What is the best and worst thing about being a girl?

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spuitkaas · Accepted Answer

Where do I start. I have so many things.

Worst: not being taken seriously as often, people only judging you on appearance, physical weakness and inconvenient body structure for sports (like boobs), periods, pregnancy, more sexual assault and intimidation, not being able to travel everywhere because of that, sexism overall, more chance on becoming obese, victim blaming, hormones, limited sexual freedom and expression, always being seen as a sexual object, not being able to pee anywhere
(lots of things kinda overlap but some things are more important to mention)

Best: people are more inclined to help you, emotional expression is more accepted, fashion and personal expression is more accepted (as not being afraid of seen as gay), no testosterone-induced behaviour (cocky and aggressive behaviour), sex is easy accessible, not expected to always take the first step, boobs, getting away with things easier, less chance of getting violently assaulted, exploit your sexuality for gain (not that I do that, but it's pretty cool I guess)

Shafaq_Mahnoor96 · Accepted Answer

Well I think the best thing would be the fact that people respect you very much when you're a girl for some reason. Even if you're Just a stranger everyone addresses you in a very endearing and gentle way. I'm not sure why men get treated so roughly we should all be addressed in a kind way. The next best thing about being a girl is all the fashion choices, fact we are able to use a lot of cosmetics and have more self care options than men. Meaning to say that we can use more creams and makeup to cover up all our Insecurities on our faces lol 😂, whereas men can't use makeup to cover any spots on their face. The worse part about being a girl would be that they're always pressured to "look good" and some men are the triggers of this, since they like and talk to "pretty" girls most of the time. It's kind of disappointing. Girls Just have to look a certain way if she wants a guy to notice her. The other thing worse about being a girl is the fact that they have to give birth and have periods. That's kind of an obvious one, no doubt.

aneeshms12345 · Accepted Answer

I don't understand why you ask a question like this... Being a boy or girl is not the best or worst thing... If you were a boy, you will be more stronger (on average) you can do more things than a girl could.. I'm not saying girls can't do anything.. a girl is a sister, wife and mother... and there is no one who can replace a mother.. A mother is the most hardworking person in the world... Girls are more beautiful than boys because they can change their hairstyles better than boys.. They have multiple make up items to make them beautiful... They have different types of dresses.. women have more fashion items than men.. girls get more attention everywhere than boys... everybody calls girls as 'oh sweety, cutie, beauty etc... but boy's story is different.. they call boys 'hey you m_ ___r___ etc... 😂😂😂 ... So being a girl is never bad... sorry for my bad English

grega239 · Accepted Answer

Yes they are. Men's responsibility was to go to work so the family could eat and have a home. He also acted as the protector of the family if need be.
Men rest after work probably because the work is physically exhausting.
And men do care for the kids aswell.
And unless you're a single mother , I'm pretty sure your husband would be ok with you not working.

But yes , having a family and a career is difficult.

The reason your interviewer asked you about that is because if you don't have kids it usually means you're able to stay at work for longer.

Its kinda the opposite for men. Father's usually increase their productiveness in order to more money while his wife is with the kids.

