What if a girl eats a lot on the very first date?

Question

I am a foodie and i like to eat. I dont care whether its a first date or second i order what i like to eat and i eat it all. So i am just curious what guys think about it?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

A few things I have to say.
1. If she eats way more than me then I expect her to split the bill or pay for her own meal. I don't eat much so paying 4x the money for food I will never touch is unfair to me.
2. If she eats big meals, that's fine as long as she takes care of her body and health. I don't want to worry about getting an obese and unhealthy future wife.
3. Again, it's fine as long as she still manages to talk and listen during our date. The first couple of dates should be spent with more talking because they are about getting to know each other. If she just sits there shoving as much food into her mouth as she can and doesn't talk or listen then that's a no-no.

uhhwhatsmyusername · Accepted Answer

all these guys are funny talking about just as long as she's not fat... you're pathetic. If you're not into big women would you be on a date with them in the first place? Anyways I like my woman to be herself so if you like to eat, eat

BrileyCat · Accepted Answer

i love food . i love and enjoy what i'm eating . and when i can get away with it .
i chew my food with my mouth open . with my elbows on the table . it's fun breaking rules
of etiquette . having no manners eating messy foods . i love slurping my sodas and spaghetti .
i'll lick the plate and pick my teeth . it gets me hot . idc who it offends or grosses out .
my dates like watching me . my older cbf thinks i'm my most sexy charming self when i'm eating .

RJGraveyTrain · Accepted Answer

Honestly I don't see it being a problem, most guys aren't going to look at a normal girl and assume if she eats well when you go out to dinner that it has any sort of connotation or view into the future. I eat healthy and workout, but if I go out to eat I'm not that bitch that orders a 12-16 dollar salad just to impress a guy. I'm going to eat what I feel like eating too. Lol. Just mind basic table manners and you should be A-Okay.

Astoriana · Accepted Answer

Man, if we're going on a dinner date, I'm eating real food. Fuck that. I work hard and honestly I don't care if some insecure fuckboy thinks it's sexy for girls to be anorexic. Plus, if the date is awful, the food is the only good part of the interaction.

Bindos · Answer

Girls that like their food are hot, food is one of the best things there is and a girl that loves food as much as I do is pretty great, I mean not like "OH YEA I LOVE WOMEN WHO JUST EAT KILOS OF FAT EVERY DAY" and without being mean not someone that eats so much they are over weight but like someone who is slightly obsessed about good tasting food and likes to go out to new off the beaten tracks restaurants to find new flavours or just spend the night eating loads of pasta in bed together... yea thats pretty hot... but then thats just my views. Tbh when you go out for a date and you can see how much she is enjoying the food and the quality and just eats loads that is hot

fashionguy17 · Answer

I don't care if you eat a lot. However, if you get a shit load of food for a first date and you expect me to pay, you're dreaming 😂. I remember I went on a date to Chilis with a fitness instructor. She used to be a former fat girl. Although she was in shape and fit, she still ate like a fat girl. She got over $150 in food and thought I was going to pay for that shit. Needless to say, there wasn't a second date.

If you eat a lot... cool. Just make sure you don't order too much on the first date and be mindful of your dates money. People have bills. We can't afford to be paying that much for a meal, especially on a first date.

Tdieseler · Answer

Thats fucking hot... its way better to watch a woman eat... and being open about that shit... than to watch her order a salad, knowing full well she was eyeing the steak section. thats irritating. i'd rather know you are a budding fatty, ahead of time lol...
i don't mind a woman that eats... just keep your figure.

DarthLadyKiller · Answer

I would be happy that she was comfortable being herself around me. I think it would be cute if she was hungry and as a food lover myself, we would have lots to talk about. Obviously, if she is really piggy and slobby with it, then that would be unattractive but I am ok.

ice_cream · Answer

I really love food so much I am not so healthy but I don't like destroying my body also the guy would pay so if I am hungry I would eat a lot as much as I want and pay for my meals. mom keeps yelling at me till now for eating a lot in public especially in front of guys but who cares food is attractive :p :p 😻😻

godfatherfan · Answer

Do women seriously think about this? If I am with a woman and we go out to eat and she just gets a salad or some kind of rabbit food there is no way our relationship is going to work. If she dives into the cheese fries and takes some of mine... match made in heaven...

jakemiller1230 · Answer

It's cool with me in college i dated a girl who was 5"6 and 120 pounds and still dieted constantly and didn't like to go out for dinner cause slot of places in the college town were un healthy. It was super annoying tbh so if rather a girl be less strict diet wise.

