Can You Still be A Bad Ass despite "losing food fight"?

[MillieBrunette]

Last year I had a fight involving a bucket of cheese sauce, the girl in question is a cocky midget dwarf who tried getting it on with my ex. We argued and then I grabbed her hair and I went to dunk her in the bucket of cheese sauce before she stomped on my barefoot at the last moment and dunked me instead, I was held under for 10-15 seconds before being let back up, I came back up with a cheese face infront of 50 + people.

I'm still reminded of it most days, and before then I had a pretty sassy reputation and in my opinion was seen as pretty badass, now I think I'm a figure of fun and still frustrated I'm perceived to of "Lost".

Thoughts?

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[Petra150]

Great story and hell u feel sorry for you, but be happy not to be considered a bass ass , rather people laugh if you. I mean you could have smash up the midget if a dwarf I'd guess. And everyone would have thought bad of you, even though I'm sure the little midget were the one to blame. Those shorties usually get everyone's sympathy I know by hard experience. No it take a great person to coupe with being laughed of, and to be able to make fun of yourself. Love to text you in a message I'd send you

[WarningWarning]

I have lost a fight. I was in 6th grade. I dont think I was the bigger person. She just beat the hell out of me. Lol I complained she was in my normal bus seat and she stood up and punched me in the face. I wasn't gonna do anything back because I knew I couldnt fight her. It was horrible. In front of the whole bus load. I still avoid fights. My soon to be ex is an abuser and it's been 21 years. I have always thought, what would he do if I just smacked him. But I have been too chicken.

[WarningWarning]

Girl u still a badass

[Teyfet]

My conclusion (after reading about this & your other food fight) is that you need to wear foot protection. Your Achilles heel is your exposed feet. (You'd have won both times, had you not been stomped. Instead, the first was a hilarious stalemate, & this was a cheesy loss.)
So, yes, you can still be a bad ass, but with a known Achilles Heel, you'll likely meet a similar fate again.

[Teyfet]

Get some shoes. Avoid de-feet.

[chriscdi]

whats with people having fights with cheese, this is not the first time I've heard this believe it or not

[MasRus]

it's the same chick😂

[MillieBrunette]

Sorry I thought that much was obvious 🤣

[chriscdi]

no its not i know someone else lol

[MillieBrunette]

What happened?

[chriscdi]

are you that girl i used to call cheese face?

[MasRus]

😂😂😂

[jgracem]

Yeah I think you can still consider yourself a badass. It was just one time and one situation. Don't beat yourself up over it, everyone has mishaps. The best thing you can do is move on and continue to live your badass life.

[MillieBrunette]

The fact I got dunked pisses me off

[jgracem]

Yeah that would piss anyone off, but you need to be able to either get past that or channel you anger into something else.

[archiz]

You need to put her in place to reestablish your reputation

[MillieBrunette]

How do I do that exactly 🤣

[archiz]

Maybe pull a prank on her I don't know😅

[MillieBrunette]

She dunked me in fucking cheese 🤣 I don't know what prank could possibly even that up

[nunyabiznes]

Of course you can still be a bad ass! However, it may take you a very long time to build your reputation up to what it was before. Gotta prove yourself again. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[MillieBrunette]

Why?

[nunyabiznes]

Your reputation is what people think about you. In my experience, people keep to their previously held opinions (on anything) like its gospel. People misjudge me daily. I’m used to it. Typically it takes me approximately 3 months of flawless “proving the truth” to change their opinions.

[girliiiish]

I think its fine no one sees you as fun everyone likes girly fights but i think its just happened you can't just kick asses sometimes you need to be kicked too kinda rule

[MillieBrunette]

You think I got my ass kicked?

[girliiiish]

No no i mean even if there was something worse its normal uk? Itf fight u can't just do it alone it has consequences sometimes we win sometimes we get stronger for next fight

[MillieBrunette]

Like I grabbed her hair, went to dunk her but she stomped my feet last second literally as I was going for the dunk, so I lost grip and then she dunked me in cheese instead for like 15 second.

