Do women check to see who looks at their snapchat stories?

[ImNotCreativeEither]

I’ve always assumed they did, and I’ve been careful about viewing stories because of that (if I want a girl to think I’m not paying attention to her). But I’m wondering if I’m being careful for no reason. Specifically in this situation I’m talking to a 27 year old woman I met on an app specifically for kinks. She looks at all of my stories but stopped responding to my texts out of nowhere last week (second time she did that). She posts a few stories a day, but might go a day or two with no stories. I can give more details if you want to try to pin down the kind of girl she is and what the context is but in the interest of keeping this brief I’ll withhold until someone asks. I’m curious if she notices that I’m not looking at her stories.

[Lee06]

I check how many people looked at it. Not necessarily who. If that woman is someone who looks at you for approval or confirmation, then she might check if you’ve seen her story already. To me it looks like she’s not like that, since she just stopped talking to you. Goodluck figuring her out :p

[ImNotCreativeEither]

Yeah it’s kind of a gray area with her right now. It’s a weird situation because the app we met on wasn’t for normal dating so once we made plans I didn’t really do the “how’s your day going” thing. I just waited to text her again day of. She kind of disappeared on me before and I felt like I had been screwed with so I basically told her to f*ck off. I didn’t expect to hear from her after that but it got her attention and we started talking again. Part of me feels like she wants me to do that again (she’s into dom/sub stuff but I’ve kept it cool with that because she said she only wanted it in the bedroom. Maybe she changed her mind and was into it and wants me to do it again?). Complicated situation. Not sure my next move

[ImNotCreativeEither]

... sorry I didn’t realize I was talking to a 15 year old...

[Lee06]

I take that as you don’t want me to answer that longer reply. Have a nice day! :)

[ImNotCreativeEither]

Lol no no, just felt like it was inappropriate talking to a minor about that stuff

[ImNotCreativeEither]

Didn’t mean to be condescending

[sugarette]

I do sometimes. Like, if I post a story containing a video/image of a friend then I'll check if they saw it in case they want to screenshot it or want me to send it to them. I also check out of pure boredom when I have literally nothing else to do but it doesn't mean much to me.

[sensualquinoa]

I check but only for the guy I like- idc who else sees it. That's not the same the other way around though- I just tap through everyone's stories as fast as I can to make it look like I care. So really views don't mean anything and I try not to think about it too much

[SecondGuy]

I gotta get updated on these apps. I though snapchat was just pics and text. Stories? I have snapchat but never use it. I wish I knew what to do with it. For my uses, the cellphone text thing can send text and pictures so I never saw the need for snapchat

[Amylia]

I'm checking usually only if I want a certain person to see it. And I just look if this person saw it, the rest I don't really care.
But still it's not that I always check. Sometimes I post something and don't really care much about who see it.

[witherwing]

I usually don't, but I don't often post stories. I guess people who want certain people to see their stories check the viewers and people who don't care who sees the stories don't.

[C2280]

Probably not, unless she's interested in you and then it's a plus! I don't check unless there's someone I particularly want to have seen it.

[maddog998]

Nope, not me. Unless it's a snapchat of my daughter

[Queen94]

I always check to see who's looked but not really for any reason other than to be nosey lol

[Iknownothing123]

Yes, I do actually. But I don't really care who sees it, unless it is a crush or something.

[xZoeyx]

Only if there's someone specifically you want to know if they saw it. Other than that, they don't or some might but probably don't pay much attention

[Anonymous]

Yes, they do. Ik I do

[ImNotCreativeEither]

Are you paying attention to which guys do and don’t? If you’re on the fence about a guy do you notice when he stops?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, I do pay attention. I make sure, ie checking snap score every hour and story

[Sabrina_gomez]

Yeah I always check :D

[Anonymous]

I check to see if the guy I’m into sees me.

[SmokeStroke]

Of course she does bro women overthink everything

[damagebmw]

You can't generalise these things

[jdav2k]

As a guy, I check my Snapchat views

[Aeleen]

Yup we do

[Pink2000]

I check sometimes

[Honglitha]

Not really

[shep0612]

What is Snapchat

[exeberia5334]

Maybe