Because the term implies misogyny; 'incels' as a community of people tend to blame women for their unhappiness. Also it seems like in general they put way too much importance on sex and see women as sex objects rather than people.
Of course I feel bad for people who feel lonely and are sexually frustrated but I think calling oneself an 'incel' isn't a good thing because it alligns you with this group of people who think and act the way I've described above
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Why do boys feel the need to make a big dramatic show about not getting laid? Why put a label on it and demand everyone's pity? Do you see girls do this kind of crap when they're 30 and unmarried?
Just seems unnecessary and very self pitying. You could instead put your energy into getting physically fit, meeting new people, or picking up a hobby.
No one hates guys who haven't gotten laid.
What we don't like is the "Incel Movement" which is about men feeling entitled to sex but not willing to look at themselves and why they aren't attractive to women, and why they aren't having success at dating.
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You can have sex easily... it is simple as that...
I am virgin and I have never been in relationship... but if I want sex, I could... but I choose not...
I do not live to please society and stupid mentality... I live based on my values and responsible for my action and consequences.
Immature women gonna say you are entitled for sex... I agree and likewise you are not entitled for love and have a good relationship too..
This is bullshit.
Get your shit together and then girls may find you attractive. It's not about hating; it's about men not taking responsibility for their own actions or lack there of.
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Because they dig themselves into the whole themselves. You’re also way too hard on yourself. We’re the same age, and my friendship group has girls that have never kissed anyone, 75% have never slept with anyone either. It’s not a tragedy like you’ve been led to believe. You can try to help but most are too far radicalised.
Help them get laid? Why should we help them when so many of them promote, openly mind you, rape and violence against women. If a guy comes up to me and tells me that he really wants a girl to love and cherish, I will help. If he wants just sex, I'll give him advice. But if a guy acts entitled to it, or tries to hurt someone or does, fuck you.
Many people may be 'involuntarily celibate' but 'incel' has a particularly negative connotation. If somebody is 'hating on incels', they probably mean the bad ones and not you.
There is no such thing as an Incel if you really want to get laid there is always an option now if someone is shy or has social anxiety it doesn't make them involuntarily celibate it just means they aren't trying
Nobody hates them as far as I know but it is every man for themselves when it comes to finding dates. I am sure every single guy would like some help but it doesn't work that way.
Women hate incels because they are ugly. Beta Males hate incels in order to White Knight for women and because incels are threatening their world
We hate the entitlement, the volatility, the arrogance, the sexism and their behavior.
Women just get pissy that these guys won't worship them
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