What does it mean if he told everyone about us hooking up?

[Anonymous]

i hooked up with a guy a year older than me and I told only my close friends and he went around telling EVERYONE. what does that mean?

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for the record - I just want to know if it means he wants everyone to know..is he proud? or is there some other motive for telling people?

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he's also the nicest guy ever btw...like truly a nice guy

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when I say hook up I don't mean sex. I mean we made out he felt me up etc...

[countygirl]

"NICE" guys don't brag to everyone that he got you into bed. He is being direspectful and immature at best. His "motive" is to let everyone know HE got lied - nothing to do with you. Sorry.

The only thing he is "Proud" of is that he had sex with someone. Again, nothing to do with you.

I know you like him, but sounds like a player in the making.

If he cared for you he would show respect for you.

Try to learn something from all this and move on.

And by the way, many players act like the supper nice guy in order to get you into bed. That just how they play the game. If you knew they were players - you wouldn't fall for them and they know it.

Not the answer you want I know but it is true. I'm sorry.

Best of luck and be true to yourself. :)

[Shyandcurious]

Well... it's not that bad, it is important to be respectful to your girl, maybe he just acted out of ignorance rather than actively being disrespectful. But it does give the OP insight as certain personality traits he has. I personally wouldn't date a loud mouth because it just means I can't trust her to tell her anything I'd like to keep secrets. If the OP isn't a secretive person then it's not an issue.

[countygirl]

Maybe it's just how I was raised or the culture I live in, but talking about who you had sexx with last night to EVERYONE is pretty tacky and disrespectful.

Now if he went around telling everyone "She is my girlfreind" or " We are dating now" that would be different. That would show he is proud to be with her not just proud to be in her pants.

I agree on the big mouth part. They can never be trusted to keep that mouth shut, but I think this goes beyond that.

[Anonymous]

it means me was showing off that he hooked up with a girl. don't take it personally. if he hooked up with his sister's best friend's cat groomer, he would tell everyone that too

[Rinaxo]

Number one, he doesn't respect you at all and number two, he wants look like a player. Which brings me to a point, never hook up with a guy who can't keep it a secret.

[Anonymous]

LOL your romantic interest has a loud mouth, that's what it means. It may not be such a good trait, somebody who can't keep a secret. You may find yourself asking, how would you feel if you told him secrets that you only wanted to share with him, and then EVERYONE knows? If a girl did that to me I would dump her straight up. I see it as betrayal.

[Anonymous]

He likes you but also immature. He thinks it's cool that he got a girl and wants everyone to know.

[Anthonylykerocks]

It means you must be pretty good looking if he's gonna tell everyone you two hooked up. Ha, but seriously, it means if you told him not to tell anyone, he doesn't respect you. If you didn't tell him not to tell anyone, then quite frankly, tough.

[Asker]

Yeah I didn't tell him not to tell anyone its not like I care that much but he was drunk and I was sober

[Anthonylykerocks]

Why would you hook up with a drunk guy? If I hooked up with a drunk girl, people would cry "rape".

[Asker]

I'd been through a lot that night..i kind of leaned on him for support

[Anthonylykerocks]

Hmm, I see. Next time though, I wouldn't lean on a drunk person for support. That's just me though. As long as you don't feel hurt by him telling everyone, which I assume is the case, then there isn't much else to say. I guess just know that if you hook up, it will probably get around.

[Boring01]

Him telling everybody ain't exactly cute. However, if he treats You right and doesn't have nothing on the side, than I wouldn't be too concern with it.

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

It's all for bravado, if he's a nice guy it's likely that he hasn't had many hook-ups before, bragging about that it just something guys do, you're obviously quite the catch in that case.

[Anonymous]

By hook up, do you mean going on a date, or getting laid? If it's the latter, it means you should dump him, but if you're just dating, it means he's proud to have you as his girlfriend, and he's happy with you.

[Jonny_]

He's bragging, You can say he's a nice guy... but of course he'd be nice to you. He isn't exactly going to flirt with you by sacrificing a small goat.

[darkknight1x]

He probably told so his friends won't think he's a loser. Maybe he wanted to rub it in his friends faces.

[yupyup]

Well, if you're really hot, he is probably just bragging.

[countygirl]

It "Means" he is a jerk.

Loose him - fast!

[Anonymous]

He's bragging.