Why do people hate incels?

Incels (or involuntary celibrates) are hated on mainly by girls, but they don't get that maybe these incels are depressed and lonely and need their help (not necessarily by dating them, but helping them get dates) . I'm a 19 year old "incel". I don't go on rampages about girls ignoring me, but I do get depressed about it. I haven't lost my virginity and have only kissed one girl, who doesn't even remember it happening. Instead of hating incels, we should feel bad for them. If you think about it, it is somewhat selfish to hate and judge incels (not the ones that spew hatred all the time) for their lack of attracting women. Why do we do it? Why is our society centered around hating instead of helping?
Why do people hate incels?
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