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My girlfriend has a close male friend with a better connection than me. She tells me they talk all the time🧐?

I’ve only been dating my now girlfriend for 3 months. Things have been going great, and for a long time I didn’t want to make it official until she said she didn’t want to be my friend anymore and basically said we’re over unless we give this a go. We already were acting like a couple without the label so I said fuck it. Now I’m annoyed because she invited this guy to her Birthday and all I kept thinking was, “now this makes sense”. It was her first time actually meeting him but she told me they talk all day everyday through text. She also met him around the same time she met me, but I invited her on a few dates in person which made her go with me. She’s made it clear I’m not on my phone as much and don’t text nearly as much as this guy. And don’t get me wrong, I like the fact that “I won” the race to the woman, but based off everything she like like anime, Mario kart, and a bunch of other random things that I’m not very interested in, he loves too. He’s also younger than me… her age, speaks Spanish, is much bigger than I am, and gives off the nerd vibe that I feel like she’s into. I’m the total opposite, I am into hockey, F1, and working out. I like her and she’s very attracted to me, and shows it infront of him which does make me feel good, but just thinking about the fact that she’s messaging him all day just talking about things they can both relate to, I feel like a placeholder.
My girlfriend has a close male friend with a better connection than me. She tells me they talk all the time🧐?
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