I'm afraid he's going to leave me; Any Advice?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 2 years now. He's really attractive and well-spoken. He's started law school, and I couldn't help but notice that he's honestly the hottest guy in the entire law school. The only problem is, that there are also girls that are either in his class or in other classes that are also attractive too.

I know my insecurities are popping up, but I can't ignore them. I can't help feeling that I can't compete with these other girls. They're just as attractive, if not more, and on top of that they're going to be lawyers. More importantly, they're going to be spending more time with him than I am for the next three years.

Any advice on what I can do?

[funkadelic5]

He has been your boyfriend for 2 years. If that means anything to him, he wouldn't be thrown off by a bunch of cute law school girls in the slightest. If he honestly left you after such a long time, that would be a sure sign that he didn't care for you very much in the first place, and he would not be worth the relationship. There's a reason he picked you to be with in the first place, and chances are it's still there. Just work a little harder on loving him up, and he won't be leaving in the foreseeable future.

[Kaylife]

True your rite

[jhova23]

If he leaves because they are there and you aren't then what does he really think of you twos relationship. If you make a big deal out of this it is more likely he will leave. He's with cause you are confident in yourself, don't change cause he's doing his thing. You might want to start a career, or focus more on your own thing. Let the chips fall where they may. But you have to trust that he will be faithful cause if you don't leave. Be your own person, not the girlfriend of your guy. Not a good look.

[nermalinda]

Guys don't go for the prettiest girl. They go for the girl they love. If he loves you, he's not going to leave you. And if he doesn't love you, then you can't lose what you never had to begin with, so don't worry about it.

[Kaylife]

well don't worry to much but being a girl myself I know its hard

but you should actually tell him how you feel because keeping it all balled up inside is

not going to do you any good at all

[Anonymous]

You can give up and break up and find someone less attractive and successful so you will feel more confident or you can stop the self pity and enjoy what you have, be happy, fun and don't be insecure it makes you less attractive and you will end up pushing him into someone else...