IwanderIwonder · Answer

I'll just think " Maybe she hasn't eaten all day."
Or simply that she enjoys food/eating. I'd rather someone order a proper meal than someone order "Just a (not big) salad", who's she? Seinfeld?
It's not a turn off, if anything it could be interpreted as her being comfortable.
Who wants an uncomfortable date?

If she "Attacks" the food, burps, uses her finger (nails) to pick her teeth and then unbuttons her pants and rubs her tummy. That's an entirely different story.

Anonymous · Answer

My ex husband said he knew I was girlfriend material when I pulled every last bit of meat off a T-bone and scraped a baked potato clean on our first date.

noseene · Answer

I wouldn't care at all, it's nice is she's got a healthy appetite. :) I'd appreciate though if she told me before the date so that I know to bring enough money. If she orders food worth like 100$ or more, I'd be quite embarrassed if I don't have enough cash on me to pick up the tab.

chuckklez · Answer

i dont care if a girl eats a lot on the first date because i guess that means she is comfortable. however, if the date isn't going well or it feels like she just wants me to buy her food and thats it then she won't hear from me again lol.

sawno · Answer

Perfect! Means she's comfortable enough around me not to pay attention to the details. I want her to be as comfortable as possible and be herself, she doesn't need to mind everything she does around me.

kylie_birdy · Answer

I dont wanna date anyone who would frown upon me for eating half an extra large pizza in a single sitting lmao

Harper_25 · Answer

tbh I eat a lot. but on the last date I went on I wasn't very hungry and didn't eat much. I don't think you should judge someone on how much they eat

TadCurious · Answer

If the first date involves a meal, why shouldn't the girl eat what she wants? I mean within reasonable limits of course. But there's nothing wrong with a girl having a good appetite. If she's hungry she should eat.

Paris13 · Answer

I always find that on any Date, even when not a Mate... Eat like a Bird. You should be too Busy with getting to Know this Joe, instead of Stuffing yourself with More in Store. Good Luck. xx

Hidden_P · Answer

Eat what you want.

Despite my weight and size I actually eat very little.

My partner adores my food and I always make extra if he wants it. If not it gets frozen.

I've grown up in a big family where food was done on mass.

GorillaOne · Answer

I am going to eat more than her.  If it's a competition that she wants then that's what she's gonna get and then lose.  Skadoosh!!!

Smoketothick · Answer

It's a turn on. I love when I got out to eat and she orders a lot. Makes me more comfortable and let's me know she's comfortable with me.

dannymexico90 · Answer

I love it. I hate it when a women's over there counting calories and portioning her meal. When a chick finishes the entire plate my eyes light up like 😍

Prettygurl12 · Answer

On my first date with my fiance we each ordered our own pizza's (12 inches aprox) and I ate my entire one and then helped him eat his.  Boy had to be faster if he wanted his whole meal lol

CHARismatic110 · Answer

Contrary to popular belief, I don't eat a whole lot. But that doesn't mean that I'm not gonna get what I want to save face. I'm "yes I would like to see a dessert menu" girl lol. My sweet tooth don't care what you think.

Dim1213 · Answer

Awesome she knows how to eat and is not ashamed of eating. Girls are so silly when they don't eat on a date. Guys know you eat you can't hide eating from them forever.

MEMESEY · Answer

What kind of Prick DOESN'T eat... I don't care if it's a date or not. If you're not hungry, don't worry about it. If you are, then eat, I'm fucking paying for it aren't I?

Machiavelli · Answer

Eat your food, I eat on the first date, as long as you are not overweight or have poor eating habits, fuck that salad and pass the chicken and other delicious shit.

MrQuick · Answer

I just hate when a date orders food knowing that she's not paying for it, and then wastes it! Takes a few bites, eats like a bird and then wants to leave the rest for scrap. Eating a bunch isn't a turn-off but the waste of a good meal certainly is!

rcasper91 · Answer

it dowsnt bother me at all. to many girls now days starve themselves or are shy about eating in front of a guy. I like it when a woman will eat in front of me

Rohn7 · Answer

Nha she can eat whatever she wants, as long as she pays for her part. I'm also a slow eater so when a girl orders just one thing I have to speed up and its pretty annoying

ㅇㅗㅇOTL · Answer

My dream is to meet a girl who would love food as much I do and then join me in stuffing face

MarkHrdman · Answer

Vote D She really needs a cock down her throught. Its a turn on, to know that when she's finished with dinner, im taking her to swallow my cock.

