Why are women less pressurized to be good in bed?

Question

We always hear people talking about men being good or bad in bed and very rarely hear the opposite case

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

Since men often come quickly and appear to be more visual than women, it takes very little to satisfy a male. That warm hole is often a giant trigger for instant, though not deep, satisfaction. This is more true with young males.

Women mostly just need to be THERE. Men have to learn a few tricks since women's orgasms are often harder to come by: yes it's punny, but true. So men being good in bed involves doing some things to satisfy a woman, which takes time and patience.

Just inserting a penis doesn't end with a woman orgasming, while the converse is often true for a man. Penis in, orgasm out!

So, though women most often only have to be alive and reasonably attractive to give a man an orgasm, men need to have skills to give a woman an orgasm. We're built differently, is all.

laly520 · Accepted Answer

cuz she won't be the one doing the most n main part

ManOnFire · Accepted Answer

Men want good sex, but if they aren't getting it they're scared to complain. Most women think all they need to do is show up simply because they're women. So then the guys will cheat with a woman who knows how to satisfy him.

Women get angry about it but they should've thought about that before he went to another woman. Learn to realize that you are not the goddess you think you are. When you view men as sexually inferior, they will just show you how wrong you are when they get into another woman's bed. I'm not condoning cheating, but I did explain this in my Take about why men cheat on attractive girlfriends and wives.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's MUCH easier for a woman to get a guy off than vice versa

desidoll · Answer

I think it is because men are the “giver” and women are the “receiver” I also notice men tend to be less picky on how bad or good a woman is in the bed as long as he gets the sex. Many men won’t say anything to a woman who is bad because he is afraid she is not going to sleep with him anymore. Women don’t mind telling the truth because it is so much easier for us to get sex from another guy if this one dude gets offended and leave. Of course this is not about getting into a serious relationship. We are talking just about sex here.

Anonymous · Answer

I hear a lot of men complaining about woman who look hot but just lay there. Just as much as woman judge men. I think some people generally like to complain as a way of conversation.

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

Good question. Most decent looking women also are less pressurized in a lot of things in society and in life, besides expectation of raising kids or being a homemaker/tidy up 'er. I'd say that it's because most of the time and the way Hollywood fiction shows it also, "the guy does most of the pelvic work, lol" if not all of the lead 😀🎀

Cheapskate · Answer

I think because most men are just happy to be having sex. Like Louis CK said, for a man, having sex is literally the best thing in the world.

gorydetails · Answer

Because a woman can lay there and the guy will cum.

Anonymous · Answer

Because women are entitled. Always been, they receive, men give. As much as the feminists like to spin things around. As for the chick who says men are responsible for sex just shows how much feminists spin things around when it's time to take accountability. If men are responsible for sex, why are women the gatekeepers for it. The hoppcracy!

genericname85 · Answer

cause typically the man manages to cum either way. even though i personally had sexual encounters where she came but i didn't. that doesn't seem to be a thing that men typically experience.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

If you're a girl, you don't HAVE to be good! You just have to be THERE!!

handsomelad70 · Answer

They ARE pressured to satisfy their man, while we boys are conditioned to be performance studs.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Because women are always taken so leniently when they shouldn’t be

boggboss · Answer

Because sex tends to be male lead

KrazyJCD2002 · Answer

cuz they just gotta take it all just depends how he gives it

Anonymous · Answer

Because women give birth to children , men are responsible for sex

Peridot25 · Answer

Honestly, I think it’s pretty equal. Like, a man wouldn’t go for an inexperienced woman.

mobiusforniner · Answer

LOL. Pressurized. As in pumping a fluid into a vessel?

Anonymous · Answer

Update: makes sense

grega239 · Answer

Because its treated as a favor to men

IslaTheWitch · Answer

maybe because men rarely complain?

Nikki1989 · Answer

Because men are 1000 times more likely to fail in the bedroom.

Anonymous · Answer

Cause they’re the one with the size and the ones doing the f—king lmao

Anonymous · Answer

It's a gender bias

Rangers · Answer

Because we live in a matriarchal society

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