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Lmao we’ll seriously get back to that debate once men give birth to children & were the oppressed sex in virtually all parts of the world since time immemorial, okay? Cool.
If males gave birth (not just a few other species in the animal kingdom), women would have much less value in life. With the oppression comes the ability to keep the species alive. I think it's a fair trade off. You (females) have a lot more power than they realise. It just isn't exercised to it's full potential. With great power comes great possibilities, you just have to know how to use it.
@ImagineSketchy lmao it’s not about not realizing our potential it’s judt that our potential always has been and continues to be suppressed by the patriarchy, even today where it has widely been accepted that women and men have the exact same capacities for maths as a girl you still hear shit like “don’t expect to do very well in physics so why don’t you go for a language?” from professors and parents alike
The very defining characteristic of oppression is that it limits capacities of certain members of society and there with hinders the progress of society as a whole
It sucks I know. Both sexes have their disadvantages.
@ImagineSketchy no denying that
If men could give birth, why would we need women?
Because you need 2 to fertilize an egg? Males would just have more value in the process as we carry the generation with us.
@esotericstory to lead society in their place what else
There is no escaping women's existential purpose of making babies.
@esotericstory not if it was man’s job
Or we could just oppress you again and force you to have debates of equality with us. As soon as men want a legitimate discussion so many women like you turn to things like this. Next time a woman complains about the wage gap, I'll tell her that we can continue the discussion when women die on the job as often as men do, and when women were the workhorse since time immemorial, and until then she has no right to comment on such things since men have it much worse in this area of life and as a result get benefits to them (women have it worse in childbirth and raising since they get a majority of the responsibility, men have it worse in work since they get a majority of the responsibilities).
@devilman666 oh wow so you’re using your own patriarchal advantages to justify women’s disadvantages in the labor market and simultaneously somehow think blaming women for men’s “responsibility” (that men themselves created) to do more physically demanding jobs and women’s exclusion from said jobs?
Did your last 2 brain cells just fail to see the connection there or?
*.. exclusion from said jobs makes perfect sense
@princessfrimjupiter oh wow you said a lot without actually saying much, maybe you should try to be more descriptive? I honestly have no idea what "patriarchal advantages" would be. You somehow think in 2019 that women are excluded from physically demanding jobs rather than simply women choosing not to do them? You're ridiculous, in my country (canada) there is nothing excluding women from working the dangerous jobs, they can train into any field and even join the military if they want. I call bullshit on the exclusion of women.
Dying and getting injured on the job is an advantage? Never seeing your family because you work so much overtime is an advantage? Having your entire worth as a human being tied to your earning potential is an advantage? (Alright, that last one can be an advantage if you make a lot of money, since you become worth more than most people). bullshit. You can't just call anything an advantage or disadvantage just because you want to.
Am I blaming women for this? I wouldn't say blaming women, but certainly not giving them a free pass, both men and women played a part in creating the society we have today. Most western women want to work less and then just marry a man who makes enough to balance it out. Meaning that a man who wants to get married (on average) needs to make more than the average woman, meaning he needs to either work a more dangerous job or get higher education. Men die far more often in the workplace, as well as being drafted into war far more often than women. Their responsibility to society is much more, and it is not created solely by men as you attempt to imply. Womens desires and actions contribute to this as much as mens, not long ago there was upset in the usa about women potentially getting drafted into the army, women protested and it never got passed, but men will never be free from the draft, obviously this is just because men want the heroic experience of being the only gender to die on the battlefield (sarcasm).
All that said, I was just displaying that it upsets me that people like you refuse to debate equality because women in the past were oppressed. "Women have been oppressed so mens opinions of what goes on today mean nothing". Women like you try to oppress men while shouting about womens oppression, your original response to the question emphasizes this, where you literally said to oppress men (by refusing to debate with them and give them avenues to change the way society views and treats them, you implement unjust treatment/control, making it oppression by definition) until they change reality so they are women (they can give birth and were oppressed since time immemorial).
@devilman666 typical straight white male with no understanding whatsoever of the term “oppression” confirmed. Case closed. Don’t even @ me.
