Girls, Girl seems nervous around me today?

[ando90]

This girl at my work seemed a bit quieter with me today. I said hello to her and everything. I do work with her so we get along really well. Today she didn't look at me in the eye at first. But normally she does. Then when I was asking her how her weekend was she seemed a bit like she was on a another planet, as I was walking slightly in in front of her. But there was eye contact when she left.

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She has been smiling at me, initiating conversation with me other days. She has giggled at things I say that haven't been that funny.

[jennifer_bloom]

You have to examine to see if she likes you or if she is just self conscious and insecure - and I have never giggled when I like a guy - I only giggle if I think he is funny - to me giggling is not a sign of interest - just of close friendship and care for you and maybe respect for you

[ando90]

It's more the eye contact, smiling at me. I've seen the way she looks at me sometimes when i go and talk to her. Sometimes there is this quiet vibe between us, but I can't put my finger on it. It's an unexplained quiet vibe

[jennifer_bloom]

Yes I was like that around the guy I used to like cause I felt a sense of surrender around him - it was meditative and contemplative too

[btbc92]

She crushing on you and is thinking about dating you, but is scared to either ask you out or that you will reject her. So she is behaving awkwardly because she is fantasized that you want her as much as she wants you.

[bigmisssunshine]

Maybe she has some private issues, or she simply doesn’t feel too comfortable around you for whatever reason. Too many possibilities

[ando90]

But she has been acting comfortable around me. She has been open with me

[bigmisssunshine]

All I’m saying is that girls can show signs of “interest” while they’re actually just being polite and friendly.

[ando90]

I tried just ignoring her to make sure. But then she called out to me when i was doing some boring job. She yelled out " having fun there". I replied with a response and she laughed.

[ando90]

She imitated conversation within an hour of me just minding my own business

[bigmisssunshine]

You can joke around with colleagues... it’s more a sign of feeling comfortable around someone or feeling that she can be herself than a romantic interest.

[ando90]

All I'm saying is she treats me different to the rest of the other guys. Like there has been eye contact and smiling at me during group conversations when I'm talking

[bigmisssunshine]

That’s normal when someone’s talking

[ando90]

I'll be honest it was just today she seemed not quite herself. A few days eariler she was talking to me normally. But for some reason I get a slight nervous vibe from her sometimes. Like it's making me nervous too.

[Anonymous]

where do you both work at? do you like her? why you get a nervouse vibes around her? and how old are u and her

[Anonymous]

I don’t think she’s okay

[ando90]

With what?

[ando90]

As why do you think she isn't ok?

[Opinion Owner]

She seems to be zoned out, like she's got a lot running through her mind.