Is it unattractive for a girl to be a smartass?

[beebella]

I've toned it down a bit over the past couple years, but a part of me still thinks that maybe not everyone thinks it's as funny as I do. 🤔

I find it unattractive

Only if you're excessive with it

It's perfectly fine with me

Updates

+1 y

I get it... I'll tone it down A LOT more. 👍

[AndrewMG]

No, I want to laugh with my girl, If she outsmarts me now and then, that's kudos to her. These insecure fucks who want 100% control tend to be unintelligent/unfunny fucks as a rule. Anyone who makes me laugh (and 90% of being a smartass has a humorous element) has a friend for life.

[beebella]

Y'know, I'm starting to think that my middle child syndrome may be the cause of this. 🤔

[AndrewMG]

I'm the 3rd of 4 Bella (and all brothers... I've been brought up in an environment of piss taking, so I've learnt to be self deprecating so smartass girls tend to be the one's I'm attracted to), the curse of the middle childs! lol

[beebella]

😂😂

[AndrewMG]

Thanks for MHO

[NovissimumVirorum]

Quit being an intelligent donkey

[SirRexington]

What? No! I totally don't have anything against girls who are smartasses. It's not like they are annoying or anything. I mean sure they think they are smart and sassy and that anyone who has a problem with it is somehow a sexist pig but c'mon, which doesn't love that right? Every man's wet dream right there.

I'm just kidding! 🤔

[God-vs-Satan]

I think it is unattractive for anybody to be a jerk. I only like women so I can only answer in terms of women who are jerks but can't imagine that too many women like men who are jerks.

I hate the term act like a jerk. If they act like a jerk, it's a good indication, they are a jerk.

[JackSmy]

I LOVE DARK, Sarcastic whit, and puns, double entendres! Be YOU, and just know that some might just hate your whit, but some, maybe, like me, will ADORE and connect with you!!

[TheUniqueOne96]

If they do it constantly about it to the point where they're annoying, then, I'd find it unattractive in a person in general, regardless of gender, so yeah.

[TheUniqueOne96]

That aside, a little bit of banter and jokes here and there sounds fine.

[Texaskid1]

I demand that you drop everything this instant and make me a sandwich.

[beebella]

[Texaskid1]

Where have you been all my life?

[6lacier]

It's attractive if you can give as good as you get. That's playful and flirty. What is not attractive is women who have an attitude because of low self-esteem. They're just annoying.

[HomerJSimpson]

Flip the genders and try to empathize. What if you're getting a smartass replies as many times as you say from your guy friend? Will he be attractive?

[aa180]

If it's done deliberately to annoy or be a jerk, then it's unattractive. If it's done playfully to light-heartedly poke fun at the other person, it's rather cute.

[TripleAce]

Totally fine lol... but not too much... just enough yes

[Dongtai]

Turns me on when a girl has a little sass.

As long as she isn’t a dysfunctional witch I’m into it

[MrGrey240]

There is a time and a place for everything. So long as youd know when to and when not to bring it.

[VikingWarLord]

Usually bitches like that are using their smart-ass LIPPY attitude because she secretly wants an alpha Dominant male to PUNISH her.

[Rangers]

In a funny way and in moderation, no, that's cool. If they do it every time they open their mouth, it gets annoying

[AynonOMouse]

I actually like it if a girl is playfully sassy sometimes. I think it can be funny when done right and it can increase how much I like her.

[AcidT0y]

I love it. I'm the same way and I like being with someone where we can have that kind of back and forth.

[Dolemite510]

If she knows to keep it at a level that’s playful it can be fun but if she does it too much it can get annoying

[Thatsamazing]

It's unattractive. Especially if you're excessive with it.

[winterfox10]

If we don't know each other well, it can be off putting if you got overboard with it.

[DDpsy]

It's at least not as bad as a girl being a dumbass...

[TheKack]

I think it's cute as long as she knows the time and place.

[IAmWeird]

This is one of my biggest turn off's if a girl is sassy and a smart ass I will break up with her. I don't need that in my life.

[MarketNews]

It's good to be smart. I never noticed you being an ass with it.

[talloak]

I find it unattractive in both genders.

[Straight_Shooter]

It's much better than her being a dumbass.

[beebella]

Well, I'm a little bit of both, so.. 😂

[Straight_Shooter]

Lol...😂😂😂😂

[GuidoThePizzaMaker]

That's very annoying
Instant turn-off

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I'm fine with a girl being a little smartass <3

[blutwolfe]

Depends on what kind of smart ass

[mario_with_no_luigi]

It’s perfectly fine to a certain point.

[motownplayer2000]

Can be.. has to be balance and good taste

[ChiPaPa]

I actually find it appealing.