What if a girl eats a lot on the very first date?

[Anonymous]

I am a foodie and i like to eat. I dont care whether its a first date or second i order what i like to eat and i eat it all. So i am just curious what guys think about it?

She must be a good eater.

Its a turn off. She should think she's on a date.

I dont care.

[Anonymous]

A few things I have to say.
1. If she eats way more than me then I expect her to split the bill or pay for her own meal. I don't eat much so paying 4x the money for food I will never touch is unfair to me.
2. If she eats big meals, that's fine as long as she takes care of her body and health. I don't want to worry about getting an obese and unhealthy future wife.
3. Again, it's fine as long as she still manages to talk and listen during our date. The first couple of dates should be spent with more talking because they are about getting to know each other. If she just sits there shoving as much food into her mouth as she can and doesn't talk or listen then that's a no-no.

[uhhwhatsmyusername]

all these guys are funny talking about just as long as she's not fat... you're pathetic. If you're not into big women would you be on a date with them in the first place? Anyways I like my woman to be herself so if you like to eat, eat

[skeeterpeter]

louser

[Sami365]

*claps* Very sensible @uhhwhatsmyusername ~

[Blonde401]

👏👏👏👏👏 this.

[BrileyCat]

i love food . i love and enjoy what i'm eating . and when i can get away with it .
i chew my food with my mouth open . with my elbows on the table . it's fun breaking rules
of etiquette . having no manners eating messy foods . i love slurping my sodas and spaghetti .
i'll lick the plate and pick my teeth . it gets me hot . idc who it offends or grosses out .
my dates like watching me . my older cbf thinks i'm my most sexy charming self when i'm eating .

[RJGraveyTrain]

Honestly I don't see it being a problem, most guys aren't going to look at a normal girl and assume if she eats well when you go out to dinner that it has any sort of connotation or view into the future. I eat healthy and workout, but if I go out to eat I'm not that bitch that orders a 12-16 dollar salad just to impress a guy. I'm going to eat what I feel like eating too. Lol. Just mind basic table manners and you should be A-Okay.

[Astoriana]

Man, if we're going on a dinner date, I'm eating real food. Fuck that. I work hard and honestly I don't care if some insecure fuckboy thinks it's sexy for girls to be anorexic. Plus, if the date is awful, the food is the only good part of the interaction.

[turbomode818]

Im on you're side. (love um thick) actually love them all every female amazing

[Astoriana]

@turbomode818 a woman who eats is not necessarily thick. Get away with you, peasant.

[Astoriana]

@turbomode818 you said a stupid thing, but I'm the uncultured one? Riiiiiiiiight.

[Sami365]

@Astoriana... he meant nothing wrong in his comment. Whether or not he implied such a thing, he still was being, agreeing with you, and complimenting women.

Not that you weren't correct to point out what you did to him, that I would have done the same, but the way you went about it was a little harsh for the situation. He wasn't there to argue or be mean, but to be congenial and extend off of you said with his own thoughts.

[Astoriana]

@Sami365 except he chose to be sexually vulgar and mama don't play like that.

[Sami365]

I understand. The hard part about this site is that is that we can't usually be reasonable adults and talk things out. The site's social climate doesn't allow it much.

Its quite sad how everyone on here must be on the defense all the time and be ready to fight or ignore.

I hope you don't think I'm talking crap about you or him or anyone in particle. It just that so many conversations go no where because of how toxic this site can be. Imaginr how much could be learnt or how much more we could understand one another or if this site was different?

[Astoriana]

@Sami365 nothing can be gained by entertaining the oversexed idiots who think it's a compliment to be reduced to something they like to fuck. You're not endearing yourself to me either with this long and patronizing diatribe on how we shouldn't jump to conclusions.

[Bindos]

Girls that like their food are hot, food is one of the best things there is and a girl that loves food as much as I do is pretty great, I mean not like "OH YEA I LOVE WOMEN WHO JUST EAT KILOS OF FAT EVERY DAY" and without being mean not someone that eats so much they are over weight but like someone who is slightly obsessed about good tasting food and likes to go out to new off the beaten tracks restaurants to find new flavours or just spend the night eating loads of pasta in bed together... yea thats pretty hot... but then thats just my views. Tbh when you go out for a date and you can see how much she is enjoying the food and the quality and just eats loads that is hot

[Bindos]

also who ever that girl is on the pic looks incredible

[fashionguy17]

I don't care if you eat a lot. However, if you get a shit load of food for a first date and you expect me to pay, you're dreaming 😂. I remember I went on a date to Chilis with a fitness instructor. She used to be a former fat girl. Although she was in shape and fit, she still ate like a fat girl. She got over $150 in food and thought I was going to pay for that shit. Needless to say, there wasn't a second date.

If you eat a lot... cool. Just make sure you don't order too much on the first date and be mindful of your dates money. People have bills. We can't afford to be paying that much for a meal, especially on a first date.

[rozequarts]

Thats pretty ridiculous for her to think that lmao

[Tdieseler]

Thats fucking hot... its way better to watch a woman eat... and being open about that shit... than to watch her order a salad, knowing full well she was eyeing the steak section. thats irritating. i'd rather know you are a budding fatty, ahead of time lol...
i don't mind a woman that eats... just keep your figure.

