Please guide me guys, girlfriend has a male best friend that bothers me?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend actually has a male best friend that i don’t like, he flirts with him as well and i know his intentions are not good, i’m about to propose my girlfriend but first i want her to remove any possible threats i feel that can harm our relationship, i trust her but it’s just that it bothers me. So how should i handle this situation, cos i know they both are kinda close friends

[Anonymous]

You are right to concerned. I had a male friend that tried to break my husband and me up when we were first dating because he wanted me for himself. He'd actually done this with a few guys I had dated. Manipulation and gaslighting. You just have to wait until he shows his ass

[dynamicyandere]

If they’ve been long time friends for years, and she has never done anything to betray your trust, then he may be an exception.


But… The fact that she flirts with him is concerning.


What do you mean by flirting?

[petitedollbabee]

Have you ever brought that up to her? That it bothers you.