@princessfromjupiter wow. Racism and sexism directed at me? Probably not since racism and sexism don't apply to straight white men, but if I werent straight and white and you said that then you would be racist and sexist. *slow clap* if I was a black woman for example, and a white man said "typical black woman with no understanding..." then it would be sexism and racism.
Oppression (according to google dictionary) : prolonged cruel or unjust treatment or control.
By saying mens opinions mean nothing you are putting them under unjust treatment.
Case closed because you dont want to have an actual discussion, just label others as a straight white male and you win the argument. Sexist women like you sicken me, and your kind is becoming more and more common because of feminism. We can't even have a straight forward discussion about oppression and sexism because you refuse to view other people's problems and experiences as legitimate if they have a penis. You are the problem with today's society.
@devilman666 hahahahaha. Bye.
Both suffer differently. But suffer non the less...
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Except for hiring plumbers, electricans, dealing with saleman, and getting their car fixed, yeah they do.
Damn women get screwed when they go to a mechanic. hahaha
Here we go again... This is not a yes/no question. It's way more complex than that.
Watch this and judge for your self
I see that video and think Feminism.
I don't agree with that video at all.
Your 15, just wait until you live by your self and have a job. So for you it's irrelevant because of your age and your age alone.
#1 I'd never wear something like spanx
#2 I won't wear makeup unless it's my wedding or something
#3 heels don't bother me and I wouldn't need to wear them anyway lol
#4 I'd never dress in a way to be called out by my appearance (cat-calling)
#5 I'd not go to a bar
#6 you are unable to see the big picture and beond your age and beond your self.
Probably the biggest reason for the divide in sexuality is that women are taught from day one that they should avoid being sexual as much as possible or they'll be seen as cheap whores, sluts and hussies. On the other hand, men are quite often cheered on by other guys, including male parental units, to BE as sexual as possible!! Partly, that's BECAUSE women are taught to make it nearly impossible for a guy to get a girl!! As it IS so hard for a guy, when one finally DOES get some attraction, it's seen as a goal that he's scored! so, other guys that also want to score that same goal do what THEY can to score and that turns most of us into perverts in a woman's eyes! But, to be perfectly honest, you girls want sex, love and companionship just as much as we do! Maybe even more, in some cases.
Okay, now you've seen the video of a guy SORT OF living like a girl for a day (with a heavy feminist bent to it), now, let's see how the girls do living like a guy for a day. I see so many of you here complaining about guys not asking you out, etc., try living like a guy for a while and see how much harder it is for us to BOTHER to ask you out!! THEN you'll see WHY we don't bother as often. Try living your life where everyone you're even marginally interested in, as far as having a real, honest, loving, caring, long-lasting relationship with has you pegged as a perverted sex predator from the moment you walk into the room!! Suddenly, asking someone out isn't as easy as you like to think it is!
@FunkyMonkee yea guys have it easier.
I absolutely hate feminism.
@11110000bbbb We do? Girls have it WAY easier! They get to pick & choose whoever they want to be with! Guys have to beg and plead with a girl before she even notices him!
@FunkyMonkee that is what I meant girls* sorry
@11110000bbbb Oh! Okay. I agree.
Statistically the high male suicide rate says it all. Men don't get there biological needs met unlike women do because society and the government takes care of the women as priority. The West is very gynocentric.
I do believe that men aren’t usually “taken care of” but I don’t think the suicide rate is a good measure. many more women attempt suicide than men but men prefer more lethal methods (guns), which is why they are usually succeed in suicide. :/ men struggle in a different way than women but in my opinion it’s about equal.
Of course the "attempted" suicide rate is higher in women since when men try to kill themselves they actually mean it so they actually die.
@annieli13 women attempt suicide for attention seeking/cry for help. Men attempt suicide to commit suicide because they WANT to die. There's your difference...
lol tf? attention seeking? my personal experience with is that I’ve attempted multiple times for it to actually happen and got sent to residential and shit. don’t claim that women don’t actually mean it because it’s not true. both men and women struggle with this and it’s not fair to make it seem like less just because their attempt wasn’t “successful”
It equally sucks for everyone who isn’t rich. Let’s stop arguing about this😂
If you remove the biology part from all periods, moodswings and childbirth then is depends where. In western world I would say yes. In middle east no. But both genders has their ups and downs.
