When girls wear leggings and a tank top are they asking to be stared at?

[John_Doesnt]

If I wear a clown costume I'm asking to be stared at. So why should it be any different for a woman who you can see her butt crack through her pants?

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So this guy isn't asking to be stared at? My point is it's human nature to stare at hot people.
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+1 y

I just remembered something important: women are great liars. So why should I even trust these answers?

[UNCWgal63]

They're probably not asking for it in the sense that they put that outfit on in the morning to receive stares all day. They likely put it on because it's comfortable and that's what they want to wear.

And then it gets tricky. Most women tell guys to "f**k off and that they're not asking for attention" when a guy stares. But the fact is that that outfit calls for attention whether they like it or not. So sure, they may not put on leggings for the purpose of getting stared at, but they should expect it to happen and deal with the consequences if they wear them.

I have every right to wear a bikini around all day if I wanted to. I may wear it just because I want to, not for the purpose of getting attention. But I understand that I will have to deal with the extra attention that comes with my decision to wear the bikini. And that's where some girls go wrong, because they get angry at guys for staring, despite the fact that they're wearing an outfit that calls for their attention. And that's not right.

[Wwwyzzerdd]

She gets it.

[UNCWgal63]

Thank you🙏

[jul4a]

Jesus christ... girls just want to wear comfortable clothes & they aren't necessarily dressing up for you
Maybe you should stop being creepy and looking at girls like they are objects to please you and stray away from being a pervert

[thischickluvsya]

staring is rude regardless of the woman's attire. those cloths are very comfortable and the only way to know if she wants people to notice certain parts of her body is to ask. she may also just love the way the outfit looks.

[Anonymous]

No but dressing certain ways draws certain attention. Like someone going to a funeral and wearing a bright fluoescent yellow dress while everyone else will be in black. Certain things draw attention and this is actually something taught in art class. Of course nobody deserves to be stared at or cat called. But she shouldn't be surprised if guys look or find her attractive in a respectful way.

[Opinion Owner]

No he isn't asking to be stared at though, it would make sense if women looked at him and thought he was attractive. It also wouldn't be disrespectful to for women to find him attractive

[MadeInAmerica]

Seeing as someone wearing a clown costume is way more of a rarity and weirder thing to see on the street then something as common as leggings is a poor analogy to justify being a pervert and staring at a women for an uncomfortable and unreasonable amount of time. Creepy.

[Watermelon15]

No one is asking for anything unless they are asking with words. Wearing a costume is not the same as wearing regular clothes. My god, just let people wear whatever they want without objectifying them.

[John_Doesnt]

"Objectifying"? Sounds like a feminazi rant.

[Wwwyzzerdd]

Definitely a Feminazi.

[Watermelon15]

I said people not women - saying men can't wear stuff is also objectifying.

[Wwwyzzerdd]

Phrasing!

[Watermelon15]

@Wwwyzzerdd Huh?

[Wwwyzzerdd]

Oh, were you trying to have a serious discussion or were you arguing with an emotional appeal fallacy?

[Watermelon15]

@Wwwyzzerdd You seem very immature

[snowangle]

If my neighbor is mowing his lawn without his shirt on, is it okay for me to stand there and gawk at him?

Maybe that's just how she's comfortable dressing. If you must look, that's fine, but don't stare. It's just rude.

[snowangle]

Again: feel free to LOOK. But flat out STARING is rude. Even if someone is dressed in a clown costume, I'm not gonna gawk at them like a moron.

[Wwwyzzerdd]

Chris Evans in basketball shorts: STOP STARING.

[Viranda]

She want their beauty to be admired by everyone without discriminating any gender. So it is okay to look at her and recognize her beautiness. What is not correct is harrasing her.

[Viranda]

The guy in the update is totally looking for stares, but not harrasement.

[John_Doesnt]

But a woman isn't looking for stares? This is why I don't respect a woman's intelligence.

[Viranda]

She is, I said it. But she is not looking for harrasement either.

[Wwwyzzerdd]

Agreed, but many girls take it to the next level and get defensive if they get compliments from guys. Then that guy is standing there thinking "Well if she didn't want me complimenting her on going to the gym and wearing skintight clothes then why did she wear that expecting nobody to talk to her?"

