Why are so many black women triggered at white men all the time? Because they don’t match our standards? Can’t they just change themselves?

[Jack9949]

I’m sick of seeing so many black women on this site bitching about how us white men don’t take enough interest in them. Maybe the reasons we’re falling for Asians and Latinas is because they don’t bitch about slavery constantly and ask us to “check our privalege”. They recognize that in the modern age people build their own success instead of feeling entitled to it from other people. And it’s not our fault either that we don’t find obese women attractive, or even Box Braids or Afros. Fashion is a personal decision. Instead of bitching at white men for not finding you attractive, maybe fix your own damn selves and stop complaining. You know you’ve got an issue anyway when men of your own race flock to white women and don’t even stick around for anything besides sex.

[btbc92]

Wow. No. That is not true at all. You're just a jerk. I don't think any woman needs to be involved with. Some have suffered racism and prejudice and that is no right to dictate and hurt them because of what they have been conditioned to. If your saying and doing a of that then it says a lot about what you are about. I think what makes it very different from so-called black women an Asian and Latina women is simply this. And this is coming from somebody who has a mixed ethnicity.

Certain cultures of people are forced to deal with discrimination, racism, and threats everyday. Asians and Latinos don't go through all that craziness. Unless they come from a place where it happens in their everyday life. It's not about physical attraction. Is about do you even have love to give anybody at all? Because every woman overall wants to be loved by a man. Let alone to be loved by everybody. If you're judging a person because they're so called obese, have across, etc, that's racist. Point blink. No different then if you judge a person based on having little to no eyes to see out of it being racist. The problem is that men as a whole only be with women for sex. And then wants a woman to be demure so they can control her anyway. To tell you the truth. Plenty of women have no problem and just being themselves, and don't always choose to be nasty. They behave that way because they're defensive. The defensive because they constantly being targeted, and how in the world is it always somebody's fault for being a Target? Only ignorant people speak something like that. I would never be attracted to somebody with your attitude regardless of my so-called race. And I have plenty of so cold white guys become attracted to me simply because I'm attracted to them. But then they speak with you speak and want to know why I would not want to deal with them. That is disgusting behavior of anybody to do. You don't have to be attracted to them. You don't have to date them. But it gives no one the right to be a jerk. They don't care about your so-called race. They simply just telling you to stop discriminating them and stop treating them like trash. In fact a lot of Asians and Latinas are getting sick and tired of that also. Being only wanted for the body and for the personality but not who they are. That's why good amount them are now starting to believe to date within their own ethnicity or culture, and why they simply stick to their Traditional Values based on their parents up Brandon. They're not going to deal with a person who's going to be racist back.

[Jack9949]

Wow. I can’t believe you just mischaracterized me like that. All I said was that I’m not attracted to most black women and I always leave those alone that I have no interest in. I’m not a “jackass” to anyone, hell I don’t even gossip about other people.

[btbc92]

I did not mischaracterize you Jared you revealed the true you when you started saying what you had said in this entire question. Who cares if you're not attracted to most black women. Nobody really cares. A lot of people I'm not even care about your so-called race. They took interest in just getting to know you. And your attitude shows that you don't want to get to know them soon because they're not attracted to you. Then when a woman that you claim you're interested in isn't attracted to you, you be left alone and then want to know why no woman wants to take real interest and you either. That's not the reason why you date in the first place. This whole entire question is based out of ignorance, assumptions, and misconceptions.

[btbc92]

Attractive to you*

I had a lot of people especially guys did exactly what you're describing. It hurts, it leaves you feeling depressed, feel unloved, unwanted, sometimes you feel like committing suicide , and then you're still judge just for even feeling that way when you're just simply human it's damned if you do, and damned if you don't. That's why they complained away they complain. Because nobody truly knows how that really feels into a God of forbid happens to them. Then that's when the other person wants the attention. People going to treat you the same way how you treat them equally. And it will be justified.

