In the real world, a woman who's still virgin at 28 would be considered a red flag by most guys. On GaG most guys would consider her the holy grail or something. Incels just really love virgins.
Not a turn off, but from my perspective it does kinda suck because I have to teach everything and the first time or first few times may be uncomfortable or painful for my partner. I will wait until she is ready, I would never pressure her into it, but I also will not marry someone I haven't had sex with.
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It's not a turn off but it means she's a prude and it'll be way to much work and effort to get her into the sack, some desperate guy will bend over backwards and wait for years for her but not me, I like sex and I'm not gonna wait more than a month for it
Not a turn-off, in itself, but you should both know up front if there's going to be no sex until you've entered into a lifelong contract. Don't hide it from him.
To the person who asked the question. Thank you I am a guy who is 26 and never dated or have sex with a girl. I am just shy to ask a girl out so I understand you. I am also a virgin so you are fine. I prefer someone who is virgin but be open a lot of guys like girls who are virgin cause it shows you are not a thot
Only if she also then tells me that she's planning on STAYING a virgin, until marriage or some crap. No thank you. But if it's just a case of like "oh I just haven't found the right guy yet, but I think you may be it," then no it's a turn on.
It surely means that it will be more complicated... but not really a turn off.
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Yeah kinda. That means its gonna be all awkward and silent and just lay there (no moaning or expressing.) Vs someone with experience already knowing what areas to prop their leg up on the counter or knowing that exact angle for something to be ramming and being in the moment. Savoring the creampie.
Your not wrong for wanting to remain a virgin until marriage... and yes you should tell him if he can’t deal he will weed himself out and make room for the other guy to do so.
No. Some guys really like the idea of being some woman's first. Some guys are really religious and "traditional" and won't be with a woman otherwise. Other men don't care.
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No. Understand this, virgin women never go out of style. Only dudes that are looking for some quick sex typically don't desire virgins.
In the real world, a woman who's still virgin at 28 would be considered a red flag by most guys. On GaG most guys would consider her the holy grail or something. Incels just really love virgins.
Not a turn off, but from my perspective it does kinda suck because I have to teach everything and the first time or first few times may be uncomfortable or painful for my partner. I will wait until she is ready, I would never pressure her into it, but I also will not marry someone I haven't had sex with.
It's not a turn off but it means she's a prude and it'll be way to much work and effort to get her into the sack, some desperate guy will bend over backwards and wait for years for her but not me, I like sex and I'm not gonna wait more than a month for it
No, she could have just been busy with education or career.
Not a turn-off, in itself, but you should both know up front if there's going to be no sex until you've entered into a lifelong contract. Don't hide it from him.
I don't really care. I suppose it puts some pressure on me to make her first experience pleasurable.
I have a lot of respect for you.
I personally want an experienced lady, me and all my past partners have been inexperienced or virgins. I want to see what it's like.
I personally wanted to wait too, but at 23 I caved.
May I ask you a question?
Its not a turn off to good men
But dudes who are used to sex will want ur puss bfr marriage
No, it's a turn off if she's not attractive though 🤔
To the person who asked the question. Thank you I am a guy who is 26 and never dated or have sex with a girl. I am just shy to ask a girl out so I understand you. I am also a virgin so you are fine. I prefer someone who is virgin but be open a lot of guys like girls who are virgin cause it shows you are not a thot
I'm not into saving it for marriage but otherwise not really. I'd probably be more likely intrigued if I found her attractive.
Only if she also then tells me that she's planning on STAYING a virgin, until marriage or some crap. No thank you. But if it's just a case of like "oh I just haven't found the right guy yet, but I think you may be it," then no it's a turn on.
It surely means that it will be more complicated... but not really a turn off.
Yeah kinda. That means its gonna be all awkward and silent and just lay there (no moaning or expressing.) Vs someone with experience already knowing what areas to prop their leg up on the counter or knowing that exact angle for something to be ramming and being in the moment. Savoring the creampie.
Whoever marries you is one hell of a lucky guy.
Since you respect yourself and him and don't simply spread your legs like so many of the so called women around here
Being a virgin will make you more appealing to the vast majority of men, it will also usually qualify you as marriage material in a guys mind.
Your not wrong for wanting to remain a virgin until marriage... and yes you should tell him if he can’t deal he will weed himself out and make room for the other guy to do so.
It is the biggest indicator of a woman with high morals and standards
Its not a turn off, or a turn on, but it is most certainly a positive.
I would prefer to date a virgin, most guys would.
No. Some guys really like the idea of being some woman's first. Some guys are really religious and "traditional" and won't be with a woman otherwise. Other men don't care.