Please help. I just texted my ex and I feel so stupid I don't know what to do. :(

[SuckerPunch]

we became friends and he admitted to his sister he still has feelings for me and is excited to hang out with me. but he never talks to me first and I just texted him and he responded once but didn't respond to my second text. I feel so stupid and I don't know why.

he has a girlfriend and I still have feelings for him. I don't expect to get back together but I just felt like talking to him now I regret it. I don't know why he's doing this but I feel so upset and embarrassed that I made the effort because I've texted him three times but he never starts conversations.

what do I do? how do I feel better?

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+1 y

when I texted him his best friend was there whom I was texting too. I think he's best friend is interested in me because he goes on about how I'm so fun to hang out with and he seems interested. would this have anything to do with it?

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+1 y

oh I'm 17 and he's 19

[MimiLove]

I was in your position bby girl he has a girlfriend don't confuse him it will only cause problems towards their relationship & yours. Let him go. I know it hurts you but try because obviously he likes her if he is with her. Maybe you should talk to him talk things out clear the air but if he still likes you he will try anything not to lose you. I think talking is key here but if I were you I would let him go..

Im sorry):

[SuckerPunch]

I know we've been broken up for a year and my feelings left for him but we became friends and they came back and now I can't get over him all over again. I wish we didn't become friends but now I'm stuck and I hate feeling stupid :( I just want closure I want to know where he's at, and I feel like I can't leave things off with me feeling stupid that never works for me. please help what do I do to feel better about the situation ah

[SuckerPunch]

I don't know if I should just be honest with him and tell him I still have feelings for him but I feel like if he doesn't say it back ill feel sh*ttier. I don't want to be with him but I want it to go away and I feel like I need closure

[MimiLove]

AWW bby girl I don't know what to tell you just keep your head up and try your best to keep your head up no matter what. God won't take you to what he can't take you through. so don't worry about it k!

[MimiLove]

Talk to him then get closure.

come on you can do it.

[SuckerPunch]

Aw thank you. I've never met someone so supportive on here hah, I don't know what so say when I tell him though. I just suggested we be friends and he agreed. his sisters my best friend and I have to see him all the time and we were all going to be friends again. I saw him the other day and he light up when he saw me, and then after I left he posted his facebook status to confused. I know I'm gunna have to keep seeing him and hanging out with him so how do I tell him without making it weird? :/

[MimiLove]

Haha me either but I gots your back. How old are you?

Man just be straight up about what you feel he obviously he still likes you enough tell his sister to help you out then.

[SuckerPunch]

Well she doesn't know about our relationship. I didn't say that before because its a long story. but he was talking to her about how his feelings are resurfacing for another girl and his sisters my best friend. which is why she didn't know we dated for a year we hid it.. it sounds bitchy but it was complicated. anyway he kept asking her when I was coming over and she said he was really really excited when I asked to be friends. I just don't want to tell him and then feel stupid after :(

[MimiLove]

Trust your feelings ma they never go wrong.

[SuckerPunch]

Yeah my instinct told me not to text him tonight I dontk now why I did. but telling him or not I don't know what my instinct says, what if I tell him and he doesn't say he has feelings for me? I don't want him to pick me over his girlfriend but I don't want to regret telling him. I think I said that but I'm really scared :/

[MimiLove]

Tell him let it out, don't regret telling him because things happen for a reason, so whatever happens happens. At least your heart feels better.

[SuckerPunch]

He responded and we talked for a little but the conversation ended really awkwardly and he made me feel really stupid but he said he would talk to me later. I think I'm just gunna shut him out for a while and if he tries to talk to me fine. he probably won't because I've made most of the friendship effort lately but he admitted to still having feelings for me and I just don't get why he'd make me feel stupid then or not try to be friends. I just wish I knew how he felt it bothers me wonedering

[MimiLove]

Idk what to tell you ma.

Do what you think is right? like I said follow your heart.