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My ultimate goal in life is to be a father and provide for my family
I admire your goal and hope to meet someone like you
No it's not bad at all... its actually pretty respectable path to take and will be very fulfilling in the long run.
You will have the power to nurture and sculpt the minds of the next generation. Give them everything they require to be fit for success in their adult lives. Teaching them the values and principles as you see fit. This is actually quite a prosperous and noble route to take in the long run.
I notice you said your in college right now. It's not bad to have your goal BUT I am not going to sit here and say it's okay to rack up student loan debt and refuse to paid it before you get married. Or get married and force your husband paid for it. Keep your goal but pay off loans before getting married and quitting your job it's only fair for your future husband.
Absolutely not! Women’s liberation is about allowing them to do whatever they want. So if they want to be a mother and homemaker, so be it! Let them pursue what they want.
The reason you are feeling unnecessary guilt is because feminism is NOT really about women’s rights. It’s about destroying traditional families.
It’s not bad, just keep in mind that most women with children still shoulder both a household and a real, paying job successfully so why not aim higher like they are?
Personally it’s my dream to get a PhD & produce new knowledge capital that will help society progress in the right direction. I want to continue to make art on the side & maybe adopt some advisory roles in economics and politics (which would be my fields of expertise) to the EU, lobbying groups or national governments.
No, that’s my goal ultimately. I want a career and I also want to publish books because it’s my passion but I just know I’m meant to be a nurturer. That’s what I want the most out of life to be a wife and mother.
I wouldn't say that was “bad” as an ultimate goal as there is nothing wrong with wanting to be a mother and a homemaker. Being the best mother you can is a complex , challenging and demanding choice but obvs very rewarding. The only point I would add to this is that a good measure of live experience is invaluable from a parenting perspective and can be really important when your kids come to age so that’s why the timing element in planning a family cN play a big role :) .. good luck though
No that's perfectly natural just make sure you have lived traveled and enjoyed life before you do settle down and make sure you you have a career set up before hand so you have something to look forward to when your child has grown up
No but unless you’re with a rich guy you’d be smart to have all your kids within a few years if each other & then build a work career starting from when the kids are like 5th grade. Otherwise you will be hurting for money later in life if anything goes wrong with the marriage or even if your husband dies without a very big insurance policy.
That is the natural normal goal. Being a mother and homemaker should be every womans ultimate goal. Its not bad at all.
As a man my goal is to be a father and provider.
No it's not bad. But it is risky. You will be fully dependant on whoever your with to provide for you and your children. Not to be harsh but in the case of your spouse leaving you or dying it will be a rough transition to go from staying at home to being a single mother and having to work. Of course having family help you is an obvious move, but I'd learn some kind trade, get a degree, something to fall back on in case of disaster. It's better to be safe than sorry.
This is nothing bad 😊 you want to have a family and live happily... This can't ever be bad...
My ultimate goal also is to have a happy life with my boyfriend, to marry him, to have kids, to live happily ever after
If that’s what you want to do, go for it! That’s currently what I do, and let me tell you, it certainly can be a challenge, but caring for your children and husband, and keeping up the house is in itself it’s own reward. 🙂
Not really, different people have different goals. Some are ambitious, others are tame but you should always strive to achieve what you want. Others opinions be damned.
It's not a bad thing. It's what you want to do. It's nice to see that you're focussing on looking after a family, instead of a career. Very noble. I respect that, and I respect your future boyfriend/husband for taking on full responsibility for earning the money.
Not at all. You do you. My ultimate goal in life is to be a mother too but it doesn’t make me less strong of a woman, and I still understand and respect that it not every woman’s goal to be a mother.
No not at all
I would say its one of the great dreams and tasks which are hard to do but are very cute and influencing
my goal in life is to be a father and a husband, because i never had parents growing up, so i really want a family. Trust me i get it. Being a father/mother can be rewarding.
Great and wonderful professions. It requires skill and love. Many men like women just like you. It brought a lot of fun and joy. Don't let anyone tell you it isn't a job or profession.
That's actually a good thing a very good thing... most "women" aka beasts of nature don't want that sort of thing nowadays... what you have is a very rare quality
Find a man who desires the same and you'll be in bliss together.
