i know this might be a bit late but I have the same problem with my boyfriend. He grew up on a farm and only ever had one girlf so he still has butterfly dreams and cupid hearts on his mind. I grew up clubbing and being pretty sociable in the same way as you. I think he is insecure and jealous and a little naive, he thinks I suffer from histrionic personality disorder. LOL. The only way to solve it is to keep talking about how we feel about different situations and events. The more you talk about your intentions and motifs behind your behavior the more you will understand how each other think and find common ground. He will be more at ease, you will learn to act a "little" differently to spare his feelings. If you really love each other and this is the only real problem, I think it's no problem at all. Good Luck and stay happy:)
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I can sort of relate to your problem. I used to be with a guy who would very enthusiastically introduce me to leads of his male friends and then sit back and carefully observe how I interacted with them. I would be just like you - friendly, talkative, laughing, open. Then later on, he would start dropping hints about how he thinks I'm having affairs with his friends, which was always completely untrue. I broke up with him, as I couldn't tolerate his mistrust anymore. I think you should ask your guy how exactly he wants you to interact with his friends. To me, your behaviour sounds perfectly normal, plus it is perfectly understandable that you want his friends to like you. Def ask him what the heck he wants. Good luck!
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well if I'm honest that's just who you are, and it doesn't sound flirty it just sounds friendly, I can understand it might be upsetting him but he seems a bit over protective to me and he needs to chill back a bit more. in life just be yourself xx
Pls I will need some advice from a guy. My boyfriend says he loves me a lot and the only problem he has with me is that he sees me as a flirt becos I have a likeable personality and every guys went to get to know me and he is not finding it funny at all. Pls how do I make him see things differently cos we live in different countries
I was the friendly one, my x was the jealous one. Someone who is that insecure probably isn't able to give you the mature love you deserve. If you change your whole personality to please him who will you be? I am so glad I am not with a jealous control freak anymore.
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