[girliiiish]

Its fine next time you can do it better it's fine

[_food_lover234]

i mean you gotta loose a couple to get good

[MillieBrunette]

Think it's more having a cheesy grill that did it

[_food_lover234]

but like you rock that cheesy grill

[MillieBrunette]

🤣🤣🤣

[Exterminatore]

Sounds like you got owned. I think your certified bad ass card has been revoked temporarily but it is possible to get it reinstated.

[OfDeath]

It would be pretty hard to redeem any sense of badassery after that.
Funny story.

[TwoToTooTutu2]

Hey it's you again! What happened to the other profile?

[Tstrbrainer]

That's odd, but sometimes such things happen. If you are a tough person, you'll get over it soon and your badass status will be reinstated gradually.

[KrakenAttackin]

Maybe you need a re-match to reestablish your bad-assery?

[OpenNudist]

It is what it is, don't let any setback or defeat define you as a person

[Stella_79]

I don't know never been in one.

[MillieBrunette]

I got dunked in a bucket of cheese

[Stella_79]

Hot melted cheese?

[MillieBrunette]

Yes.. it was a fondue set, at a party. I went to dunk her she foot stomped me and dunked me instead

[Stella_79]

Ouch.

[MillieBrunette]

wasn't burning hot more luc warm. Just embarrassing infront of hundred off people.

[bluegrass89]

I feel sorry for that bucket of cheese sauce😂

[MillieBrunette]

What do you mean?

[bluegrass89]

You said you had a fight involving a bucket of cheese sauce. How do you feel when you dunk that girl and vice verse?

[MillieBrunette]

Well I tried to dunk her as I went to do it she stomped my feet with her sneakers on I was barefoot and dunked me instead.. so yeah I didn't do any of the dunking.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think I could consider anyone who got their head dunked into a bucket of cheese a ‘bad ass’. Just instant karma.

[MillieBrunette]

That dosent even make any sense!!! Karma for what?

[Opinion Owner]

Attempting to dunk somebody else.

[MillieBrunette]

Yes cos she deserved it? She asked me "what u gonna do" so I waited for her to turn away and grabbed her hair. She even yelped as I pull her hair back l🤣🤣🤣

[Opinion Owner]

Why did she deserve it?

[MillieBrunette]

Cos she mocked my tan and my 'orange feet". So I thought she could have done with a facial 😘

[Opinion Owner]

You’re trying way too hard to come off as a bad ass. And it’s failing miserably. You’re not one lol.

[MillieBrunette]

I am one. Sorry how the fuck am I "failing miserably"?

[Opinion Owner]

You keep thinking that 😂😫😂

[MillieBrunette]

Hold on.. You can't even explain to me different? So consider yourself owned.

[Opinion Owner]

‘Consider yourself owned?’ my point exactly. Are you 20 or 12? Trying to dunk somebody in cheese is not bad ass.

[MillieBrunette]

You can't explain how I'm not? All you do is repeat yourself with no substance behind it? Embarrassing yourself. 🤭

[Opinion Owner]

Bad ass meaning tough, uncompromising, or intimidating. Which you are none of those.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh honey, the only person embarrassing themselves here is you.

[MillieBrunette]

I'm literally all of them? That much is blatantly clear. How did you work that one out 😘🤭

[Opinion Owner]

You tried to dunk someone in cheese but instead got yourself dunked, that is far from tough and intimidating love 😂😂

[MillieBrunette]

That's a one off because she stomped my foot? Still didn't lose as I pulled her hair

[Opinion Owner]

Whatever helps you feel better 😂😂👌🏼

[MillieBrunette]

It's just facts, again you can't actually say differently. I'd dunk you when all said and done

[Opinion Owner]

Like I said, what ever makes you feel better 😂😂

[MillieBrunette]

Once again making yourself look silly you can't tell us how I lost, so therefore embarrassing yourself.. again.