[Viranda]

@Wwwyzzerdd A stranger doesn't have any right to tell a girl how much he would want to have sex with her, that's harrasement. Same way around. Anyone has the right to want to have sex with anyone, but noone has the right of telling anyone that without his consent, because doing so implys violating his human right of dignity.

[ImACowgirl]

leggings and tank tops aren't sluty unless they're designed inappropriate. It depends on the design otherwise quit bein a perb

[ImACowgirl]

perv***

[Anonymous]

No woman is ever asking to be leered or stared at, not matter how she dresses. Get that idea firmly in your head. Staring is rude. Don't do it. The end.

[Opinion Owner]

He's out jogging in the heat. That's all I can or should presume from that picture. If I encountered him in public, that's all I would presume. He doesn't exist in this world for me to leer at him.

Because

Staring is rude. Staring is rude. You learned it at age 3. Staring is rude. Sing it with me kids...

Staring is rude. Leering is rude. Catcalls are rude, and you never have an excuse.
Your learned it in childhood, you learned it as a teen. Staring is not a compliment.. it's just mean...

Because

Staring is rude. Staring is rude.

(Guitar solo)

Staring is rude.

(Oboe solo.)

Staring is rude.

(Cue the children's choir.)

Staring is rude...

I'm sure you won't get it. You'll probably call me names like prude. But you know as well as I do... staring is ruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuude. (I hit a Mariah Carey note there.)

[John_Doesnt]

So you speak for every woman in the world? No woman EVER?

[Wwwyzzerdd]

Her outfit calls for attention then she gets mad when she gets attention from men she isn't attracted to.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok kids, on three

1, 2, 3

Staring is rude. Staring is rude.
You know what you're doing.
You're trying to be crude.

You can whine like a baby.
Cry like a child.
But you know what we mean when we say

staring is rude
staring is rude
Your momma done taught you
Staring is rude

You know where your eyes are
You're not a stupid dude
quit making excuses
because
we know
that you know
That staring is rude. Staring is rude. You know the difference
You just want to be rude.
You want permission.
You want a pass.
But that just makes you
a big giant ass

Staring is Rude
Staring is Rude

Everyone, welcome the Staring is Rude Singers to the stage

Staring is rude.
Staring is rude.
You're not a dum dum
Just a horny dude

But don't be a dickweed
or cry when we bust you
you knew all along that'
Staring is Rude
Leering is Rude
It's an asshole move

Another chorus shall we?

[Lyndsielee666]

Leggings aren't see through friend... Unless they're old or cheap material.
I don't fit in jeans so I live in leggings lmfao

[DevikaButts95]

No. But like, honestly it's public eye. I know whenever I'm in that outfit guys are gunna stare at my butt all day.

[IAmRedThunder]

Sometimes I wear leggings that I don't know are see through haha. So it could be on accident if you can see their crack

[Wwwyzzerdd]

Need more women like her. "I didn't know I was topless!" Don't worry, we noticed it for you.

[Gonetowardthewind]

I mean if you are out in public, you have no expectation of privacy in the US, so anyone can stare at anyone

[luvstoned4him]

I guess one who does that must expect some stares. Its inevitable

[Bleepasaurus_RexEwww]

Nope it just means "it's hot outside and I was lazy"

[Bleepasaurus_RexEwww]

Yeah I'm not going to stare at him

[moonpie89]

Have you ever worn leggings and a tank top? The outfit is comfortable as eff

[Wwwyzzerdd]

I have not. Yet.

[Whatthefluff]

Not at all. I just wear it for comfort.

[Wingedz]

Usually, but I would eat it instead.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

She know what she doing. She desires attention.

[mT2359]

girls want to be stared at. not ogled.

[mT2359]

human nature is to pay attention to the differences or prize out the odd one out in all of us. A pair of leggings and tank top in a group of 100 girls won't make a difference. Thats y girls always want to know what other girls are wearing before they decide on what to wear.

[Anonymous]

They like it. Check her out all you want.

[Anonymous]

Depends, only if the guy staring is hot

[Wwwyzzerdd]

Indeed.

[melanieeeB]

nope

[GmG100]

it depends

[LGRITN]

You're correct.

[Anonymous]

Some really aim that