I wouldn’t say easier or harder. We kind of have different lives to lead.
I am not sure, things like these are hard to measure
I think it's equal. They have to earn their money just like men.
My babe even said she could earn my money for me in the future. 💕 I want to work too, but just shows how special she is. @mladasrpska
@PrettyRegular awe, it's nice that you haven't forgotten. It means that you're giving importance to the things I say. Thank you, means a lot to me <3 .
@mladasrpska By working I will show to my mommy that I can be more than a toy boy. 💕😂
you will always be a toyboy
@mladasrpska I will, but I can also work. 😉
Your babe is a bit of a bitch when they talks about religion though.
@OvershareGamer Being atheist doesn't make me a bitch. I bet you don't even practise christianism
@mladasrpska I didn't say I did practice being a christian. But I don't mock chirstians or athiests or belief systems either.
This probably isn't going to be the best spot to debate this though.
It depends. Women have a heck of lot more to deal with biologically, but I have also never seen a guy land a $100K job just because he has big boobs and a nice smile.
In some ways for sure. But I wouldn't want child birth! lol
How many people are gonna ask these same questions🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Bitch, please!
If by "easier" you mean "expelling a watermelon head sized brat through a hole the size of a cherry, then..
HELL NO! ARE YOU SERIOUS RIGHT NOW?😱
Society doesn't demand you to have children. It's optional.
@Lord_Thy_Gawd
Society also doesn't demand you to have your asses ravished ~~ it's optional. Trending though.
It's hilarious how mean this girl gets.
Wait, who?😠
I am an angel.😇 ~ stop oppressing me, evil men!!
🤣🤣🤣
I think women have it better
@Desconhecida
You are proving yourself to be a typical girl. Lol What's your prob? Chill.
get her Des! get that young one!
I am a typical girl. Damn.. I'm ALL girl.
Now you just sounded like the typical disguised queer @bannacookies
@OvershareGamer ~ didn't quite understand what you meant.. did you want me to kill the poor child? During an identity crisis like that?😒
~~ Let me sleep on it.🤚🤜🤛
Is the instinct to want a child really that strong?
nah, before we were talking about how kids are not physically disciplined thus why I said "go get the young one"(as in this mouthy guy here).
Bullshit! Men have it harder and everyone knows it, but I don't give a fuck what's right or wrong. Women are cunts and deserve nothing but misery
@zuricose crazy as hell.
@OvershareGamer what? Fuck off!
@zuricose haha, don't get all emotionally irregular, it's nothing, what I said cheech.
@OvershareGamer I can hit and make your face irregular
@zuricose buahah, alright. I'll take that.
I like the way you think but I just think "having it hard" is subjective so they're pretty much equal but the statistical data available still remains a fact.
they are allowed to be shallow, stupid, and violent
Depends on situation. They could have more struggles as well
Depends on what you want in life if it’s a family then it suck to be a man. If you want to less emotional then it sucks to be women
NO ONE has it easy. It's not a competition.
Imagine yourself going to a club, and there's 100 women and one guy.
Good luck with that.
No they have a lot more to put up with mainly from men? it
in west hell yes
in muslim countries hell no
Now that I agree with
Exactly
@anothermonniu I don't know why I got so many dislikes from girls
Cause they think they have a hard life but they really dont
Maybe the Western women didn't liked hearing that truth 😂
@bklynbadboy1 they need to try live in middle east at least for one hour. they will end up killing themselfs.
They are laid more easily, but they have other problems
Yes.. It's like if you fall on road when walking many will come to help you get up.
And if i fall on road less would come.
They do in, south Korea, Japan, Taiwan, west & Europe compare to men but overall men has it easier in most places speacily in africa & middle east.
Yeah, we are stronger so we are expected to do all the hard work without being thanked for it, both in society and in sex.