Anonymous · Answer

Our faces are fake (makeup), our hair is fake (dyed), our boobs are fake (some of us), everything about us is fake. Most especially when it comes to what is inside of us. We lie constantly, because we are far worse, character-wise, than even our closest friends or lovers will ever know, and we desperately fight to keep all of that hidden.
We are looking for our true daddies, basically – the idealized daddies that we never had – somebody who can see through all of our false fronts and call us out on our bullshit and put us in our place. The problem is, those type of men are very few and far between.
We lie to our so-called female friends and pretend we are loyal and faithful to them, just like we do with the men in our lives. Secretly, we are jealous of each other, and we want all of the desirable things that other women have—most especially when it comes to our female friends’ things.
And we consider men to be things. If one of our friends has a hot man, we want him to want us. We will do everything we can to seduce him. Not because we really want him—we don’t really want anybody. We do it because we are rarely happy, and we don’t want our girlfriends to be happy, either, and we want to boost our own egos more than anything else.
And after we get him to fuck us, when our girlfriends find out that he has had sex with us, that’s when we finally get what we wanted in the first place. If we break up the previously happy couple, that’s fine, too. It’s all about our pussy, not hers. It’s about winning.
We Women always lie about the number of sexual partners they’ve had. We also lie about not wanting men with large penises. If we told the actual truth about the number of different men and women we’ve slept with, and if we told the actual truth about our fervent desire for big dicks, our pool of potential suitors would shrink drastically, to the point where it would completely dry up. So we lie. Most often, we will claim that we’ve had between three and eight sexual partners in our lifetime. And, to our way of thinking, it isn’t a lie, because if we had five sexual partners last Saturday evening, and our man asks us how many sexual partners we have had, and we answer, “Five”, well, technically, we aren’t lying.
And all hot women are narcissistic masochists. We hate it when things are going well, especially if they continue to go well for long periods of time. We know down deep that we are fucked-up and not worthy of anything that is truly good. So when things are going well in a relationship, we eventually sabotage it. We just can’t help ourselves in this regard.
We could have the greatest, most handsome, most well-hung husband in the world—a one-of-a-kind man who makes all of our girlfriends jealous; we could have the greatest children in the world, who are beautiful, well-behaved and ambitious; we could have the most enviable career imaginable; we could have all of the money and prestige and the truly good things in life, and we could repeatedly tell ourselves over and over, and believe, on the surface, that we would never cheat on our husbands. But down deep we know that it’s a lie. Because one day, we could walk into a grocery store, and some bad boy could whisper just the right combination of words in our ear, and the next thing you know, we’re at the Motel 6 getting it in the ass. That’s just how we are, and any woman—especially a hot woman—who says otherwise, is a liar. All women dislike themselves and because we dislike ourselves, we fervently hate any man who doesn’t see through our bullshit. The more a man loves us, the more we hate him. The more he overlooks our sins, and the more he fails to see how corrupt we are, and the more he gives us the benefit of every single doubt – the more we despise him. We will escalate our bad behavior until we finally break him and he wakes up and realizes how worthless we are and what a fool he has been for believing in us.

Sari_K · Answer

Well, most of the life is best being a girl... We have variety in clothes, footwares, innerwears... attention, we are a bit emotional so we have frnds (girls) who understand us, even a female brain can remember things easily, female body has strength to tolerate pain (that's why nature gave us that responsibility to bear child), girls have quite sensitive genitals, so we experience comparatively more pleasure, even we have various options for masturbation... Also, govt is providing some flexible rules for women... And much more...

Worst part: Feeling sometimes insecure around pervert guys/alone across streets (that's because of men seeing us as sexual objects not a human like them...), Periods are also in this list... Those cramps :( Less physical strength (that can be overcome by work out though), some people still underestimate girls that makes us suffer in workplace also, and last but not least... We are advised to behave and act like mature and take care of not giving any sign by mistake to any men (to my experience, guys interprete girls' actions on there own and assume that she's interested in them though she's just talking like normal like she talks to everyone!)
Majority of worse things are due to male dominating environment... Why girls should live in restrictions, can't these boys be kept in control...

Moonchild714 · Answer

Best: Men
Worst: Men

Can't live with them and Don't want to live withoit him...

Best thing about being a Girl: You can Blame Everything on Your Hormones.

The Worst thing about being a girl: Is You have to Deal with those Damn Hormones and the Monthly Cycle with them...

I won't be dealing with any of that anymore Yay me...

Secret6620 · Answer

The worst thing is my period, and the best thing is... There is no best thing LMAO. I sat here for five minutes and couldn't think of a single thing. 😫🤣

Apple1996 · Answer

Best: giving birth and breastfeeding. I think the bond with women make with their babies is the strongest bond any two humans can ever have🤱🤱

Worst:all the hormones driving our emotions. It sucks cuz sometimes I cannot control how I'm feeling

HoratioCaine · Answer

worst: exected to get married, settle down at a younger age, can't openly bitch slap a bitch because we're "weaker" therefore more passive aggressive, get coerced into sex more, get groped more, can't take a piss randomly in the woods, pregnancies, social heirarchy cause females are petty as fucck
best: can be a bitch back and still get away with it

5_AM_Oracle · Answer

Well periods suck
horny guys being annoying, or when looking for love, the question 'is it for love or for sex he's in here for?'
being physically inferior to men, I'm so jealous of your physique

Now for the cons.
I think it's easier for us to find love, as in easier access, if you will.
We can dress girly or boyish and it would still be okay to society
and the sex... the multiple orgasms, many guys are knocking out after they came, we can keep going

vjones819 · Answer

Being a young adolescent female I feel I am brushed off when I give my opinion. I am not taken seriously. Medical things would be I have would be the hormones! But that’s about it. We get much more freedom clothing wise. If we dress femme, or grunge we are aesthetic and cute to our fellow sex, but when guys dress up more femme some other guys are like “no homo” or they call them the F word! (at my school at least)

anonbrunette99 · Answer

the pressure to look attractive as it has a knock on effect as to how our life’s will end up long term, example: unattractive, less chance of having kids or marriage. oh and periods! and how some badly raised men treat us at times.