Plenty of guys said they weren't attracted to me either. Be it my clothes, face, skin, whatever. That used to hurt me a lot especially when I didn't love myself. Now that I love myself even more, I honestly don't give a rat's behind what anybody thinks of me. Those who do find me attractive overall as a person, are the ones that are going to be somebody I will pay attention to. And would have invested in. If I was doing like any other person and just try to talk to a guy, if he us white or not, I'm not doing it because of his skin or appearance. I do so like with anybody because I am drawn to him. And that may be what make them attractive. And they don't want to get to know me because of my skin color, or whatever it is that my physical appearance is like. Then that is a red flag for me. Many of my more attractive friends according to other people, never took a liking to guys that only like at them for their appearance but then treat me like dirt. And neither would I for them. Women hate that. Only shallow women endorse it and put down other females until it God forbid happens to them too. That is the wrong attitude to be having. You don't know these women. And unless they character is yet to be desired, don't judge somebody like that.

[btbc92]

I am personally friends with a few people especially one that was always bullied for being fat we were kids. And guess what? She turned her life around, is now married to the love of her life who never judged her as others have. Because the same can be said about white women and every other women. Every culture and "race" have pros and cons. What many of you don't realize is how you treat another person is how they are going to respond to you. Treat them negatively, and they will respond to you negatively. Treat them positively, and they just may treat you positively. Some black women yes all like that, many treat everybody the same. But if you show them different that you're not like everybody else that treated them bad, then they just may open up to you and be a little nicer.

[Jack9949]

“They took interest in just getting to know you.” Actually I’ve never turned anyone away. I just don’t get approached by women, but I’m fine with it either way.

[Jack9949]

Being 5 10’ I am shorter than most men but I don’t complain about being unattractive to women, even tho there isn’t a single thing I can do about it. All I need to do is find one person who doesn’t mind. No big deal.

[btbc92]

The reason why you don't get approached by women is because you start thinking that we only approach you just to date you when in actuality it's you men who approached us to date us. We are actually really tired about that. At the same time you ever hear of women intuition? If you have that kind of mentality, we can sense that about the even without actually speaking to you. 5'10 is not sure at all. Is actually quite tall. I don't know how in the world do you get that idea that you're not attractive solely because of your height. The only thing is not really attractive is the mindset that you got. Plenty of women below that tight with still find that attractive. What is less than do with your high and more to do about how you carry yourself.

[Jack9949]

So yes, I’ve been there, experienced the same thing, no hypocrisy about it. In my case I can’t even change it however. It’s the same situation with guys who have tiny dicks. They have no control over it but it’s just the cruel reality of human nature to find certain things more and less attractive, regardless of whether or not they are interchangeable. If I have no interest I don’t bother approaching or saying anything at all. I noticed the same thing happen to myself once I opened up about being a Trump supporter to my friends. There are consequences to your personal decisions and you gotta own them. Don’t present yourself in a particular way if your not going to accept it.

[btbc92]

Huh? Well it's no wonder why you don't get approached if you got that attitude. If you keep behaving that way then other people are not going to take any interest in you. You have to understand that people that actually want to approach you wants to approach you but you got to be the judge about why they choose to approach you. If you open up about being a trump supporter, and they don't like it, did that already tell you that you found the wrong kind of friends to be involved with be having as friends I think it's a simple fact that you lack proper judgment, and then take the same negativity and project that. People that actually care about you don't treat you that way. In truth we using your experiences as a way to actually solidify the reasons why you choose that I can say what you're saying and this question. It has nothing to do with it actually being human nature. In truth it's actually sin nature. It's just that our society chooses to praise such nature instead of actually correcting the behavior.

[btbc92]

And I can simply tell you through my personal experience and growth you can change it. But it's up to you to change it. If you don't want to change it, you don't want to let God help change you, did it will be exactly as you said it would be. It's up to you to decide if you want to have it at the self-fulfilling prophecy. You don't have to be around people who don't like you. Once I realize that, I've been feeling more better about myself, and attracted to right kind of people in my life who does care. Just like as much as I'm a private person, as long as a person is friendly, I don't mind if a person approaches me. But if they approach me for the wrong reasons, of course I have the right to reject if I have to. But as long as the person hasn't made the effort, and use the excuse that they are not interested in me to not approach me then I'll be sure to remember that person in the back of my mind. So that way, I won't have to deal with them in the future or get hurt for no logical reason. They tend to be fake often anyway.

