Is a stay at home mom with no ambition the equivalent of this (nor all stay at home moms are or dads fkr that matter) ?

[Anonymous]

It’s just like I’ve seen men. Whose woman goes to work. Takes care of the kids. Does everything and he sits around playing video games. Oddly enough. A lot of these women would say he's a bum and has no ambition.

I’ve met some good stay at home moms and housewives. I’ve also seen some who have zero ambition. Don’t contribute hardly anything. Her husbands miserable and unloved by a terrible wife whose a narcissist and thinks everything’s about her.

Divorces are messy. ONE or the other will be SCREWED over in the divorce. Either the woman will take everything that she never earned never worked a day in her life. Or the woman ends up on the street and has to start life all over again.

Men, if you wanna woman to stay home. That’s fine. Women if you wanna stay home that’s fine. Expect equal effort though. Staying home is a job…. Not just you sit there all day long and nkr do anything

[Oliverlogan263]

You've got a point man. Whether it's a dude or lady, staying home shouldn't mean doing nothing but lounging around. Kids deserve parents who are engaged and actually parent them, not ignore them while playing games all day.

And the working parent busting their butt to support everyone deserves a break when they get home, not coming home to more work cuz the stay-at-home ain't pulling their weight. That shit ain't fair.

A marriage is a team effort. If one person is gonna be at home more, they still gotta carry weight by keeping things clean, meals cooked, kids taken care of. Just sitting on your ass all day means you're not contributing.

Some folks are happy being home more, and that's fine if their partner is cool with it. But that job still needs doing right. Dishes don't wash themselves, ya know?

I feel bad for dudes or ladies stuck with lazy partners just leeching off them. No one should have to live like that. Effort from both sides is important to keep things balanced and show respect for each other.

[Asker]

Exactly

[strateguy632]

not equivalent

[Asker]

Why nkt