Now she’s moved elsewhere but she still reaches out to me from time to time. I haven't made much effort to message her since she’s seeing someone and I don’t want to risk hurting myself on her again.
However, over the last year or so it seems she only reaches out when she needs support, or when she’s lonely and wants to feel connected to someone, even though she has friends over there and a stable boyfriend. I get the feeling she messages me because she knows i'll provide that support, but she never wants to get too much into things, only enough for her to know i'm there for her. I respect that boundary, butOtherwise, she never messages me for shits. I don’t get it, why does she keep messaging me? Whenever we talk she says she misses me and asks about my life, but I’m paranoid she’s pretending to care and using me for emotional support, for a confidence booster, and nothing more simply bc she knows I care about her. Am I being crazy or not?
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