls have hairy assholes like men? Lol do you know most women have to pluck chin hairs? Woman are hairy too!!

mmmbdison · Answer

But let's be honest though, you don't have a 20 inch new born squeeze out of your (at largest and after it's done squeezing its way through your practically closed cervix) 2-3 inch vagina. Or medium-heavy bleeding every single month of most of your life. Obviously, that doesn't give women an upper hand - but if you try to compare the desire to have or not have balls and body hair to labor and periods, there's not much to compare.

Misstulip · Answer

I don't feel bad for men as in appearance wise because I feel like those traits are embraced by many people. Having some body hair is considered attractive in many cultures. However, I feel as if the maltreatment of men by some women have been normalized and ignored in today's society, especially with the rise of 3rd wave feminism.

MJB0319 · Answer

I don't feel sorry for men for being hairy because if they want smoother skin without the hair then go have yourself waxed. There are solutions to this now. I want to date a man who does not look like a plastic doll. If a man is hairy then he would appreciate my smoothness more. Plus, I heard that hair growth is determined by testosterone (hormones) that contributes to sex drive. So I guess, sex with hairy men is better than those who are smooth.

wingattebaby16 · Answer

I love hairy men, esp hairy chests and full beards. I sometimes wish I could be a guy for a day... to see how it feels to have muscles, have a dick, and be able to shoot cum... guys act like they are "dying" when they ejaculate and I think it would be kewl to know how they feel. AND not having a Period! OMG, that would be awesome!

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