Sent flowers. If no response, is it over?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend and I had an argument last week. I gave her three days of space, letting her cool down... she's been ignoring my texts and calls. Today, I decided to send her her favorite flowers w/a little teddy bear included (her nickname is bear).

If she doesn't contact me today after this, should I just move on? I mean, it's flowers and a teddy bear... if she cannot forgive me after that, it's over, right?

[coachTanthony]

What did you do wrong? An argument shouldn't be someones fault should it? If she is mad because you argued what is going to happen next time this happens? Will you need a membership to the card and teddy bear factory for the rest of your life?

[OlderAndWiser]

Flowers and a teddy bear do not substitute for an apology, if that is required by the circumstances. Were you at fault in the argument?

[Maypai]

Give her a few more days. You don't want to rush to make a decision that you will later regret. You could also send her a text explaining how things are going to end up if she doesn't respond to you. That should invoke a reaction.

[IceCubedude]

No, my friend did this and he was his gfs bitch, the moment i told him to move on and never apologize he admits life got better and his girlfriend got much nicer and now she's the one calling him to apologize , never be a girls btich.

[Maypai]

@IceCubedude I understand what you mean, but you can't play games in relationships. That's how they end... on bad terms. You need to have CLEAR communication.

[IceCubedude]

yes true if you care you should have clear communication but he texted, called and sent her a teddy bear and flowers if that doesn't get a reaction out of her then its safe to assume she thinks of him as her little bitch and will continue to think that til he somehow changes that.

[mutedaisy]

Shouldn't you get words of confirmation first? It's stupid to just move on after sending a gift, not everyone can be bought off. Although, I must digress. You want to move on, so don't bother sending anything.

[TiffyPuff]

If she doesn't contact you in about another week, move on.

[FatherJack]

Prepare to move on , if these arguments are frequent , then definitely end it !!

[ButtHurt]

It depends what you did

[IceCubedude]

yes you move on

[burningheart]

She's done

[Anonymous]

what did you do?