What does it mean when a girl says I'm too young for her?

[Witchhaven16]

Especially we're in the same age range? I don't get that. I always get that I'm too young shit when I can't help it.. I have facial hair.. I'm not a virgin.. I have interests that I don't let people really know about which kinda causes girls to think I have no goals or something but I'm doing things that I can't speak on.. but the point is even older women say I'm too young like what the hell does that even mean? Am I just running into the wrong girls? I have a feeling they just want resources or money from a dude and an "older" guy would provide it for her that's why they say I'm too young. And I've even got the term too nice before.. what does this all mean and why are we putting all these not so nice and superficial people in power to run the dating scene like.. foh? WTH is going on...

[Juliaholman03]

Hmmm maybe they mean personality wise... maybe they think you act younger then you are/immature? Then again you may be dating the wrong girls, girls who are especially insecure (even though they may seem confident) love assholes who reel them in by playing games and bringing them down. the more games played the more a women is obsessing. its a fucked up system but how it is. Girls who are secure, confident and mature go for the nice guys who dont pull bs.

[Witchhaven16]

Yeah I've gotten from a couple girls that told me even if I was rich they wouldn't fuck with me or they must have good pussy because they was still wet and they wasn't into me at all.. And yea I think it's personality wise as well as an excuse to tell me to back off.. If a girl wants me to act like a real true asshole to them and make me dig deep inside myself then I'm not gonna do that because that's reserved for enemies not for girls who crave masculine energy.. now I get it.. girls really like assholes or masculine energy to suck it out of us like vampires.. it makes me sick to my stomach

[Witchhaven16]

I remember a girl told me I couldn't look her in the face because I had low self-esteem when it was actually because I saw she had low self-esteem and I didn't want to go so hard with my energy.. Smh all. this is teaching me is that the truth is more sinister than I thought

[she-tried]

Don't take it the wrong way, but she's just not interested. Her saying she's too young for you is a polite way of her telling you to back off. It's a protocol I make with guys I'm not really interested in myself

[Witchhaven16]

Yea I guess

[Anonymous]

Start smoking, use sunbeds and drugs excessively, the years will fly by at face value

[Witchhaven16]

I've been smoking since I was 14.. did nothing really for my face

[Witchhaven16]

I quit smoking though

[anon08]

Might of been a made up excuse to get you to back off

[Witchhaven16]

Mmm.. Interesting

[nonamoose]

I cannot really speak to other woman's experiences, and what they mean when they say they are too young for them. Personally speaking, I am a 24-year-old woman with a baby face. As a result of this, I sometimes get hit on by teenagers who think I'm their age. When I tell them they are too young for me, it's because they are. There are no hidden meanings behind that statement, especially because I am transparent every time, and I tell them my actual age. However, when people grow older, being too young turns obsolete in my opinion (at least for age gaps between 5-10 years), and the age range definitely widens, so they might just be trying to let you down easy? Honestly, at the end of the day, I wouldn't worry about it too much. You don't want to be caught up ruminating on situations where interest is not reciprocated (although it's easier said than done). Disconnecting your energy, and channeling it into self-empowerment, healing, and reflection, and eventual release is the best thing you can do in those situations. They aren't "the wrong girls" and you're not "the wrong guy". Maybe both sides are just wrong for each other, and that's okay.

[lilaqua]

Excuse

[Witchhaven16]

I'm not really surprised that a girl rejects me for supeficial reasoning so...

[lilaqua]

no they're rejecting you for something else not your age, unless they were really really uncomfortable. I know if someone was older than say, 21 or 22 i'd just flat out reject them due to my own personal feelings regardless of how much I liked them. But I have an inclining that it was just a cover for something else.

[Witchhaven16]

Well I don't know.. Most of the girls said I was too emotional or too nice.. I don't know I really don't know or that I act like a female.. lol like I'm not gonna treat a girl like a guy. I'm not gay. My soul doesn't want to treat girls badly but for some reason I always get called an asshole when I see a girl do some betrayal shit and then call her out on it. I don't know what it is.. I don't know what's going on.. they say they just don't like my personality I guess.. I don't know.. I just be trying to be nice to people so..