Guys: Is it a turn off if a woman tells you she’s still a virgin? (Page 2)

Question

I’m 28 and I have never dated, kissed and nevertheless had sex. I’ve had a crush on a guy whom I know has dated several girls before and well he is way more sexually experienced than I am. Recently we began talking and he has asked me out on a date. I don’t know how or if I should tell him about me being a virgin because I really want to stay this way until marriage... But I don’t know generally how guys react to this, especially when they are more sexually active.  I would really appreciate some help and opinions from you guys! Thanks 😊

taleswapper · Answer

Gods, yes! Tell him anyway, though. There are things that can be done to ease a virgin into losing her Vcard, that he may not do if he doesn't know.

DWD94 · Answer

No. It's usually men that are judged for being virgins, not women. Men don't care.

Beta_Wolf · Answer

Im the same as you 😊 only 5 years younger so i wouldn't mind

Anonymous · Answer

A good girl belongs with a good guy. That’s what my sister would say to me. If you’re virgin you deserve a virgin guy as well.

SirRexington · Answer

As a sexless loser I would be grateful she didn't have a lot of sexual history.

Prof_Don · Answer

No it’s not a turn-off, but I would be curious why she is a virgin at our age.

Jerkface4444 · Answer

I feel bad, but tbh, it’s a turn off. I’m probably really experienced for my age and want somebody like me.

Sabretooth · Answer

nope. i am, too-i'd even respect her... something i ain't known for

Anonymous · Answer

Sometimes. I had 2 virgins and one I really liked taking her v card.

Anonymous · Answer

I would say do what you feel!! His response could either lead you to be like oo okay he could possibly be the one or hell no he isn't for me

hilly90 · Answer

Certainly not a turn off, I think it could enhance things, make exploring each other even better.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

You should've used never instead of nevertheless. I respect a woman who saves herself for marriage, just don't wait too long.

Anonymous · Answer

I can't see why it would be a turn off.
Hey if G. B. H means something pure to you, then I have a few questions so message me and I can try and answer some of yours as well. If you use mr. google then nevermind.

Twalli · Answer

If you want to stay a virgin until marriage, he needs to know so he doesn't see sex as part of your relationship unless it turns into a marriage.

klica003 · Answer

For me personally it isn't. I don't see anything wrong with that. It's just not that important really. I don't know about some others though.

Massageman · Answer

No. Virtue is still a virtue.

YHL6965 · Answer

I would not hold until marriage because I don't believe in marriage, but I would suggest telling him pre-coitus.

mayur955 · Answer

It would be a chance for someone to ask u for marriage because u have never been in a relationship before. Trust in a relationship is most important.

Billybob643 · Answer

No way. Someone’s sexuality does not define them as a person. Do not feel bad at all. If you want to wait I think that’s great. If he ends up falling in love with you he should have no issues waiting.

TonyMetal_86 · Answer

It's a turn on and makes me excited and surely she will be marriage material

Pixel343 · Answer

Yes, not a powerful one, but yes a girl being a virgin is a turn off.

Iron_Man · Answer

No Its beautiful and I respect her

BonnieBunny · Answer

If it was a guy asking this question, there would be a lot of negative responses

Anonymous · Answer

The virgin part, not a big deal. The waiting til marriage part, dealbreaker

Anonymous · Answer

It makes me think "guess I'm not getting any pussy from this girl without jumping through a bunch of hoops."

Anonymous · Answer

Probably not lot of my guy friends say no their also people taken advantage of virgin.

Anonymous · Answer

It means you're a cat lady who's most likely too full of herself, waiting for the moment to look down on men.

Anonymous · Answer

Surely not a turn off I would just find it cute and also pretty interesting that she resisted to that age without doing sex.

Officialnoor · Answer

All the opinions are true. Virginity is much more respected !

Anonymous · Answer

Why the fuck can that ever be a turn off or a problem?

Miristheiss · Answer

No, not even slightly.  Why would it be?

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

No, it's quite the opposite.

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't have any problem with it - to be honest it would make you more attractive to many guys...

Dchrls78104 · Answer

It wouldn't turn me off. I'm a virgin too.

outside_Toronto · Answer

At a young age, no By your age... kinda weird

lernulo · Answer

It's used to be a turn on

Nachowedgie · Answer

Nope, it's a turn on for me

DatGuy01 · Answer

Nope

callmeprem · Answer

Well in India generally we wait till marriage

Hurdleez-Swampede · Answer

No. It's a turn-on when women are virgins.

skeetskeetskeet · Answer

Only if she's trying to stay like that

AlexanderKinson · Answer

This is quite the turn on 😏

TheSpartan · Answer

Being a Virgin is a good thing.

FrenchyRomain · Answer

not a turn off just weird

casualfriend · Answer

Depending how old she is 😳

bgodd89 · Answer

Why haven’t you dated?

Anonymous · Answer

No, it wouldn't be in this case

Ciaranbrk · Answer

Nope not for me.

Anonymous · Answer

its normally a stigma for men more than women.

Anonymous · Answer

same here only difference its a she. i am.25

DNB1994 · Answer

No not really.

CoffeeWC · Answer

Not for me

3loodyHell · Answer

Nope

John1217 · Answer

Definitely not

MannMitAntworten · Answer

No...

City_Hunter · Answer

it is turn on

manmeat · Answer

no its a turn on :)

bladedshard · Answer

I dont mind.

Cmcelts15 · Answer

Fresh meaaaaaat!!!

damaster · Answer

No not to me

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