Why is it easier for me to get along with boys rather than girls? (Page 2)

Question

I always get along with guys fast. It seems so easy. It takes a lot of courage for me to talk to a girl. It's confusing me and stressing me out. Why is this? Is this normal?

ConfusedGirl24 · Answer

I have more male friends than female friends too but that is because i am more boyish so they tend to treat me like one of the guys 😂😂😂

1234lulu · Answer

Totally. Guys are so comfortable. They are not Jealous and they are more open at communicating. I personally have more male friends than female.

Bliss-taylor · Answer

Girls are more judgmental. There always seems to be a competition to some degree. Guys are easier in a lot of ways but a close girl friend is a need.

fay23 · Answer

I guess it depends on what type of girls you hang out with but generally I think its because of girls competing with each other even if it's not something that is discussed. Personly I hang out with girls and don't really hang out with boys.

Sleepy32 · Answer

I'm like you, but the other way around. I talk to girls and have been friends with mostly girls in my life.

I feel stressed trying to talk to guys (especially about my emotions). It's probably due to me growing up just women.

BuchitaBuchys · Answer

I get along with both. Maybe you're doing something wrong.

magic30 · Answer

I think that a lot of girls are a little high on their own supply and it's more of a competition thing at first. After things settle down a bit they can and often do become best friends.

reixun · Answer

I don’t think it’s normal, but it does seem to be a thing that some women experience. It’s usually the opposite, can talk to other women easily but boys intimidate them.

monkeynutts · Answer

It's probably because you have a rational mind. A lot of girls don't, there lives are like soap operas. Keep hanging with the boys they like to be around beautiful, thoughtful girls like yourself.

themon09 · Answer

you and every other girl on earth has said this. guys are easier to deal with because we don't talk as much and if we've got something crappy to say we'll think about it before having verbal diarrhea

Anonymous · Answer

This is the same for me. I always wondered why I had so many guy friends than girls. I guess i like things guys are interested in. (VideoGames, Sports. Etc)

someguykev · Answer

Girls are superficial a lot of the time , you are not , your afraid of unreasonable judgment.

cherryphi82 · Answer

I've felt the same for a long time. I've started liking women a lot more since I've gotten older. Maybe it's an age thing.

alisonblakely · Answer

Girls tend to view other girls as competition but guys honestly are so chill

Lu_loo · Answer

Because boys will never see you as competition boo! Girls are shady!

Jihhan · Answer

It's evolution, it's natural Instinct, it's divine gift to procreate, call it what you want, it's more natural, and beneficial as well for the preservation of the human race.

genericname85 · Answer

Cause Guys are all your ass since you're a woman while among girls there's competition and rivalry. You don't have the pussy bonus among girls that's why it's easier with boys.

xZoeyx · Answer

I'm the same way. I feel like it's just because I'm not into all the girly stuff and all the drama girls come with. I'm not really sure lol. All I know is I get along with guys better than girls😂

Koki11 · Answer

They r easier to get along with, they r straight forward im the same. the is no drama

sucklingambitions · Answer

It's just something that happens, girls do tend to bitch and plot and scheme as groups, if you can't manage that then sometimes the lack of word of being with guys is easier, just watch that they aren't all in love with you

SirRexington · Answer

Maybe your attitude is more boyish so you and them get along better.

Peopleschamp · Answer

Maybe you enjoy the straight forwardness of most men? Who knows

dardorsama · Answer

I've chatted with few girls who asked for male friends before. When I asked them why they said because they're less drama.

PetrovaFire92 · Answer

I feel the same way.. for some reason girls try to fight me... through out my whole life.. smh oh my mom is even jealous of me smh.

redreddyred · Answer

Because women are fucking terrible in general. Men are classy as fuck and know what we want. Unlike the deceiving, manipulating woman.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Lot people always get along better with members of the opposite gender I get along better with women than i do men.

Nice222 · Answer

I am the same way but opposite. I always get along with women better then guys. Their conversations interest me much more. Lol

rahul_24 · Answer

Actually it is. A friend of mine admitted I hate being woman. It's so complex, women are so complex with everything. I like hanging out with guys, they are so straight forward, less drama etc..

LifeEqualsLove · Answer

Could be how you grew up. Maybe naturally more comfortable w men bc you were around them more?

Markella88 · Answer

Cause lot of women are Catty , and lot of my experience woman are harder on women then men are.

douride2 · Answer

Yea I have the same problem. In my case it may be that I grew up with 5 brothers.

ialonewithmymusic · Answer

Personally, I think girls are just too drama-filled and judgmental. Guys offer a good break from all that, while still being a good friend. They're usually relaxed and you don't feel obligated to "fit in" when hanging out with them.

Anonymous · Answer

Because guys don't make as much drama as girls.. it just easier to meet a new guy than a girl usually

ohayoo · Answer

i read once that guys would mostly accept friendships with girls and are open more than girls to themselves

JudeJericho · Answer

Same for me but i'm a guy lolz. Are you into girls?

Atlana · Answer

Same thing. I have more male friends than female. Just because they're more friendly and It's easier to talk to them

Anonymous · Answer

You have something guys want (vagina) . That's why they are nice to you. You have nothing girls want and are possibly a threat to their getting what they want (male attention). If they are cold and standoffish towards you that is probably why.

Ripper_E · Answer

Same. I get along with girls so easily. I also get angry at girls more easily.

jacquesvol · Answer

Guys hope to get something from you, thus might be nicer. Girls don't.

uummaa_ash · Answer

I feel the same way, most of my best friends is guy

xoots · Answer

This cool thing, your question is smart. I. I said to my friend that i can pick up any wamin. I presume you have met bs people,
I'm one of them and your speaking to all of us. Leave me alone! Find your answers but kindly leave because because.

FatherJack · Answer

Males are simpler , more straightforward creatures , than females.

GinaTina · Answer

Its because guys are so laid back and some girls can be drama at times

silverman86 · Answer

I'm not sure, but the same is true for me too. I have many friends that are girls and I have one or two guy friends.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Maybe because, girls are a little more complicated? Not saying that guys can't be, but we like to keep things simple...

Anonymous · Answer

The same reason why more women prefer male bosses, than female ones.

Anonymous · Answer

Same I get along with guys better, in fact 80%+ of the people I would consider my friends are guys.

UglyJoshy · Answer

You're probably into girls. That's want a lot of guys goes through when trying to talk to girls

fredrick89 · Answer

Yes, my girl friends say this too, they said girls full of drama, and they not even actresses

Bear41 · Answer

Because you have seen how Girls will turn on each other to get what they want.

LasPlagas · Answer

I think its difficult too to talk to girls, guys are easier

Guanfei · Answer

It works both way in fact. Most of my friends were girls. In my whole life I only had 2 guys friends, and not for long.

Anonymous · Answer

Same. I have one female friend out of like 10-15 guy friends.

idiotmanchild · Answer

I've found girls can be absolutely vicious to each other...

AriGold88 · Answer

For a lot of people it's easier to get along with the opposite gender

clampfan101 · Answer

Girls seem easier for me to talk to than guys. I guess maybe I can typically relate to them more?

Tasos96 · Answer

Because we're not fucking complicated like you lot !

carpenter84 · Answer

Guys prob think your hot and think they have a chance then they get friendzoned

lilthat · Answer

In my observation women naturally have some tensions between each other. makes sense

Revolver_ · Answer

because boys are easier to get along with than girls are

Why is it easier for me to get along with boys rather than girls? (Page 2)

What Girls & Guys Said

We're glad to see you liked this post.