Absolutely. Beauty precedes all. Just act helpless ;)
I tried with a cop and the cop didn't care about me lol
@BluesheepOwl Either you didn't cry or aren't that good looking. Slight chance the cop was doing their job though..
It was after a car accident. I had no idea what I was supposed to do because it was my first car accident. I asked him what I should do and he just looked at me like I was an idiot and didn't help give me guidance
@BluesheepOwl Should have called your dad. Or a tow truck..
I called my mom and she told me I needed to get the guys license and insurance. But yeah I'm used to cops being helpful usually. I was a damsel in distress in that situation and it didn't matter
@BluesheepOwl Wait.. Did you cause the accident?
No, but the kid who crashed into me was trying to say I cut him off
@BluesheepOwl I dunno.. Sounds shady. A little suspect.
l don't think so not when it comes to having children
Girls, tell me in which ways you would have it harder than us, please.
To the one who disliked, I'm genuinely curious, it's not sarcasm.
Yeah, all people sharing this opinion will tell you that it is a lie.
I have met a lot of women who suffer as a single mother, addicted to drugs, and abused relationship.
That’s not a gender thing tho. Single dads , addicts abusive ex. It’s just that men aren’t as well sympathied as women in these situations because of the social meta currently. We both have advantages that trump the other sex. But over all, women are the advantaged due to the fact that feminism corrected gendered issues, but it overcorrected. Now it’s unfair in the opposite way
Pregnancy can ruin her life. And women suffer from period every single month.
The fact women give birth and have periods doesn’t at all connect to these circumstances that everyone can have. Guys can be all of those things.
I don’t think you are a woman
No, both sexes have their easy stuff & challenges.
The entire system is catering to your vagina.
2 likes from men
2 dislikes from women
haha
I think both have it easier in some areas.
In some places yes in some places no.
Yes they do, but only while they have their looks.
50/50 Men dont have to deal with menstration.
In some ways yes other ways no
In some places yes not all though.
In some regards, yes. In some regards, no.
The answer couldn't be any clearer
Yes they do have it easier.
In western society yes.
The pretty one dO.
The uglies don't
Depends on the location.
lmao clearly a gender bias
Women have it easier
In terms of GAG, definitely!
yes they do
right now girls have it easy
The pretty ones certainly do.
Men have it much easier.
Mens suicide rate is 4 times higher than women. You can't fucking tell me that men have it easy. What about being a man looks easy? Women have more options more support and more respect in society.
We can be jailed without evidence for rape effectively ruining our lives just because a woman could feel slutty after sleeping with her. She can put us away MONTHS OR YEARS after by just regretting it and withdrawing her consent. She can get away with it with little to no consequences. Dealing with you cunts is a Huge risk for men. Look at Johnny Depp he was accused of domestic violence and had his name smeared and dragged through the mud with little evidence yet he had to provide a mountain of evidence to clear his name and even then the people accusing him are fucking silent because society cares about women more.
Fuck off with that shit.
@ranger32 and you didn't even mention men dying far far more often in the workplace or all the men who are conscripted into wars (which women almost never have to worry about, few countries in the world conscript women).
Exactly @devilman666
@ranger32 Men succeed at suicide more but women attempt more. The differences in success is because guns are more successful in suicide than pills, & men tend to use guns because they have more access to guns, & women tend to use pills because they have more access to pills.
Having a cunt doesn't restrict you from owning a firearm.
What does that tell you? Women seek attention and cry out for help with very ineffective methods while mens lives suck so much that we take more steps to make sure our lives actually fucking end.
@mistixs well now you have to back this up with evidence. Personally I thought the difference in suicide was because women wanted attention and support but men felt like they would be shamed for attempting suicide, so they try harder to succeed out of fesr that failure will bring shame. At the very least that was my experience with suicide, I always told myself that if I attempted it then I had to make sure I succeeded, I'd hate to wake up and realize that I'm such a failure that I couldn't even succeed at something like suicide. I was legitimately terrified of surviving and being called weak for not pushing the knife deeper into my wrist, or tying the noose tighter.