Because when you constantly thinking that way, it just going to make you miserable in the end. Don't hang around people that are toxic and give you a bad perception of others just to fit in or he liked. That was my biggest mistake growing up as a child.

[Jack9949]

Look I’m not complaining about the way I look or the way I am. And it is my opinion that others shouldn’t care either. Because regardless of what the majority opinion is, God layed out his plans for us and created the perfect you for the perfect someone.

[Jack9949]

That is why I am 100% opposed to this childish banter of complaining.

[btbc92]

There is no such thing as the perfect one. Only perfect love in him. When you have perfect love in him, then none of that stuff matters. It's a chocie.

[Jack9949]

Appearance matters to most people. Get over yourself.

[btbc92]

You're right it does to most people. And that's why most people are miserable, and can never have the real love that they truly desire.

[Jack9949]

It’s honestly just the way life is. Feeling sorry for yourself doesn’t fix anything. It’s easier for you to change yourself, than it is for the world to change for you.

[btbc92]

If you actually believe that, then you live it how you wish, but don't complain when it doesn't fit to what you thank you. It's not that that's how life is, that's just how people are. Did you actually wish to be truly happy and content in your life, then you must be free of the things that limit you from actually being happy. It's a choice to do so and it's a choice to not. Because if you actually think that way didn't you think like the world. That's why the world can judge you by the same standards. And I'm only telling you this by experience. And I can safely tell you that is not just the way how life is. Because when God created the world, he didn't create it like this. When people chose to but thank God, then that's when life became much harder for people.

[btbc92]

Because I can guarantee you with plenty of my friends who wants. The same thing like you can safely tell you that the parents can only get you but so far. If you truly desire real love in your life, you must be able to truly love yourself and have real compassion for others. Change begins internally in you. It is not an external change. It won't change what's already inside. And they had many relationships based on those principles that you share and they tell me over and over again in their own words in summary, is not truly as fulfilling as one thinks. Excuse me to look that way to weed out those who are weak from the strong.

[Jack9949]

Appearance will always matter to people no matter what. It’s bullshit to pretend it shouldn’t. That’s the #1 priority. Obviously personality comes second cuz #1 allows for too many candidates.

[btbc92]

Actually no it's not number one priority. And personality does not come second. Standards, beliefs, values, principles, and vicious coming effective teeth first. Personality comes on the 4th, and appearance come last.

You must be a whole person, not fractured, not partial, not in pieces, and certainly not incomplete. This is supposed that I have gained over my young teenagehood all the way my young adulthood. To desire to love will still linger in your heart when you're not fully complete and whole as a person. You can have the perfect face, the perfect body, the perfect family, perfect finances, perfect everything, but if you're truly lacking love, it won't satisfy painted it would leave you hoping and yearning for more. And this is why so many people feel incomplete in their relationships. Twice as worse for those who are trauma and abuse victims, or those who are dealing with depression and anxiety. What truly attractive person is the soul. Was truly in a person's heart. Because when it's right, it radiates to the outside, and this is why sometimes we often feel drawn to the other parents. Because it's not about the body, it's about what's inside. Otherwise if you don't feel drawn to what's inside, then all you're really drawn to is body. And that's how people end up looking for love in all the wrong places. Many will say that God created Attractive people because he knows that is what makes us sexually Desiring them. And that I believe is false. I believe that God created Attractive people not because we're sexually attracted to them. But to actually show forth his glory and his creation as well as to test and see what we will do. The same why he allows people who are less attractive to others, or disabled, or disfigured, or sick to be born. To test us. Will we show His Image in us, or will we show the image of the Beast? Many end up in bad relationships based on those desires.

