Question about grinding?

[Shuuhei]

Hi so I was at the club today and this random girl behind me started grinding her back against mine and I didn't make a move because I thought it was unintentional. Should I have turned round and grabbed her or what.

[ak667]

I recommend being optimistic: glass is half full sort of thing. And if the glass turns out to be empty, you can find another one that might have some liquid in it.

[ak667]

And even if it was unintentional, you might still have a chance if you turn around and move a move. She might be in the mood enough to entertain your move, or not. That's life. But it is better to try and fail, as I see, than to be left wondering the whole time what might have been. A slap on the face only stings for a few minutes.

[Shuuhei]

Your right buddy. Thanks. I made a move on 2 random girls earlier, it just felt awkward. That kinda demotivated me. I guess I have to keep trying

[ak667]

In my case I don't never had that type of presence in night clubs as 5'7 half-Japanese guy to be making bad ass moves on girls. So I did another strategy, like if a girl rubbed against me, I'd turn around and be like, "Hey, how's it going? Cheers!" And if the girl entertained my conversation for a brief moment, I'd sneak up in there and get close and start grinding against her. That worked for me as the "sneaky devil" strategy, and maybe that can sometimes be more effective with a girl who is tired of guys lunging for her too quickly (just slow down a little bit before you unleash the beast). It might be something to try if you come home empty-handed a lot -- "sneaky devil" style -- chat first, grab later.

[kojikurac]

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Did she do it like that?

[Shuuhei]

lol I wish

[kitty124]

Maybe she was Just dancing and there was not much space left? If a random guy grabbed me while i was dancing i would freak out a little.

[MrB21993]

Let her grind and let her enjoy yourself could be some kind of thing going on that you don't know she's willing to use you for her body rub