I was more afraid of the shame than the thought of death too. Living with the shame of being a failure is more painful than the feeling of nothingness, I am certain of this.
Also, to debunk your comment, australia has banned guns yet the suicide in 2017 was 75% male, so clearly access to guns is not the difference.
Check actual statstics and facts before you make claims like that, or at least do what I did and say that it's your opinion, not a fact. You can't just claim things like that as fact.
@devilman666 banning guns doesn't mean you don't have access to them
@devilman666 well said.
There are other methods of suicide and women can access them too. The difference is that women do it for attention while men genuinely do it because our lives just suck.
@mistixs it means the majority of people do not have easy access to guns, they would probably have to go through underground markets to get one. But sure, you can still have access to guns even if they are not legal.
Regardless, doesn't the fact that men take such serious measures when attempting to end their life mean something serious about the mental health of these men?
Further, this is very fucked up that you are trying to rationalize men dying to suicide more often by saying that women are more often the survivors. It's like me saying that men are more likely to survive being assaulted and therefore they have it worse. Women survive suicide more often, how does that mean women have it worse? I would think that would mean they have it better since they have a higher chance of surviving longer and getting past the depression/whatever is making them suicidal.
@devilman666 men feel more inclined to obtain more dangerous measures because they don't have as much access to easier but less effective measures such as overdosing on antidepressants, because they're on antidepressants something like 1/5 as much as women
"women have it worse because they survive suicide more often" -any feminist once male suicide is brought up.
As if the number of survivors can ever equal the amount of sadness of all the buried sons and fathers who took their own life. Men die at an astonishing rate every year, and suicide plays a huge role in that. It's okay though, I'm sure you think murder and attempted murder are equal, what is the difference between a survivor and a victim, after all?
@mistixs I can guarantee that that is not every case, but maybe it should be addressed that men are far less likely to have access to antidepressants and are less likely to see therapists.
As I said about my suicide attempt, I felt like I had to go to hanging myself because it was more certain than the other methods I had available, though I've thought about slitting my wrists too. I've always had access to enough pills to kill myself, when I was suicidal, I knew where my grandfathers pills were, I could have tried that way but like I said, I wanted to make sure I succeeded, because I was scared of what people would think if not only they knew I attempted suicide, but failed. by the way, I've never been on antidepressants, mostly because I've been too ashamed to seek help at the times when I needed it and no one else asked if I needed a therapist or tried to get me one. I've only had 2 therapist appointments despite years of being depressed and suicidal. Even then those appointments were specifically over a case of molestation when I was 8, so not related to me being depressed and suicidal. I know I'm not an example of all men, but let's be real, men deserve better mental health treatment, we too often ignore men and think they will be tough enough to make it through their problems.
Men have access to drugs you dumb cunt. It doesn't have to be anti depressants. Like we said the fact that men take more measures to kill themselves shows that men go through much more suffering than women.
Yes, they do. It's very annoying.
Nope. We are awful
Not necessarily...
No way.
I don't know mann
Men have it better.
By all measures, no. You're happier, healthier, live longer, and your life is far safer. You enjoy special attention and protection by the state, society, and men, your standard of living is higher on average, and most importantly, you get to express and experience your emotions. An emptier life can not be "better".
The privilege modern day women have today is what the old generations of men died for.
men have it easier
Men commit suicide 4 times higher than women. You can't tell me that men have it easier.
What about being a man looks easy? Women have more options more support and more respect in society.
We can be jailed without evidence for rape effectively ruining our lives just because a woman could feel slutty after sleeping with her. She can put us away MONTHS OR YEARS after by just regretting it and withdrawing her consent. She can get away with it with little to no consequences. Dealing with you cunts is a Huge risk for men. Look at Johnny Depp he was accused of domestic violence and had his name smeared and dragged through the mud with little evidence yet he had to provide a mountain of evidence to clear his name and even then the people accusing him are fucking silent because society cares about women more.
Fuck off with that shit.
@ranger32 what percent of men go to jail?
What about being a man looks easy? Answer the question.
And it doesn't matter what percentage it is the fact that women can do and actually do this is fucking disgusting.