Guys? Thoughts on grinding?

[Girlie8780]

When I go to the club I find it exciting and fun to grind with a guy. However now I have a boyfriend, so I want to go with him and do some dancing and grinding. I was talking to him the other day and he mentioned that he didn't like grinding and found it tasteless. :( do you guys dislike grinding too? Is there anything I can do or say to change his mind? I'm worried that if we go to the club and I start grinding on him he'll think I'm a slut.

[Vincee]

I love when girls grind, but I don't have a girlfriend and I can understand that your boyfriend wants to be protective so he doesn't want you to grind on him. Or maybe he isn't confident enough about his girlfriend grind on him in public. Or maybe he just thinks grinding is tasteless...

[NerdInDenial]

I love grinding on a girl because it's foreplay. It's another form of expressing sexual desire to a girl. You wouldn't be a slut if you just grind on him. You can ask him to go with you once, and if he doesn't like it, he doesn't have to do it again.

[tohrment]

Maybe smooth into the grinding. Don't get all nitty gritty unless he seems to enjoy it :P

I like grinding too. I think it's fun and harmless, but I don't really like strangers touching me so it's something I prefer to reserve for guys I'm interested in.

[ButterflyXkisses]

My fiance won't let me unless we're alone in my room. I used to do it at school when I knew nobody was watching, but he was so paranoid he would get mad and pinch me. >.< He's so mean.

[smb930]

Tasteless and dumb, I agree... when I'm sober.

After a few shots of whiskey, it's a completely different story. I ground hardcore with a girl last Saturday night at the bar and she enjoyed every minute of it. I have no regrets, but I'd still say its tasteless.

[Anonymous]

well the before I had grinded for my first time I thought it was stupid too. now I think its super fun and entertaining. tell him don't knock it till you try it.

[collie22]

I've done it a few times with different people. I have to be in the right mood. I've noticed other people doing it too. I think its okay to do.

[Anonymous]

It's cool that you like it. What in particular do you enjoy? You like feeling his c0ck getting harder as you rub against it? And do you prefer rubbing it with your butt or your crotch?

[Girlie8780]

Haha yeah I like that because I like knowing I can turn him on ;) I usually use my butt

[Opinion Owner]

So you like feeling his hard c0ck then huh? Is it more about feeling how hard and big he is, or more about feeling it grow and twitch?

[Girlie8780]

Um why do you wanna know?

[Opinion Owner]

Just curious. I always wonder what's going through a girl's mind when she grinds me.

[Girlie8780]

Ok well I wouldn't say there was a specific part I like. I just like to know I turn him on and when he's turned on that's turns me on too

[Opinion Owner]

Got it. So how far have you gone on the dance floor or at a club to turn a guy on?

[Girlie8780]

Just normal grinding

I don't do that thing where the girl lik leans forward so that it practically loks like they're doing it

[Opinion Owner]

Got it. So you probably haven't gotten your hands involved then?

[Girlie8780]

No because its in public

[Opinion Owner]

Fair enough. So the current guy isn't a fan, huh? Did the previous guy enjoy it? And does the current guy like you playing with him in private at least?

[Girlie8780]

My previous boyfriend also found grinding tasteless so we didn't go to clubs together. Of course he "play" in private. I've had bfs that are too shy to "play" and they don't last very long.

[Girlie8780]

Of course we*

[Opinion Owner]

So how long do you give them before they need to start putting out? LOL!

[Girlie8780]

Well there was one guy who was too shy to hug me, kiss me on the cheek, etc

We lasted about two weeks

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, that doesn't work at ALL. Does the current guy have sex?

[Girlie8780]

Yeah but this is getting too personal lol lets say our goodbyes here

[Opinion Owner]

Awwww. . . okay then.

[MylesF]

Treat him to a private lap dance in your sexiest mini. Once he gets addicted to grinding, take him to dark club where you can do it in public without making a spectacle of yourselves.

[Anonymous]

I dislike clubbing in general.. Its a waste of time, money, and is honestly childish..

[13until5]

i love it! fun and sexy

plus I'm a good dancer