[btbc92]

In today's society sure. Even the past it was similar. But it's not about pretending that it doesn't matter. It's acknowledging the fact that it doesn't matter. It will only matter to people who are shallow and can't seem to offer anything else but that body and their parents. Anybody can fake a personality, anybody can put on a mask. And I'm telling you this as an infj who was born to detect these masks. But character is something that last. It's not about having so many candidates. It is about picking the one partner you're going to have for the rest of your entire lifetime. All you're going to do is just choose one. You don't need a whole host of people. At most you're not going to even fit with them all. You going to be similar to 20. Adaptable to 15, liking about 10, desiering to know more with 5, but only compatible within 3-5. But, you are still going to be with 1 at a time. Especially for women, we can't be with you all. Genre why we take our time and want to be chosen by one only. We seek through many men for that one, while men go through many women just to say they have a woman. Or more. That's why it is so easy for a man to lose a woman. And why it is so easy for a woman to not be as desirable to a man.

[Jack9949]

“Standards, beliefs, values, principles” well yeah I consider those all to be personality elements. I’m just saying I can’t have one without the other in a relationship. Appearance is a must, and it’s the most easily distinguishable factor, henceforth making it the top priority because otherwise you are wasting your time getting to know somebody on the inside if its for anything besides friendship.

[Jack9949]

Like why would I want to be in an intimate relationship with somebody when they just aren’t attractive? That’s retarted.

[btbc92]

That's not personality elements. Because of its personality elements then I'm certain that we were all be the same people because everybody's standards, beliefs, values, excetera it's not the same.

And do you not understand and realize that a relationship is also a friendship? That your lover is also supposed to be your best friend. It appears is a must then you will lose out on a good relationship based on what you say you must have. What becomes your top priority, will become the very thing that will destroy your relationship. If you believe it's a waste of time to getting to know someone simply because they not attracted to you, because it's not one of the elements that you can give up, then neither can the other person give up on what's most important to them.

You say, why would you want to be an intimate relationship with someone that just aren't attractive. And it's retarded. But the real question is for the other person why would they want to be in an intimate relationship with you, and only is with you because you're attractive. Now what if they find somebody else is tractors and would rather have that person? Should they not leave the relationship even after all the things you've done? Aren't they not also entitled to happiness? You cannot have it both ways. A relationship is not about you.

[btbc92]

Because if that's the case then what does Love Got to Do with It? It shows and proven that Your love is not authentic. And that your love is not unconditional and is based on whether or not if you choose to give it. The same way how you treat love is the same way how others would treat you the same. I'm not here to change your mind, you can do whatever it is that you please. But now if it's not as truly fulfilling as you desire, remember you made that choice. And this is why a lot of women are backing out of relationships and commitment. If not often sleep around before they end up cheating if they haven't already cheated. I don't agree with it, but it's understandable given how a lot of men are treating women these days days and vice versa.

[Jack9949]

I’ve been taught by my parents to stick with something if it works. If I have a fitting candidate I ain’t leaving for somebody else.

[btbc92]

Your parents may have taught you that but you don't have anybody now do you? That's the difference.

Because of everything of what you're saying is true, then I'm guessing many of my friends that are now married for 7 plus years, have children of their own, wouldn't have waited until marriage to have sex whether they're religious or not, would not happen, because according to you, appearance means everything. Well those who believe exactly what you believe, have over 10 dating partners, many potential maybes, and are still looking for that special someone. Or they had a potential special someone, but they were too busy looking at other people, and ignore them because of the very thing you said. Physical appearance matters. Now the ones that they rejected are all the married and have families of Their Own.

[btbc92]

There is a time and a place for everything. And we all have choices. Because it's not about having a fitting candidate. But whether or not if you're actually going to get along and actually last for a very long time. It is easy to be deceived. Your parents may be your parents but your parents also isn't living your life. Your parents are your parents and they're together hopefully, they definitely got together otherwise they wouldn't have had you. But you're the one that currently do not have anybody. And it sounds like to me you could have had anybody at any given time if you really put the effort.

