I have never got nervous or went blank around a guy. This guy I met not only makes me nervous, he makes me blush. Why is this suddenly happening? It's BS, I don't like it. I want it to stop, what can I do?
I really like Emma Stone. What was the question again?
Oh yeah, stop doing that. Stop dreaming of him as your husband. You make a reality/fantasy gap that's too big. It's gonna mess everything up.
Float down from the daydreams and clouds. You know, he poops and stuff. Diarrhea sometimes. We're all just human. Don't idolize human beings. Admire, maybe, but don't idolize.
I do really like Emma Stone though. Why you gotta post that? It's messing up the whole theme of my answer. :-D Man I like Emma Stone. https://youtu.be/bLBSoC_2IY8
But you know, Emma Stone is really exceptional. I don't your guy is except in your mind. I at least got exceptional on my side. It's on television and stuff. I'm not daydreamer. But you know, she's so charismatic and I like how she sings karaoke with so much confidence and if I wasn't married already I want to marry her in another life and ride unicorns together into outer space and buy expensive chocolates for her and sing karaoke together and maybe smoke some weed together and talk to her every day and I like how she laughs. Yeah, probably I went to TMI zone just now.
If I say "don't think of a pink elephant", then what are you likely to picture in your head?
Telling yourself not to blush will just make it happen more. Whatever you resist, persists. Just enjoy the tingly feeling and know he probably finds it adorable.
You are blushing because you have feelings for him and you are afraid of losing him by saying or acting in a way that you think wasn't supposed to be. You are asking slot of those questions here because you want to hear the right answer and feel good about it. I'm gifted in understanding other people's feelings and what's going on inside them.
Even though you don't like it I would say just endear it he probably thinks it cute and a little flattering to him that he has that much attention to you, you will be back to your normal self before to long
LexylsSexy23 - ya right ! if you do not like the way you - look , behave and feel - when you are around this man then stop being around him unless you have to ! Thanks
I bet he finds it to be a very nice thing... I know I have when it's happened... have noticed it more so with giggles than blushes but it is very appealing :)
I can understand that - and I bet in time (likely) quickly you'll notice it lessens so if he enjoys it maybe take comfort in how it's probably a good genuine sign that you like him :)
oh lol... well... than I am guessing your blushing is based on physical attraction... that might get offset if you think he's a jerk - eventually your brain should overrule the subconscious blushing reaction :)
Bit like if I see a hot or pretty woman... but then in conversation realize she is mean or dumb or racist or something negative, I won't think she is hot anymore even though her physical looks are still the same.
Probably because you feel vulnerable or intimidated around him. Blushing, nervousness and just blanking out doesn't necessarily have to be because of affection. If you want to stop it, you need to find out what causes it.
Look inside your own mind he has that effect for a reason it's nothing he's done it's something inside you that causes the response, something he represents probably.
Perhaps, ... its Infatuation? and why stop blushing, ? Its only a natural reaction to stimuli ! the two of You must have a cool chemistry already, if so , keep stirring , and watch the connection Grow! Blessings!
Apparently, for whatever reason you actually care what this guy thinks. You might even have feelings for him. Because you care what he thinks you get embarrassed or are nervous about what to say.
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