I think desperate women try too hard not to look desperate. I think everyone wants validation and affection, so just because someone wants that more than others doesn't really mean they're desperate. Real desperation comes in the form of "Men are trash. I can't find a real man in this day and age." That's bullshit, and everyone knows it. There's enough types of people in this world to suit everyone's needs. Girls can usually just sit back and let the guy find them, so there's really no need to get that worked up over it. Plus if they ever feel impatient they can just make the first move anyway. Once you start trashing men and boasting about how nobody meets your standards, you come across as desperately trying to goad men into courting you.
I usually don't pay attention to desperate women because they usually seek for an impossible or a very unlikely kind of love and spend their time complaining about it or it's the opposite where they would jump on anything then end up being sad because they took the first thing that came without thinking about what they got into.
In both cases, I think there is a big lack of self-awareness or an unhealthy mindset and I don't like dedicating energy to people like that unless there is a chance that they might get self-aware enough.
Ignore. People like that are rotten to the core and not worth the effort.
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Obsessive people like that don't even know what love is. They have a narcissistic or sociopathic personality disorder and can't be trusted. They only care about themselves.
If she is after someone's boyfriend, I guess that's fair game unless she knows the girl she is trying to stab in the back. But if she is trying to destroy a marriage, that's sick. I would rat her out and let her suffer the consequences. Let her suffer.
lol im kinda going through something that has to do with this, ha what a coincidence
I've had a woman "love" me for 3 years, claiming not to know me when I confronted her about her staring, considering that she followed me around on campus in the beginning.
i wouldn't help or get involved with that person :D that TNT sign is in their forehead shows enough warning to stay away from them.
You don't help her. You can't help her. Because what you feel is wrong with her, she feels is not wrong. All you can do is tell guys about her who don't want a serious relationship. Win win.
I would take her aside and talk to her
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