AaronKrieger · Answer

Best 1: Guys have to approach you in the dating field

Best 2: You have an advantage in court

Worst 1: Guys have to approach you in the dating field (That sounds boring to me if I had to deal with that)

Worst 2: Dealing with other girls and the drama that comes with that. (Girls can be vicious at school or in the work place)

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I think the best thing is you can usually attract friends and lovers easier than a guy can - the worst part is unlike men - if you want kids - you you have to give birth - and you usually have to it by a young age if you don't want birth defects - or you have to be rich enough to get surrogacy or adopt if you can't have biological kids.

Regmorus · Answer

the best thing is strong (but not necessarily complete) disability to not be influenced by feelings, emotions, bubble-like illusions too much

and the best thing is strong (but not necessarily complete) disability to not be influenced by feelings, emotions, bubble-like illusions too much

Anonymous · Answer

Periods, and pain during labour!  Please answer mine?

babywerewoof · Answer

Best: I don't know, im here so i have to deal with it.
Worst: periods, clothes are more expensive, unwanted attention, purity culture, pregnancy, childbirth, hard nipples when its cold out (doesnt matter how many layers, unless you keep your coat on everyone gon see your nips poking through😣

Anonymous · Answer

Worst:No matter how successful and good you are, you are ultimately reduced to your looks. So you'll see men comparing women of a superior quality with low quality sluts simply because they may look attractive to them.
Best:Sex drive is more under control as compared to men. This makes our lives a lot easier than men who are constantly looking for sexual gratification till their death. We are able to focus on a lot of other things.

nelly83 · Answer

Worst thing: Women are under much more pressure to loose weight, look good. Working women are expected to fulfill work responsibilities, care for children, care for their parents. Men do not have such expected pressures.

Best: Men are more polite to you. But pretty much that's it.

dankette · Answer

Worst thing are periods. Best thing is being able to grow a freaking human. That shit's pretty cool. Lol

Anonymous · Answer

I was thinking how in some places, they are still lower than dogs and used rather than loved. e. g. they are just property.

Best... they can use their sexual power in society and it is well acceptable. Need to get out a ticket, unzip 5 notches...

Anonymous · Answer

I would say always feeling the need to be accepted / attractive or worry about our looks (constantly) and when we don’t feel attractive it affects how we view ourselves (in most cases).
I will also say sexual freedom. It’s apparently frowned upon for a woman to have a double digit number in sex partners. But with men it doesn’t matter or they are praised for having many.

Tideo568 · Answer

Best: Free male attention, free sympathy , free money , free protection , people accept your weaknesses , getting to see that look of wonder on your husbands face when you give birth , fashion

worst: not being able to defend yourself and others, being seen as evil seductresses by some people , players dangling marriage and kids infront of your face to sleep with you , hitting the wall at age 30.

kingkathyy · Answer

the best thing would probably be the special treatment we get for being a girl and the worst is definitely our reproductive system. between having periods and giving birth... it’s too much

Pistolpete90 · Answer

Best: it's encouraged and deemed appropriate that I talk openly about my emotions and problems.
Worst: the physical weakness and being short in stature.

These are only relevant to me because obviously.

Anonymous · Answer

The worst thing is to experience not being loved by a man when society has this assumption in which you are either wrong or too ugly or something’s wrong of as a woman you haven’t experienced love in a romantic sense.

Littlemissbrat · Answer

Worst: period Best: free boobs to play with whenever

standardguy · Answer

The worst is menstruation and the best that can be the worst too is that most men are eager to be with the women. That can be cool because you feel important and desired and valuable, revered and conquered of deep heart but you can also feel reenacted and harassed

Kkstarzz96 · Answer

The best thing about being a girl is were naturally beautiful at any age  And the worst thing about being a girl is we never believe that is true no matter what

Thisismyusername94 · Answer

Worst: One thing I’ve learned is you can be a bomb ass person, kind as hell, a little funny, empathic AF, validating, independent, an effective communicator, a good friend, and good company, but your most important quality will still just be that you’re someone to have sex with

pleasestopthis · Answer

Worst: can't pee anywhere (terrible when you really need to and there's no bathroom available)... and we're too judged by our physical appearance, prettier women are more..."valuable" you could say.