That's completely fine... it's not that easy to be just like any other ambition... But I love it... I would love to marry a woman with such an ambition...
Absolutely not it is just fine to be what you want to be heck my ultimate goal is to be a father some day after that it would probably be a grandfather
Being a home-maker and sacrifice your whole life time to loce, care and protect your family is a worthy thing which is absolutely hard to find in today's career conscious generation (though nothing coupd have been wrong here too, but tjey get overly pracrical and selfish in the desire to make it high).
This is your life and your choice. A loving mother who devotes her time for her children is like fairy tales thilese days, so absolute reapect for you.
A home maker is what makes a peaceful, loving and cheering home. So you derserve my second respect.
But also, a third respect should go to the husband who let all the financial burden on his shoulder to provide the family ehat it wants.
Personally I wouldn't date or marry someone like that cause I want a partner who is ambitious like me.
But the majority of guys would like a girl who wants to be homemaker
Nothing wrong. a lot of guys prefer it that way. I might not be 100% on the same boat though
If it's what makes you happy then what's the problem? We dont live in a big Hollywood movie ya know everyone has his definition of happiness or " peace "
It's not as long as it's your choice.
I still encourage young girls to try both ways and see what suits them best.
Not at all, it's your life and choice as long you find somebody compatible.
That is not bad at all. It is a very noble goal in fact. You won't get rich but that's not the point.
Oh, a good old fashioned wife.
People with common sense will tell you to do the best for your dreams.
Others will get triggered.
Being a mom is a great goal you get to make life and teach it so it does not repeat our past
No it’s your choice people should respect ones that choose to stay at home. It’s not for me I loveeeee my career. But good for you!!!
It's is not bad. People have different goals in life. My goal is to travel the world and see all the unique places in the world.
No it's not as long as you clean the house from head to toe and cook and do your job. As long as you don't lay around all day eating and watching soaps on TV all day not really doing anything
no it's great. i wish more women cared about those stuff
NO IT'S NOT! :D (^J^) I wish I could do the same too but I can't. I'm sure you'll be a great mother! <3
No!! My goal used to be different but since becoming a mother this is my ultimate goal too.
No, that's not a bad dream. A lot of women want that, actually.
That is indeed bad as it shows lack of ambition and competitiveness. Everyone needs to make a home, with or without kids. It isn´t a full time occupation, just something you do in your spare time.
Its actually Best.
Home doesn't run on its own and a man can't handle somethings all himself.
No. It's that's your dream and goal then go for it.
How's that bad. How is making sure your children have at least one parent around bad. ?
Yes, sounds like you wanna be lazy and let someone take care of you and complain you do enough. Lazy cow.
It is to me. Had a girlfriend with this goal. She was a splendid woman but her mindset just ruined it in long term.
It is not bad at all. If that is what you want to do with your life, then great. Mothers are extremely important. The idea that this is bad goes with the idea that sometimes people perceive that that is all a woman can do or is good at. However, if a woman wants to do that with her life, then there is nothing wrong with that at all. My ultimate goal is to go very far in my career, then ultimately settle down. I enjoy working, and am very passionate about my future career, which is why I want to focus on that before having a family.
No I feel the same but most guys are totally in lockstep with the feminist sjw stuff and they want you to be ambitious in the worldly sense in my experience. There’s a real pressure now. I’d rather be a lady, a good wife, mom, and homemaker. Men are off the hook though and they’re running with it. They think the career women are the better prospect. They don’t realize that it corrupts their character to some degree to compete in the masculine corporate world. If she’s pretty, there is the halo effect, even if she isn’t a good person and they’ll support her.
No not at all its totally appreciable n respectable
Not for me.
In this world where society is literally powered by money and the economics keep collapsing exponentially i only date strong and independent career oriented women and want to build our platform to live on together. I want to live good, not suffer in poverty and depression. Life is extremely expensive.
Fortunately for women like you there will be enough men. At least in our current timeline.
But strong and independent women are more prominent in the west ⬅ and that's where i want to relocate.
I mean it’s not objectively bad, but I think in my opinion, it lacks vision.
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