[Jack9949]

Perhaps that’s true for some, but not for me. I’d take the time to get to know somebody if I found them attractive, and even if somebody more attractive entered the equation I’m not just gonna disregard connections I’ve already invested effort into forming

[btbc92]

You say that now because you're stubborn but you have yet to even know that for yourself because you more in likely never even tried. When you try to get to know somebody base if they're attracted to you or not, you already failed. I hope you realize that. You already failed. You fail the true purpose of actually getting to know a person. Because now is that person does not want to be desired based on their looks, you're not going to be happy about it either.

Your parents had their Journey. My parents had their Journey. But you have yet to start yours. The difference between you and I who never started is this. I had my opportunities, and when I was open to dating, I was open to the possibilities no matter who it was. As long as they respected my rules. They didn't want to respect my rules, so I wasn't going to jeopardize myself. I still had more opportunities after that. But after struggling but still many problems and getting disrespected, I realized it may not have been for me. And I wasn't going to jeopardize my health because of it. You however have plenty of opportunities if you allow yourself to. But you don't because you're too picky and unreasonably on top of that. My standards are sound while yours is unstable. So don't think for a second that is true for some bud is not for you. Because if that's the case you would have had somebody immediately. If not right now. Actions speak louder than words. People will believe it when they start seeing it. Otherwise is a front, and people won't take you seriously.

[btbc92]

Again, I'm telling you by experience. Even my own parents would tell you the exact same thing. They had it issues to Growing Up, but the difference between who they dated, wanted to date and them? They lasted over 2 decades. Many got cheated on, dumped, knocked up, etc. Years later, still came looking for them, and can't believe they were still married. Dysfunctional And abusive, yes. But they still married. And now even one of my own doesn't want anything to do with those people in the past. They had a chance and they blew it. So don't go around blowing chances because you can't stomach your pride. Or else you will be my age and still single.

[Jack9949]

Wow your just plain ignorant right now. My priorities aren’t even the reason I’ve been single all my life. Most people in High School who’ve dated did so primarily because of appearance. Obviously most relationships didn’t last very long, but that’s only because nobody wanted them to. I just don’t care enough about that shit right now. I’m mainly concerned about myself because I’ve got other issues to worry about besides dating.

[Jack9949]

I can’t invest time into other people quite yet cuz I’ve got other fucking issues to worry about.

[btbc92]

It's not about me being ignorant. That is perfectly okay. I did the same thing my entire K 12 years myself. But the problem is that you're not realizing is that you say you don't care enough about that right now calling me why you got all this unrealistic expectations in your head. That's the point I'm making. You are not in any position to be dating right now, but you're saying all this stuff. That's where the real ignorance came in. Because you don't seem to even get that you don't have to date now if that's not what you want. Which is smart to be doing anyway because education at this point needs to come first. You building yourself as a man needs to come first.

But what I'm telling you is that if you really want to get into a stable relationship, you must build relationships and a friendship with women first. And not because of their physical appearance. You don't date complete strangers and just ask them out on a date. If you're going to take it seriously, you got to do it seriously. That is what I am saying. You can do all of that, and not date.

[btbc92]

You have to start this now. Not later. Now. And you can do all that once again, befriending women and getting to know them before you think about dating them. Because many women start having these desires as young as six years old. They already plan for their life, concerning with sexual desires, romance, families, and getting married. Whether they actually want these things by this time around your age or not is debatable. But you can bet they are thinking about these things ahead of time. And if these women are taking interest in you and they find that you are somebody they would like to list connect to, and you just reject them sumply because they're not attractive , then you're wasting those opportunities. And if you're still in high school, or you're already in college, I'm telling you again by experience, those rumors will spread. And once those rumors spread, you're going to have a very hard time getting somebody to want to date you. Because once you start rejecting one person, they're going to assume you're going to be rejecting them all. And then you go to easily weed yourself out of the dating pool.

[Jack9949]

Rejecting women on the basis of appearance is something I will never be afraid to do. I’ll just say “sorry not my type” cuz its that fucking easy. Would be even worse if I faked my feelings for them long term cuz that’s even more hurtful. And I’m surprised you actually think I will get approached 🙄. It’s never happened before. I just don’t talk much to anybody.

