I asked my Girlfriend How does she feel about me and she said: "i don't have definition yet"? Any ideas please what she means?

[MrAgent640509040147]

I asked my Girlfriend of 3 months how does she feel about me and she said "I don't have definition yet"

She was angry at the time... as I have a stalker that follows me everywhere and it really upset her for some reason... any advice would be great thanks

[Anonymous]

I don’t really know your relationship with your girl but I can see that you’re always stressing over her.

Having too much of bad emotions can’t be good for you.

If the problem can be solved, that’s great but if you’re always staying mad to each other, it can get complicated.

When people are hurt, they always say the opposite.

I think you have to take another look to your relationship and see if you really feel comfortable.

If not, you still have a lifetime to live and to focus on other things. Take care of yourself and see that your world can’t depend on someone.

[Anonymous]

I think it's best to stop pressing her to talk at the moment. Just let her know you love/ like her and will be there for her when she wants to talk about the situation. If you keep messaging her trying to get her to talk is going to make her more annoyed especially when you say you don't understand her anger... But if another girl is all over you of course she is going to be angry.

Also tell the girl that stalks you if she continues you will go to the police and get a restraining order (hopefully that will stop her), if not actually go and get a restraining order against her.

[littlebutswole]

take time to prove how much you care about her when she's not angry, so she knows that you aren't just trying to stop fighting, you are just reminding her of the truth like you do every day. i'm not usually a fan of sweet romantic gestures but try it. write her a card and leave it in her purse. text her randomly how amazing she is...

[AuroraRoseat]

Lol. I thought I answered this question already. I feel like it's been long enough for her to calm down so that you can ask her again but she needs to be rational and realize that there is nothing someone can do about a stalker.

[MrAgent640509040147]

. I asked her today and she said you know what I feel for you but said she doesn't want to answer it and laughs

[AuroraRoseat]

She's avoiding the question. Tell her you want to hear it directly from her, because right now you don't know.

If she gets upset, I feel that she's not being genuine. There isn't a reason for her to be angry.

[MrAgent640509040147]

I do but she says I don't want to say it

[AuroraRoseat]

It shouldn't be hard for her to say what she's thinking unless if she doesn't know or doesn't care. She shouldn't be shifty especially on such an important question.

[MrAgent640509040147]

This girl is so private and shy she has this defensive thing because of her past I'm not sure if it's because of that or not

[wingattebaby16]

well, you asked this question another way.. or someone else asked a similar question...

give her time... be there for her... show her how you feel

[HereIbe]

It means she is still shopping around and you're just a placeholder.

[MrAgent640509040147]

. I asked her today and she said you know what I feel for you but said she doesn't want to answer it and laughs...

[HereIbe]

She's playing head games and you're letting her. Ditch that evil bitch.

[MrAgent640509040147]

Why is she evil tho?

[HereIbe]

I don't know why she's evil. Maybe her family is evil. Maybe she chose to be evil. Maybe she is just so selfish that it edges into evil. Her motives are not known to me.

[amrraziq6]

why are you asking isn't it enough for you she is there

[binarybabe001]

Report the woman who is stalking you and find another woman to date. Better to just start over with a clean slate rather than trying to make sense of all this toxicity you are getting from two different women at the same time.

[TrixiePooch]

She hasn't figured you out yet and is unsure of her feelings.

[MrAgent640509040147]

What can I do to help?

[MrAgent640509040147]

. I asked her today and she said you know what I feel for you but said she doesn't want to answer it and laughs

[TrixiePooch]

That can be taken a couple different ways - both good or bad. Usually when they laugh it's bad.

[MrAgent640509040147]

You think it's bad? She's really shy so i don't know if that has anything to do with it

[ChantelHarlow]

She doesn't want to say she likes you because she's mad. But yeah she likes you.

[MrAgent640509040147]

. I asked her today and she said you know what I feel for you but said she doesn't want to answer it and laughs.

[DollySummers]

It means she has actually figured what you mean to her.

[MrAgent640509040147]

Hasn't do you mean?

[MrAgent640509040147]

. I asked her today and she said you know what I feel for you but said she doesn't want to answer it and laughs..

[DollySummers]

Sounds like she is cynical, and doesn’t love you.

[MrAgent640509040147]

You think it's bad? She's really shy so i don't know if that has anything to do with it

[DollySummers]

Yeah. The way you described her

[DaddyslilGoodGirl]

Do something for her to show her how much you really love her and that no one can get in between you two

[shabab12345]

That something is nothing 😋

[MrAgent640509040147]

@shabab12345 what do you mean?

[TuMeManques]

I'd look for someone with better communication skills

[WadeGarrett]

Right!

[Isabella96]

She is just angry because of that stalker... it seems like that...

[MrAgent640509040147]

But said I don't have definition yet which means she doesn't know what she feels like think

[BiLuna]

Dude just dont care , girls say shit when they are mad

[QueenofCups]

I answered this already.

[Clyde_123]

Um what's going on? Lol

[MrAgent640509040147]

My girlfriend is angry in the messages as she seen my stalker all around me... and she went nuts I told her I don't care about that bitch and in the heat of the moment I asked her how she felt about me and she said I don't have definition yet.

[Clyde_123]

Do you know the stalker? Does she know the stalker?

[MrAgent640509040147]

I met her a fews months ago... just know her first name she smiled at me a few times ages ago now she follows me around most the time... I told her to back off but she doesn't listen... No my girlfriend doesn't know her

[Clyde_123]

Boy why don't you report her to the police? She must be crazy or something.

[Clyde_123]

Your girlfriend is angry because she might afraid your stalker cause harm to you or to anyone around you.

[MrAgent640509040147]

. I asked her today and she said you know what I feel for you but said she doesn't want to answer it and laughs...

[Anonymous]

Stop demonstrating her messages on here...

[Penelope_]

Oh gosh not ag

[Penelope_]

Again*

[WadeGarrett]

Again for what?

[MrAgent640509040147]

😂😂😂