[Opinion Owner]

I didn’t say you lost, I just said you’re not a bad ass. The bounty hunter is a bad ass, you are not. But hey, if you feel that you are one that whatevs. But not everyone is going to have that same view about you 😂

[Opinion Owner]

*then

[MillieBrunette]

Well I can kick any ass so I'd say I am

[Opinion Owner]

I already told you why anyway. You just chose to disagree with me. But like I said, you can’t force somebody to see you in a certain light. I genuinely do not think that you are a bad ass. That’s just my own opinion.

[Opinion Owner]

Whatever fam, considering you posted this question because a ‘midget’ damaged your ego a little, I doubt you can kick any ass.

[MillieBrunette]

Damaged my ego? How exactly

[Opinion Owner]

You wouldn’t have asked this question otherwise. You clearly care more about how others see you, you lost the fight and you’re worried people won’t see you as a bad ass.

[Opinion Owner]

So you needed justification from other people. And you expect me to think you’re a bad ass? Yeah, no 😂

[MillieBrunette]

You keep saying I "lost" the fight but you can't actually seem to be able to tell me how? Cringe

[Opinion Owner]

Sis, the title of your question is literally ‘Can I still be a badass despite loosing a food fight’ ffs 😂😫

[MillieBrunette]

Because that's what some say? DUUUHHHH. But you still haven't been able to explain anything that makes sense

[Opinion Owner]

I have, you just can’t seem to understand it 😂

[MillieBrunette]

You think I lost, but won't tell me how I did. I pulled her hair and had control.

[Opinion Owner]

I do not think you are a bad ass, that is my own opinion of you, I do not find you intimating or tough. You lost the fight because you ended up getting your head dunked, your plan to dunk somebody else failed. And as you stated, other people seem to say that you lost as well. Is that clear enough for you?

[Opinion Owner]

Why the fuck do you care so much anyway? I thought ‘bad asses’ don’t care about dumb shit like that. The fact that you’re so desperate to have people tell you that you ‘won’ just proves that you are not a bad ass. Just insecure and needy of other people’s approvals.

[MillieBrunette]

You do realise I I coudnt breathe? Was forced to take in mouthful after mouthful? Then Took hour to stop coughing.. 2 days to get rid of the smell. Then a pic of me ass up head down in the bucket goes viral?

[Opinion Owner]

Hence proving that you lost the fight 😑.

[Opinion Owner]

There’s no way you’re not a troll, I refuse to believe this is a genuine question at this point.

[MillieBrunette]

You've been proven wrong now leave me alone

[Opinion Owner]

You just prove my point anyway genius. Don’t ask questions if you can’t handle the opinions. You’re the one that’s desperate to convince me otherwise 🤪

[MillieBrunette]

Apparently you've "owned" me 🤬. Swear people see different to me.

[Opinion Owner]

Like I said, not everyone will see you in the same way as you see yourself.

[DBmusic3]

never been in a food fight

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Even badasses lose on occasion.

[MillieBrunette]

😘❤🙂

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Well shucks

[1828avaava1828]

I’ll need to pontificate 🤔

[MillieBrunette]

I dont know what that means

[1828avaava1828]

I’ll think on it

Hugs 🤗 lass

[MillieBrunette]

didn't answer

[1828avaava1828]

I will next time I’m on if I remember!

[LEADFOOTboi]

just be the bigger person XD

[In_Trance]

Yeah, I think you can

[Rebecka33]

yes i nother ways

[MillieBrunette]

But I got dunked in cheese?

[Rebecka33]

good throw ice cream at them

[MillieBrunette]

I like grabbed her hair went to dunk her, then last moment she stomped my foot and dunked me instead

[Rebecka33]

wow that sounds extreme i wouldn't even waste my time on people like that

[MillieBrunette]

I started the actual fight tho n got force fed cheese sauce practically.

[Rebecka33]

ya well if agirls jelous of me and she lays one hand on me its done shel wish she nver talked to me