[btbc92]

Again, you talk a good game, but it says a lot that you don't know. It ain't based on feelings and all that other stuff. Oh I know you will. As I said I have enough experience on my belt to know. But if you already have that attitude like I said before what makes you think any of those women want to be approached by you? If you already don't talk much to anybody, they're not going to think much of you when you start approaching them because they're attractive. They can smell fake a mile away.

[Jack9949]

I don’t fake a damn thing about myself tho. Can you actually stop being so opinionated?

[btbc92]

Well, This is why you're attracting those kind of women. You blame black women for having this attitude, but you have the same attitude that got them looking at you in the first place. And you don't even see yourself. Oh, yes you are being fake. Being fake is exactly what you're doing. When you behave like that you're showing other people something that you said you aren't but you are. It doesn't mean that you don't tell a lie. But that you are so unaware of the things that you do would you expect other people to think differently than what they actually see. That's not about me being so opinionated. That's me reading you as a person that's easy to read as an open book. Once again, I'm telling you. They don't like that stuff. You start that not my type business, you just going to Chip Away opportunities for others to want to date you. But you don't have to listen to me. You can listen to the experiences you will soon have if you don't change that path.

[Jack9949]

And I don’t approach random people either unless I have a valid reason to talk to them. “Appearance” isn’t one of them because hundreds of other guys already think the same damn thing so I wouldn’t be offering shit to them

[Jack9949]

I literally told you. NO WOMEN APPROACH ME. Why is that so fucking impossible for you to understand? I’m telling you the truth. Even though it’s not a good look on me.

[Jack9949]

Also I never speak to black women directly I just overhear their comments about white men.

[modelUN242]

I find it funny when black women have white men as their husbands or boyfriends and they have to "educate" them on their white privilege, lmfao what? Like, be with a black man then. These women secretly hate their own race because why would you have babies with a white person anyways, they're going to look lighter. If you look at the BLM black women, most of them have white partners, so I'm confused, like if you're proud of your own race, you go for people within the same race. I think black women like Candance Owens are the exception.

[Jack9949]

I think black women just want white people who act as their puppets. A lot of black men don’t respect them tbh.

[modelUN242]

Maybe, I think it's a secret fantasy or fetish (slave-master) thing, like look at Doja Cat. That's messed up. Some women secretly want to be dominated so they're channeling it through anger and hated, but it's actually strong feelings.

[Jack9949]

Weird. I’ve heard some white guys even say that black women like white men but I was always like... Wtf do u mean? 😂

[YHL6965]

Don't pay attention to these black women and let them suffer in the misery they fuel. There are black women who are more sensible persons and you should focus on them instead of the negative ones in my opinion.

[Jack9949]

Fair enough. Just gotta meet more of them 👍

[Cherokeehp]

I literally couldn’t care less about attention from white dudes. Systematic racism is alive and well even in this day and age, and you should check your privilege. Checking your privilege doesn’t mean you have to give up anything, it just means acknowledging that there are systems in place that benefit you while neglecting other people. Don’t look down on other people because they aren’t as successful because you have no idea what it’s like to be their shoes. I’m not gonna change myself and I’m not gonna stop talking about black issues. The only black women upset about not getting enough white attention are the coons.

[YHL6965]

How come we hear about slavery, black history, murders of black people by police officers all the time while we never hear about the white equivalents? How come there is positive discrimination for black people in universities for example? If there is systemic racism, it's favoring minorities and that includes black people.

[Cherokeehp]

@YHL6965 They talk about the “white equivalents” all the time. When talking about the holocaust they literally say “Never forget”. White history has always been taught in American schools. Black history usually only takes one chapter and it’s typically white washed and sugar coated. And white people don’t get murdered by the police at the same rates as black people. Police kill unarmed black people ALL THE TIME for NO FUCKING REASON. But some how they manage to take white school shooters into custody alive and unharmed and still stop to give them Burger King. If you want there to be more of a discussion about police brutality on white people, then maybe you all should start talking about it. But the policies and changes that blm protesters are fighting for would benefit all races. Banning deadly chokeholds would benefit all races. Defunding the police and putting the funds towards programs that would actually effectively reduce crime would benefit all races. And what the hell is “positive discrimination”? Those two words don’t go together.

