Strong women more submissive in bed?

[Anonymous]

Okay so i am personally quite a strong independent woman and some would maybe say bossy however in the bedroom i like my guy to take full charge of me and have his way with me in some aspects of course i have limits but you get the idea. Is this common to be totally opposite of what we're like in everyday life?

[MovesLikeJagger]

Yes this is very common and normal. Often, a hard-charging Type A personality career woman thrives on being dominant and aggressive in the workplace. But in most cases, they are happy to give up control when back at home. I'm sure it's no fun being the boss 24/7. At home, let your man lead. Unfortunately, there are so many men these days who refuse the leadership position at home... leaving the wife in charge even at home and just eventually burning out.

[FakeName123]

Its quite a common experience and from my observation is a way of counter-balancing.

You say you are somewhat bossy and independent, but you quite possibly do not want to be that the entire time. Thus as a result your sexual needs try to balance it out and combined with female natural tendency to be submissive it becomes a strong submissive drive rather than a subtle one.

[wittymilf]

I think this is pretty common. I thought it was strange too, but I think it just comes down to being tired of having to be in charge all the time. But also there's a certain power in giving away your power by choice. And it seems like a pretty special gift to give because your power makes you successful in the work place.

[theharlequin]

In my experience, it's more common for women who have more extreme personalities. Dominant women wanting to be dominated, submissive women wanting to take charge, etc. It's like taking a break from themselves and expressing a part of their nature that they usually repress. The women with more moderate personalities seem to have less of a shift in sexual desire.

I will make note that guys don't tend to follow this pattern. I'm a very dominant guy, and I remain very dominant in my sexuality.

[iamCreed]

I would say, we all act.
we aren't who we are actually.
we are some else in front of parents/family
we are some else in front our siblings
we are some else in front of close friends
friends
bfs gfs
colleagues
better halves
children
any more...
we act always and b a different individual in front all of these people.
so we can b totally opposite or b the same, depends on how we connect to that other individual

[sachinbn]

how we react depends from person to person , you jus have to be genuine by urself, Ur soul will change its mood and makes right choice how you gotto , on bed obvious guy will take full charge and makes it beautiful , cos he is the rider and you just stay by heart​ , don judge and compare between the life scenarios

[advaj98]

Well kind of because you'd like to know what the other side is like kind of like me I'm very submissive in the terms of everyday life but in the bedroom I like playing the alpha

[SonOfReinhard98]

No such thing as "strong" women.

[Anonymous]

I don't think so, I'm strong and dominant.

[Seppelson]

yes but I thought It's just common for guys

[BertMacklinFBI]

it's in your nature.