Best: We can give life.

KaitieSearching · Answer

Best. Getting to have babies someday  worst. Getting your period every month

kangy · Answer

Best - guys will usually give in to you (provided they are not the rude type) or help u to carry heavy stuff  Worst - during war times women and girls are subject to sexual assault

MissDawn7961 · Answer

the best thing about being a girl / woman is to be able to bring life into the world ! the worst part about it is the painful periods we have to endure bringing life into the world ! thanks

gagsucs · Answer

u can easily attracted guys and get laid and feel desired n wanted

worst things is that u are a bitch (have an attitude)
unless ur 1 of those girls that aren't a bitch... the nice 1s... but i think jus having periods make u a bitch

TheLittleInnocent · Answer

Best thing for me is not having to be bothered by some feminists hating my guts coz am a dude and then I can some up the worst in one word... periods (¯―¯٥)

jgirl99 · Answer

Best is being a woman in general (clothes, fashion, common sense) worst part, and I think all the ladies can agree with me. Periods

Primepeso · Answer

Best thing is being able to give life the worst thing about that is the pain you have to go through throughout that process

Elliegirl · Answer

Best: probably all the cute clothes. Honestly, other than periods I love pretty much everything about being a girl! Worst: period cramps.

DiscomfortZone · Answer

Well, the best would be getting stuff for free and effortlessly (admission, drinks, food, fare, attention, service and entertainment positions, custody and alimonies) and the worse would be actual cases of harassment, assault and rape.

dthomas89 · Answer

If I could say what I think, even though I'm not a girl

It'd be, the awesome clothing they get to wear, without being judged for it
and the worst thing would likely being having to sit, to go to the bathroom, both ways

brittany23 · Answer

Best thing, being beautiful, endless opportunity to find new ways to look and feel beautiful.

Worst thing, other girls bringing each other down, sniping each other for no reason. A close second is all the biological stuff that can/does happen

opnbuk59 · Answer

Don't know never have been one but girls just want to have fun

Unit1 · Answer

Best  - you are wanted by men (and creeps too unfortunately) worst  - menstrual cycles. facing a "challenge" to follow logic over emotions.

SarahsSummer · Answer

The sleepover pillow fights in our underwear.  Our periods

JyuuKaMoon787 · Answer

Best: Clothes. I love my body, and part of my body (;;;・_・) (Pretty much love just being a girl) Worst: Periods

Anonymous · Answer

Worst - I dislike not having the physical strength of a man  Best - I can outwardly cry and display emotions without being judged by society

leahzrc · Answer

the worst part is the hate the best part is that i like myself no matter the gender

Aiasis · Answer

Boobs are the best and menstruation is the worst. 😂

Thatsamazing · Answer

Best: That you're a girl. Worst: That you're a girl.

Beatrice23 · Answer

Worst i think is got a period and best I think it's not be bullied that much at school

Tomriss · Answer

Girly feminine stuff are the best part.  Double stardards in the society and periods are the worst

AlongCameCindy · Answer

A comment from anonymous on here is accurate, not being loved by a man when society seems to shame single women and women who have never been married etc, oh and periods they suck.

ANILSAINI09 · Answer

My best think about girl is that I'm easily attached with any girl but more time I'll control to own and they all girls loved me
And wrost thing is that some girls show her attitude but her level not belongs to that's attitude

Anonymous · Answer

The double standard, pregnancy, and periods. Also to the girl who mentioned birth control: birth control also gives you bad symptoms. Some are even worse than a period itself.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

I'd guess the worst thing is bleeding for a week every month. On the other hand, the best thing is bitches can get laid anytime they want with absolutely zero effort required.

Anonymous · Answer

Best: fashion, boobies n just being a girl  worst: periods, pregnancy n expectations of being a female

Anonymous · Answer

Worst - Period Pain Best - The attention we receive from men.

genericname85 · Answer

best: sex is free and you can have it whenever you like worst: periods.

Iron_Man · Answer

If your pretty you'll have your ass kissed by many men. The worse is being used for sex

Anonymous · Answer

Best thing is literally everything except periods and child birth. Western women (specifically) live life on easy mode with all cheat codes enabled.

loubyeolbit · Answer

Being afraid for just walking alone on the street at night. And yeah period cramps for sure.

orangecherry · Answer

best - can talk about anything with friends worst - cramps

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