[Jack9949]

@Cherokeehp I never said anybody had to change for white men. Just that they don’t have the right to complain about white men not being attracted to their fashion choices.

[Jack9949]

@Cherokeehp Also “there are systems in place that benefit you while neglecting other people.” What the hell are you even talking about?

[Cherokeehp]

Systematic Racism.

[Jack9949]

How?

[Cherokeehp]

Hundreds of years of oppression. While your ancestors were accumulating wealth, my ancestors were slaves. This means are automatically economically put at a disadvantage. Racial bias makes black people less likely to get jobs, be promoted, and receive bank loans. Racial bias also makes black people more likely to be incarcerated, get longer prison sentences, and to be murdered by police. We live in a system that has set black people up to fail.

[Jack9949]

Even if that were true (which it isn’t) how am I personally benefitting from the mistreatment of others as you’ve claimed? Also Affirmative Action exists by the way, for job hiring and college.

[Cherokeehp]

Affirmative action exists, but it doesn’t help as many people as you think it does. When you take away power and resources away from one group, you can give it to another. That’s how white people benefit from systematic racism.

[Jack9949]

How are we taking away power and resources from black people exactly? There’s nothing to even take. Their communities are failing. If anything they are a drain on our money. We give so many black people food stamps and welfare checks with our taxes.

[Jack9949]

They are literally living off the system with white peoples money.

[YHL6965]

The Holocaust is more Jewish history than white history.

As for the teaching of black history, I'm sure it's very subjective and varies wildly based on the school or state you're in.

Actually, unarmed black men being shot is rarer than people claim and the higher shooting rate towards black people can be explain by the high crime rate of black people. Sure there are unfair cases where the shooting was very unnecessary, but the same can be said when the victim is not black too. There are unfair cases like with victims that are not black.

A lot of school shooters end up shot, they are not all arrested like that. I'm sure those arrested are those who decided to surrender and follow the police's orders precisely.

Police brutality is not about race and making it about race will only make the problem worse or unlikely to change. Everyone can be a victim of police brutality.

BLM just like other SJW movements fight for power, for leverage, not for real equality. Besides, you can hear many racist things, mostly against white people, in BLM protests which only make the situation worse. Making everything and anything about race just slows any progress because you divide people instead of uniting them against the issues you want to fight, regardless of their race.

Defunding the police would just lead to anarchy which would just turn a lot of things into chaos. Just look how long CHAZ lasted...

Positive discrimination, aka Affirmative Action, "(in the context of the allocation of resources or employment) the practice or policy of favouring individuals belonging to groups known to have been discriminated against previously." literally from one quick Google Search.

[Natashakir72]

There are a few racist people I think. I don't know any, but I believe they exist. The 350 people I know are not but that still means hypothetical 0.66 % of people could be racist. If it's so, I guess it's ok. Also if the slang term "white privilege " was a real thing, I would find it terrible honestly, so I'm glad it ain't real.

[Cherokeehp]

@Natashakir72 it’s not slang, and it is real. It shouldn’t make you feel terrible though.

[Natashakir72]

It doesn't. Not one little bit. It's made up. Like the tooth ferry. It doesn't exist in the real world

[Cherokeehp]

@Natashakir72 The tooth ferry? Like a boat?

[Natashakir72]

fairy said to take children's milk teeth after they fall out and leave a coin under the child's pillow.

[Anonymous]

Black women who are attractive got no problem getting white men... as much as people want to below black women are not desired, we are. Many black women are extremely race loyal and many do feel like they don't have to make changes to get a man but times are changing and black women are slowly starting to take interest in other races besides black.

[Jack9949]

Aye well said! 💯👍👍

[asshole_]

I love black women

I love white women

I love Asian women

I love mexican women

I'm white

[Anonymous]

wow, looks like someone doesn't think black lives matter👀
racist prick lmao