My girlfriend talks to my friend a lot more?

[Anonymous]

So its the beginning of the relationship and my friend loves to **** block and I already shouted at him for talking to her so much more than I do. I shouldn't have to compete with him and he continues to talk a lot to her and I've went over this with her but it still makes me uncomfortable that she talks way more with him and she tells me that she does sometimes. and I can't call her or have time to compete with this "friend". But we still talk a lot he just talks more. She sent me a note clarifying she liked me more and stuff. But I'm more concerned with the guy being annoying.

[Anonymous]

my bfs is annoyed that I do this too..

but really man...am I really suppose to talk to a guy less or stop talking to him completely just because you want me to? what if that friend was always there for me when you werent?

yes my boyfriend doesn't give me much attention...not enough to satisfy me :/

its not like she told you to stop talking to girls..so what's the problem? she's not even doing anything with the guy :(

[Asker]

No its understandable but she compares me sometimes to him and even if she jokes its annoying. but like you said its whatever I'm talking to other girls too

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe that's a hint on what you should improve :o cause I do that too...and my boyfriend doesn't get it too

its like whatever she's talking about/comparing you with, that's the reason why she's always with him because that's the thing you can't give her that your friend can

[Cyabye]

It's honestly funny how no matter what the situation is, it's the guy who must change his behavior and is in the wrong. If she is dating you and showing more attention to your friend then that is a valid reason to be alarmed. If she can't make any effort to prioritize you (her partner) then maybe she isn't the best girl for you. A lot of single men will try to slyly get on your gfs good side in a way that isn't just friendly. Not all guys, but a few will and sometimes it's our friends. It's just part of being a guy that we have to put up with when dating someone. If your girl can't understand this and walks right into it then that is something you need to talk with her about. Please understand as a guy that coming to sites like this will get you replies like the ones above. Very biased and one sided for their own gender.