Girls, Do you enjoy femininity and how much you enjoy being feminine?

[VIVANT]

I honestly do not know what reference point you are using when you say femininity.

There is no single definition of femininity. What is socially considered “feminine “ changes decade to decade century to century. In addition women have different experiences in life ;follow different religious cultural practices ;have different political beliefs , different code of ethics ;different ; have dealt with different struggles ; different trans; different success; have different convictions. You can not possibly expect people to share a uniform set of behavior just bc they each have a vagina.

As it is you who have chosen to ask this question about femininity, it would be good form to take your Jen question seriously and provide a working definition so we can all be on the same page and answer a question being asked... instead of being coy choosing to play mind games ~ telling women if they don’t know what is in your head then they are not women; don’t want to be women ;don’t understand how to behave as a woman ; or want to be men.

You asked a question. If it is important to you then treat the people you want answer this question, from with respect.

[LenaMunter]

It's a tough question. I mainly enjoy being myself and I think most would say that I'm rather feminine.

I don't like some typically feminine things like having a man open a door for me. I think it's ridiculous because I'm perfectly capable to do that myself, thank you very much. The same holds for other supposed acts of courtesy like always greeting the woman first and similar things. I don't see why that's necessary.

But I personally like to dress in a way that most would probably call feminine and I like to make time for taking care of myself. I also feel that there is pressure in some industries for women to be “more masculine” in order to succeed and I hope that this will get better with time. A woman in a beautiful dress can be as good in a business-like job as a woman in a pantsuit.

So, yes, i deeply enjoy my feminity, but I don't enjoy when people make out feminity to be something it isn't.

[LMNOP123]

I did a complete turn around from when I was a kid. I hated dresses or skirts, all women's clothing for that matter. I didn't like girly stuff at all, wore boys clothes, I even wore fricken boxers for years. Never did my hair or wore any kind of accessories or jewellery or make up. All the kids in school thought I wanted to be a guy or was the butchiest of lesbians. Needless to say, nothing about me back then was feminine and I made a point of it.

Now, I'm the exact opposite. I really only wear skirts or dresses. Pink is my favourite colour, I have everything in pink. I love wearing jewellery/other accessories. Ribbons and hearts on everything! 🎀💝🎀 Doing my hair all nice and cute, make up, what ever! I really don't know what happened or where the complete change started. I completely embrace my femininity now.

[Hurlyburly]

Ehh depends on what you mean exactly by femininity. I do not wear pink, high heals and skirts and only very occasionally wear a dress. I do use make up but I'm not nearly as obcessed with it as some girls seem to be 🤔 And I do collect cute stuffed animals, next to books and video games.

[sageevalentinee]

I don't mind that some girls do not care about their femininity, but I personally think that it's very important. I have always been quite a feminine girl.

I think femininity is being graceful, smart, gentle (but not passive), not gossiping, having good manners and taking care of yourself. (you don't have to dress up, but you can't wander around with greasy hair and sweatpants with flip flops) Just my opinion.

[MollyTheOriginal]

Depends what you mean. If you're talking about pampering yourself getting nails, hair, facials, etc done, then that rarely happens because it's expensive, but sure it's nice. Generally I dress more casual and tom boyish, I've never been that comfortable in skirts and shit.

[Anonymous]

Yes and no. I wouldn't say i'm typically feminine which is most likely why I only have guy friends. I don't like talking about emotions, gossiping or look for shoes - BLERGH. But I do wear makeup and I like to dress sexy but for me that's often flannel shirts and ripped jeans rather than cute dresses. I find it much more interesting to talk about music and video games than most other stuff. But i'd never wanna be anything but female. I am comfortable in my body so to speak.

[xXSaturnXx]

I fully embrace my femininity, maybe a little more than I should tbh lol I'm quite immature so a lot of my personal belongings are pink and fluffy or have cute faces on them and stuff, I enjoy being myself and that's what matters :)

[lexi-_-]

I like it but if y'all associate the color pink with femininity then heck no lol! I don't really fancy the color pink.

[naijagurl]

I like femininity but not to the point where I feel restricted from doing basic things just because they are seen as “unladylike”.

[kayaleyla285]

I want to see how it feels the other way round. I am not a fan of femininity. I have always been around tomboy girls. They seem a lot more fun.

[raverae]

I have never been good at being a girl. I associate femininity with periods. No. I don't enjoy it.

[IndicaL0ve]

Love being feminine and pampering myself. I enjoy it very much🥰💅🧖‍♀️💆‍♀️💇‍♀️

[Justbeyouandbehappy_]

I love being a gurl the only thing i hate is periods but doing my makeup and having more options for clothes is fun i don’t know how guys do it lol

[optimistgirl]

I love being feminine!!! I’m very feminine with the way I dress

[CubsterShura]

I quite embrace being feminine myself, but I have quite a lot of mixed feelings on society's definition of femininity.

[BlackMex]

Only sometimes but I really don’t feel confident when I wear something girly. I always seem to compare myself to other girls.

[Anonymous]

I don't enjoy it particularly much for several reasons.

[bannacookies]

Eh, I'm not a very girly girl. Like I don't like lace & stuff, but I am happy with my gender.

[Harmseygrace]

Well I'm in a pink nightie, a pink pull over hoodie without the hood, pink slippers, and I have pink ribbons in my piggy tail plaits. 😂

[Cuppo_Mode]

Erm, I'm a dud, I'm not gay, bruh that's hella gay, now if you excuse me im gonna go back to playing big anime tittie 3dx beach ball Vr in my mom's basement

[Anonymous]

People have a different imagination of femininity. To me it's pure Weakness in every aspect and not all Women like embracing weakness.

[mistixs]

What do you mean by feminine?

[ElizaPam]

I love being feminine so much it’s so much fun ❤️

[AngelLily]

I really like femininity.

[lifelearner011]

I love it.. its a celebration to life for me. :)

[mermaidia_lol]

I enjoy being femininininine

[Babygirl_S]

Yes, I really enjoy it.

[Just_someone23]

I just live my life.

[Yessir12]

Yes! I love it.

[RetroN]

Yes I do.