Accidentally hurt my brother badly. How do I make it up to him?

[Anonymous]

I was chilling out in front of the TV before school today when my older brother decided to wrestle with me. It was funny, but things went bad really fast when he pinned me. In my struggle to free myself, I accidentally kneed him... really, REALLY hard... right in his... you know. The privates. His boy-parts. "Down there."

He dropped to the floor and started rolling around, holding them. I felt TERRIBLE. I thought I'd totally smashed his berries. He kept asking me why I'd kick him there, and I said it was an accident, but he didn't believe me.

Anyway, it obviously hurt like hell and I feel like crap for attacking his manhood like that. If I could un-kick them, I'd do it in a second.

Is there any way I could make this up to him? I'd let him kick my testicles back if he had any. I guess I could let him kick me in the vajayjay, but there has to be a less painful solution.

[Rakmo_Edaket]

Don't think of it as eye for an eye and tooth for a tooth... You might have given him physical pain... But there is nothing that an emotion heal cannot heal... Try doing something for him... Try expressing your feeling of guilt in some form... Maybe a poem... Or a drawing... Or a something he likes... Maybe something sweet... Ice cream... Chocolate... His fav dish... Even a sweet little speech of why you feeling so guilty and a kiss will work... In fact... That works the best... Do whatever you can... But make him happy... And let him know you are externally sorry for what you have done...

[BertMacklinFBI]

double cheeseburger and fries with his flavor of milkshake after school

[Asker]

Lol but he's veeeeegan.

[RAFinkel]

Hi asker, I am probably about twice your age and I can tell you that you really don't need to worry about it. Over the years I have probably gotten my brother down there hundreds of times. When we were your age or younger used to pout and mope around like he was dying but he is a lot tougher down there now and kind of just accepts it as a part of life living with me I guess. He said to tell you that your brother was either get used to it or forget about it.

[CheerGirl38139]

Ok well...

I read through this and it seems that you are rejecting every suggestion people have given.

So... I think you're gonna just have to kiss it and make it better. 😘

Good luck and Great question. XoXo

[Prettygurl12]

He'll be fine.

Don't worry about it. Unless he goes to the ER for it... it's fine. It happens. If God minded men getting their junk hit/injured He wouldn't have put them on the outside of their bodies.

[Asker]

Yeah, I'm sure. Still feel like I should make amends. D:

[Prettygurl12]

You said sorry.

[Asker]

"Sorry" doesn't fix kicked balls.

[Prettygurl12]

No but neither does anything other than time. So... he'll live. You'll both be fine. If you let this get to you too much then you won't be able to kick a guy there if you actually need to in the future.

[GagChickLol]

Tbh I agree with him? My sister pissed me off a lot when she kicked me in the crotch and I don't even have a pair of nuts or a penis.

[Easy1134]

Love your attitude!

[sugarxrush]

He'll get over it. Maybe get him a chocolate and write a little note "sorry i kneed you" and leave it in his room when he's not there.

[Asker]

Lol that would just sound like I'm mocking him. :(

[sugarxrush]

Maybe throw in a hug and give him something he likes in person. That's what my brother would want xD In time you'll both laugh about it :) It's a moment of pain for them guys, but I'm absolutely sure he holds no anger towards you since it wasn't done on purpose. :) I have accidentally kicked my boyfriend a few times haha damn my leg control xD

[GagChickLol]

Just don't give him chocolate with crushed nuts. >__<

[WestleyRudd]

I have 2 older sisters. Sometimes tgats what it takes to make them stop. Trust me. He'll be fine. I've been hit kicked and about everything else down there. I know you feel terrible but he can suck it up or he's NOT a man. Hate to be harsh but thats how it is. The best thing is just to give him a heartfelt apology in person.

[cxxkiekitty]

Tell him sorry and ask if there's anything you can do to make it up

[Asker]

I said sorry... He didn't wanna hear it, just wanted to yell at me for smashing his stuff. :/

[cxxkiekitty]

Yell back louder and sound pissed off "I didn't fucking mean it!" And he'll know your serious. You have to put a serious and mad tone in it.

[Asker]

I really... didn't want to yell at someone who was dying on the floor after a kick in the testicles... a kick from ME no less... It seems really evil lol.

[Nik1hil]

https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/but-why.gif

Why do you want to make up to him! He pinned you down, he deserved it! It will also be a warning not to do that again!..
Although food is best way to make up.
MAKE him something nice, say him you are sorry about this time but next time it will be worse and you won't even be sorry!..

[RebeccaJ23]

Oh don't worry, he'll either get used to it or he'll forget about it soon enough. I am slightly younger than you and I've hit my brother "down there" hundreds of times over the years. He used to put up a fight, but now I think he's got used to it and accepts it as part of life with me haha! Seriously though, he'll either get used to it and it won't be a big deal, or he'll forget about this incident.

[vlx-na]

Why do you girls always aim for the nuts, can't you just kick him somewhere else?

[Pepperjack]

Getting kicked in the balls is extremly painful for a short amount of time (unless the testicles are either damaged internally or something of that sort). Assuming they aren't broken (god i hope) he will get over it, im sure he relises it was an accient.

[Anonymous]

Don't worry the pain will last for few minutes or something. Keep quiet and act as if you are least bothered. If he complains about the pain after two or three days. you might need to be serious, you need to take him to a doctor. usually the pain lasts for few minutes. but I think you should not kick here on on his testicles, girl you don't know how much it pains. If it is serious problem he'll never become a Dad.

[CapnHawk]

Your brother initiated the wrestling match. It's his fault he got whacked in the nuts, not yours. He needs to learn that if you dish it out, you'd better be able to take it in return.

[lovelyhoneybones]

Just apologize to him. You guys are siblings, it happens. My brother and I wrestle all the time, when we hurt each other we just move on.

[OlderAndWiser]

Letting him inflict pain on you does not undo the harm you did to him. Maybe you could arrange a date for him with one of your cute friends.

[Intraluminal]

He'll get over it. You apologized. That's enough. He was just in so much pain that he forget that that sometimes happens.

[Anonymous]

Ow... my girlfriend once did that to me. It wasn't hard, but I still pretty much dropped and curled up. But jeez, how hard ya hit him?

[realperson02]

nah he's your bro. you don't have to anything to make up because it was his idea.

[Anonymous]

he'll get over it. Just let him know that you're really a guy with a ballbusting fetish and this made up story won't hurt him any more. ;)

[chuy10]

that's why he shouldn't be wrestling with you your reaction was to defend yourself just apologize and tell him how bad you feel

[Anonymous]

Ooh, this story made me laugh and cringe! He's not gonna fight you again. Too dangerous for his gumdrops.

[awesomeadam18]

buy him sweets or take him for a day out

[davesmit16]

have to massage them to make him feel better

[casscade]

whats his age?

[Asker]

19 years old

[casscade]

ok then get him a new keyboard / mouse if he games on a pc but if he games on console get him a new game , but if its neither then a new pair of sneakers should do the trick...

[Anonymous]

Omg he's gonna die. Call an ambalamps!!