TheGoodGuy1337 · Answer

If a girl has a good apetite Id be like a fucking men, but if she's overweight, it would be a turnoff, people gotta control them selfs if over weight

ThaddeusThundercawk · Answer

I better not be paying for her 3rd course, so it's a no for me. She should have some restraint on a date. The movie White Chicks comes to mind.

Aming · Answer

i would be cautious because she is likely to be a great person but we may ended up getting fat if we're together lol

dionyxes · Answer

if she's ordering a lot she better be paying for her self

TuMeManques · Answer

Psssst... hey I'm human. One of my basic needs is food. If he can't handle that he probably can't handle my other basic needs like sex.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I like a girl whose a good eater. So when i take a girl out on date i want her to eat good and be free to be herself.

Mekara · Answer

Yeah, I admit it! I eat a lot! I like eating real food. Steak, Honey BBQ wings, French Fries, Pizza... all the spices of life.

lumos · Answer

Like... as long as she looks healthy I doubt they'll even notice or care. And as long as she has table manners.

Kuraj · Answer

I don't care as long as she looks great, but then again I wouldn't go on a date with someone who doesn't look great. Just gotta remember that I always split the bills.

EmpatheticLady · Answer

I'm sure most guys wouldn't mind too much, just as long as you're not blowing up his credit card if he offers to pay for both of your meals.

JWP1994 · Answer

I don't want her to hold back, show me who you are and there's nothing wrong with liking your food! I know I do!

mzr0004 · Answer

i am also a good eater and i don't have problen with good eater girl as long as their are not very fat, thats ok. little bit chubby girl looks cute.

Criptic · Answer

Do you offer to pay help with the bill? if yes I wouldn't mind if no it's kinda rude

red324 · Answer

A lot of skinny girls can eat all the time and not gain a pound. I'm a skinny guy and I eat 5 or 6 small meals everyday and everyone tells me, is that all you do is eat? Really my small meals equal to three normal meals.

Fukaroo · Answer

The more she eats means the more I'll eat later if you know what I mean ;)

lovelyhoneybones · Answer

I can tell you one thing, I'm never ordering salad on a date unless it's a side dish or one filled with chicken, fruits and a nuts.

Cloudy25 · Answer

Just eat what you want, but remember to keep your manners and don't be messy.

nordix1998 · Answer

i myself love to eat, i also love to excercise and i am lucky to have a woman that shares the same interests.

PrinceNeo · Answer

hey if she's hungry she should eat if she eats a lot that just means I need to bring more money with me whenever we go out

wan007 · Answer

At least.. I'd like to believe we start off with honesty.. I don't see why eating a lot on a first date should be a problem.. it's who you are and you don't need to hide it to impress me..

rjroy3 · Answer

She's clearly very hungry and I don't care anyways, because she's paying for her meal : D

Lsummers · Answer

as long as she is happy and full by the end, eat how ever much you want to

Aaron_Rodriguez · Answer

im 100% fine with that, i het to know something more about her

Caaarl · Answer

If she likes to eat that's great. If she was already looking heavy I'd be concerned.

rgb008 · Answer

If you're at a restaurant... why wouldn't you eat a good amount?  It's more rude if u don't eat a lot. Eat ur hearts desire.

vishna · Answer

Yayyyyyy :> most guys don't mind or think of it favorably <3 that makes my piggy heart happy.

Malik00 · Answer

I'll tell you this much if the final bill end up being over 200$ for you alone, we're gonna have some words.

CoolSky01 · Answer

thats nice and all she should just prepare some money cause iam not paying for an open buffet for a girl i dont even know if she likes me

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

that'd be cool. never met a girl who can put it away like me.

meatballs21 · Answer

I avoided going for proper meals as a first date - you have a lot to talk about and you don't want to be starving and trying to eat at the same time.

What if a girl eats a lot on the very first date?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

What if a girl eats a lot on the very first date?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

We're glad to see you liked this post.