The guy I like is really uncomfortable around me?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I like this guy, lets call him Angus. Anyway we weren't really friends before, just sort of acquaintances. I haven't really liked anyone before, and he has never shown and interest in any girls,and then for some reason he started catching my eye and I admitted to friends I had a crush on him. Anyway a few weeks later he found out and it has since been very uncomfortable, because we have similar friends we are always hanging out in the same group and he ignores me, or moves away, or keeps away from me. if I sit down at a table he will stand up and walk away and do something, if I walk into a room he will look at me and leave. Its really starting to distress me, I really like him. So I've started trying to impress him, like dressing really nice and stuff but he still doesn't notice or care.I really want to talk to him, but its so awkward and he leaves all the time, I'm not brave enough to talk to him alone, but I like him so much. Any advice on where to go from here, I've tried getting over him but I am always around him and thinking about him. Please help :)

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Also I forgot to add that when I ask his friends what he thinks of me they say he has no experiance and doesn't know how to act or anything, so I'm not sure if he likes me or is even interested.

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Also all my friends say I could do better because he's not the best looking guy, but I think he is and he's really nice and everything. I feel like I'm not good enough for him, but I haven't admitted it to anyone.

[flower1000]

well I think he IS interested in you becouse if he was not he would just say hi and be cool with it most men would be flattered and flirt with you this would not bother a man the fact that he is so bothered and nervey around you he gets up I think he likes you but he's shy maybe be even intimadated with you that he feels nervious round you this is what shy men do when they like some 1 but the way now is to go about your business and ignore him you must laugh and enjoy yourself and 1 more thing try and flirt speak to other men in front of him see what happens but what ever you do DO NOT LOOK HIM OR LET HIM CATCH YOU LOOKING good luck love :) I think he feels the same about you and does not know how to go about you

[Mesonfielde]

Yeah, break his self-esteem and hopes into pieces.

[girlsguys99]

he's very much not interested in you...you shouldn't try to get him to like you...find someone else to like and keep trying until you do...it's okay :) :)

[Mesonfielde]

You should initiate a conversation with him at least once. He might get more comfortable after that. The two possible options are that either he is avoiding you to make sure he doesn't make any mistakes that would ruin his image, or he is attempting to ignore you to make sure you stop being interested in him. You can't really figure that out until you talk to him. If it's the first, he will seek your company afterward. If it's the second, he'll attempt to avoid even more. But then it is not even worth pursuing. :P

[Mesonfielde]

Initiate contact. Talk to him, if you want to.

[Anonymous]

sorry but ignore him like he doesn't exist ,the more you try to impress him the more annoying he feels

[girlsguys99]

totally agree with this guy...plus he's making you feel like crap and your self esteem is lowering even tho you seem like a generally happy gal...you've SO gotta move on from him...we can't always get who we want..:)

[JerseyGirl]

This is very true. Stop showing him attention. Men don't like to be chased, no matter what some on here have said. He knows you like him, now it is time to back off and go about your own business. If he likes you he will come around. If he doesnt, you are already moving on and doing your own thing and leaving yourself open for someone else. Trust me...I have been there. Pursuing a guy who is already running, will keep him running...but further and faster. :)