Why does a girl get moody without any reason?

[Anonymous]

I've a relationship and sometimes it is a headache. My girl does not want to talk with me and ignores ne without any reason. And when I ask for reason, then her answer is. No reason, it will take few days. And then she don't want to communicate and just ignores me.

[Fitness-Fanatic]

I couldn't be in a relationship with someone who ignored me. Especially without giving me a reason. It's a manipulative tactic. It's a form of bullying and control I'm the sort of person who needs to communicate to resolve any issues , or at least come to a compromise , so we can move forward from the problem and continue to enjoy a healthy relationship.

Tell her how it makes you feel , and that it's not healthy for the relationship to ignore you for reasons only known to her. It's unfair to you.

If she genuinely cares about you she'll respect your feelings, and make an obvious effort to change her behaviour. She'd start communicating with you instead of controlling you by her silence.

If she doesn't change after she knows how it makes you feel , then it would be best for you to reconsider being in a relationship with her

[RobinMM]

Many options:
1. She is upset with you about something.
2. She is upset about something that has nothing to do with you.
3. She is just moody (a bad day, hormones, etc).
4. She is immature and not able to communicate her feelings.

Try to be receptive about her feelings, give her space she wants and after she calms down (behaves normally) try and talk with her about this behavior. If this is something that is repeating often she should try to communicate you better what is wrong, because healthy and open communication is the key to a long lasting relationship. It would also be easier for you if she would just say "Honey, sorry but I am having a bad day. Upset because of work. Please give me some space to deal with my feelings". It doesn't take much but it helps a relationship a lot.

[dragonfly6516]

LMAO oh, there is definitely a reason. The question is, "Will that reason make sense to you?" The problem that causes most miscommunication between men and women, is that women tend to see minor details that men don't even worry about. Too many women just assume that men *should* think, and therefore see, the same things in the same ways. So if you don't "get it", she assumes that you're either "playing dumb" to skirt blame, or you're just stupid and beneath her.

But she's just being childish. You can't fix the problem if she won't talk about it, and its not fair to keep you in limbo. You are not the problem here, and if she's not willing to put in some work, she's not worth your time.

[pusyok12]

asker should dump the girl
he deserves better

[Asker]

Men see thing very clear and they are very direct. And it is what you see is what you get. But women.. what you see is you get a ferrari..

[dragonfly6516]

Men think in straight logical lines; women try to sentimentaly or emotionally connect everything.

[pinkzoesbb]

She's upset with you about something. Be open minded don't dismiss her feelings. If she feels you haven't been there for her when she needed you she'll push you away. If she's been hurt in the past she could be testing your loyalty to her. If you care about her you will have to prove you care. If you don't I suggest walking away.

[CanIGetItBoneless]

Because women are by nature irrational beings. Have you considered staying a bachelor? It's quite freeing. No more listening to that high pitched annoying bitchy voice, no more emotional manipulation, no more having someone try to change who you are, etc. Most women are garbage. If you find a good one then thats awesome but thre one you currently have does NOT sound like a good one.

[andrewprater]

Its call u did somthing wrong or she's on the period

[chlox]

This may not be applicable to all girls, but I personally would only get moody with my boyfriend if he did something but I didn't want to tell him what it was coz I either didn't want to seem needy or I wanted him to figure it out for himself.. I know it's annoying but just think about anything you may have done to upset her.. and if it's really nothing, give her space while letting her know you're there for her when she needs to talk.

Good luck (: x

[Asker]

Thanks. I will try to give her space. But it annoys me too..

[ciitruskiwi]

It's understandable why you would be annoyed but space would be best for her. Be there for her obviously but don't ask her what's wrong constantly. Maybe ask her once and if she wants to tell you she will, if not then leave it until she wants to talk.

[sillykeetie]

Don't fight against it, that will only make it worse. Rather, be more attentive to her needs and don't be a general haphazard to her mood, or point out why she's "sooo" moody. Generally it just could be a bad day or a small thing and eventually after a couple of tender loving care days of being attentive to her needs it'll pass

[Pinay_ako]

oh wow she's one immature bitch. I am sorry. how old is she? if there's a problem, talk it out. don't act like a spoiled brat. you deserve better man.

[Asker]

Lol, she is 23. Trying to change her. But it will take time.

[Pinay_ako]

you cannot change her. she will have to change herself. 23? lol sounds like 3. jk :) ok good luck

[Quintessence]

I don't see what's wrong with wanting to be alone for a few days. Some people need to fall off the grid for awhile to recharge. Like a cognitive break from social obligation. I can't be the only one who does this.

[ciitruskiwi]

You aren't. Sometimes I feel like a shitty friend for falling off the grid sometimes but like you said I need to recharge and I'm glad my friends understand that.

[Quintessence]

@ciitruskiwi I wish people wouldn't take it personally. Because it's not personal, at all. If I don't respond to calls or texts, it's not because I don't want to talk to you; it's because I don't want to talk in general.

[ciitruskiwi]

@quintessence pretty much. The only people who don't take it personally are people who've known me forever now. Everyone else seems to take it personally.

[Returnoftheswole]

Do it but when someone does it to you don't take in a bad way either

[ciitruskiwi]

I don't because I understand it. I don't get mad if people don't reply back, I just wait for them to.

[Returnoftheswole]

If you say so

[ciitruskiwi]

Okay, don't believe me. It's not like I have a reason to lie or anything.

[Returnoftheswole]

I never said I didn't believe you. I was ending the conversation. Sounds like you're guilty of something by being so defensive

[Quintessence]

@Returnoftheswole I don't take it in a bad way. I give them their space. If they're avoiding me due to a problem they have with me, well... now that's immature. I'll assume they're mature enough to tell me if there's an issue. Otherwise, I assume they want some space, and I happily give it to them.

[ciitruskiwi]

@returnoftheswole sorry, I usually take people saying "if you say so" as them not believing me.

[Returnoftheswole]

@tallsexy blonde

That's a good point. I also do the same

@ciitrskiwi

I literally mean if you say so

[azzntittiz]

We're insane or maybe you're just doing bad things and are just oblivious cause you're a guy. I have become this girl lately, I used to be chilled but men and their existence has gotten to me now I just flip for no reason cause I've lost a screw.

[OjosOscuros2]

It means you did something that she found disagreeable and she feels you should have known better. Encourage her to talk to you about what's bugging her. She needs to know that you can see through her wall.

[Aalila]

Well did you feed her and rub her feet or shoulders and back while watching what she wants to watch did you even cook her dinner 🤔

[Asker]

Nope, she is not a queen

[Jaye234]

Get rid of her. She's not into the relationship at all.
If one person is making the relationship work it's not worth it.

[Izumiblu]

There's always a reason. There is never "no reason".

[Returnoftheswole]

LOL what are good reasons?

[faiqshah941]

Exactly

[Izumiblu]

@Returnoftheswole I didn't say it was a good reason... just that there is a reason.

[Returnoftheswole]

Okay well that's just not making any sense.

[Returnoftheswole]

Let me rephrase it for you then. What are some reasons that would make you behave like that? Aware me of both good and bad.

[Maryam1333]

Maybe guys are the reason of it... But they're not clever enough to notice.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Your girlfriend is not a cool girl. Cool women don't act like that.

[CoffeeGirl456]

yes, especially in period lol , sorry

[leafygreen]

Does it happen once a month?

[SG_04]

she's probably hormonal