[LoloWaye]

I just died. A budding fatty 😂😭😭

[Tdieseler]

@LoloWaye lol... you like that one huh...

[DarthLadyKiller]

I would be happy that she was comfortable being herself around me. I think it would be cute if she was hungry and as a food lover myself, we would have lots to talk about. Obviously, if she is really piggy and slobby with it, then that would be unattractive but I am ok.

[ice_cream]

I really love food so much I am not so healthy but I don't like destroying my body also the guy would pay so if I am hungry I would eat a lot as much as I want and pay for my meals. mom keeps yelling at me till now for eating a lot in public especially in front of guys but who cares food is attractive :p :p 😻😻

[godfatherfan]

Do women seriously think about this? If I am with a woman and we go out to eat and she just gets a salad or some kind of rabbit food there is no way our relationship is going to work. If she dives into the cheese fries and takes some of mine... match made in heaven...

[TuMeManques]

We do a lot. Or at least I did when I was younger. Now I wouldn't care at all.

[jakemiller1230]

It's cool with me in college i dated a girl who was 5"6 and 120 pounds and still dieted constantly and didn't like to go out for dinner cause slot of places in the college town were un healthy. It was super annoying tbh so if rather a girl be less strict diet wise.

[IwanderIwonder]

I'll just think " Maybe she hasn't eaten all day."
Or simply that she enjoys food/eating. I'd rather someone order a proper meal than someone order "Just a (not big) salad", who's she? Seinfeld?
It's not a turn off, if anything it could be interpreted as her being comfortable.
Who wants an uncomfortable date?

If she "Attacks" the food, burps, uses her finger (nails) to pick her teeth and then unbuttons her pants and rubs her tummy. That's an entirely different story.

[Anonymous]

My ex husband said he knew I was girlfriend material when I pulled every last bit of meat off a T-bone and scraped a baked potato clean on our first date.

[easy80s]

Lol yes you are

[tan_n]

my ex said he thought he ate a lot until he met me 😂

[easy80s]

Lol who doesn't like food tho. you're either hungry, or not, or just not being your true self! I don't wanna be the only One on the table having a good time. come On! lol

[noseene]

I wouldn't care at all, it's nice is she's got a healthy appetite. :) I'd appreciate though if she told me before the date so that I know to bring enough money. If she orders food worth like 100$ or more, I'd be quite embarrassed if I don't have enough cash on me to pick up the tab.

[Kkaos]

You're seriously whipped.

[noseene]

@Kkaos haha if you say so.

[chuckklez]

i dont care if a girl eats a lot on the first date because i guess that means she is comfortable. however, if the date isn't going well or it feels like she just wants me to buy her food and thats it then she won't hear from me again lol.

[sawno]

Perfect! Means she's comfortable enough around me not to pay attention to the details. I want her to be as comfortable as possible and be herself, she doesn't need to mind everything she does around me.

[Harper_25]

tbh I eat a lot. but on the last date I went on I wasn't very hungry and didn't eat much. I don't think you should judge someone on how much they eat

[benblyth]

Well said

[TadCurious]

If the first date involves a meal, why shouldn't the girl eat what she wants? I mean within reasonable limits of course. But there's nothing wrong with a girl having a good appetite. If she's hungry she should eat.

[Paris13]

I always find that on any Date, even when not a Mate... Eat like a Bird.
You should be too Busy with getting to Know this Joe, instead of Stuffing yourself with More in Store.
Good Luck. xx

[Paris13]

@Astoriana lol I am not a Master and Influencer who has had many Dates and Mates under the sun, hun, for Nothing. Best from the Best to Eat a little so you can use your Big mouth to make sure the Date don't go South. Obviously you do not date much. Or even have a Man as I Stand. He probably thinks you are there for the Food and this is it. And no Dessert? lolxx

[Hidden_P]

Eat what you want.

Despite my weight and size I actually eat very little.

My partner adores my food and I always make extra if he wants it. If not it gets frozen.

I've grown up in a big family where food was done on mass.

[kylie_birdy]

I dont wanna date anyone who would frown upon me for eating half an extra large pizza in a single sitting lmao

[Dereksu4]

I don't care, just kinda worried about your health... xd

[kylie_birdy]

pfffffff health is dumb xd

[Dereksu4]

ik, just imagined having candy for dinner

[kylie_birdy]

oh lord that'd be a delicious nightmare

[Dereksu4]

xd that would...

[kylie_birdy]

lel yeah

[Dereksu4]

lel? xd

[kylie_birdy]

means the same as lol

[Dereksu4]

yea kinda guess that...

[d2796]

I'd be happy utill its the last piece.

[d2796]

we might argue then tho

[GorillaOne]

I am going to eat more than her.
If it's a competition that she wants then that's what she's gonna get and then lose.
Skadoosh!!!

[dannymexico90]

I love it. I hate it when a women's over there counting calories and portioning her meal. When a chick finishes the entire plate my eyes light up like 😍

[Prettygurl12]

On my first date with my fiance we each ordered our own pizza's (12 inches aprox) and I ate my entire one and then helped him eat his.

Boy had to be faster if he wanted his whole meal lol