Yes, most guys (not all) are so desperate that they’ll hit on the average girl, this inflates their ego, so they won’t settle for the average guy (in the same league as them) because they think they can get a guy levels above them (on the 1-10 scale) eventually these guys lower their standard to below average girls which then inflates their egos and the cycle repeats, basically every girl thinks she can get a guy above her looks scale, eventually they hit the wall and lower their standards themselves, but try telling that to a girl that’s not hit the wall yet, social media doesn’t help either, girls are nasty and they’ll never comment compliments on a hot girls page yet they always comment compliments on their average/below average friends photos because they themselves feel sorry for them because they think they’re better looking than them, when is inflating their ego and then they comment the same thing back which inflates their egos, seriously. Go look at a female friends social media, it be full of comments like “omg babe you look so hot” or “beautiful” or “sexy AF”
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Saw this myself. I know girls legit talked negatively behind their back about their looks that attempted to seduce me a bit while playing air hockey to try and distract me. Long story short I won the game and the bet because Im not the horny dog she likely considers men to be automatically. I was one of like four boyfriends she had including like two abusive ones ofc.
My ex before her was much bigger than her too and likely talked about even more negatively. Still had guys giving her gifts and stuff.
I figure girls really don't have to do that much these days to get some sort of liking from guys. Period. Any bit of beauty they may have and some guy put there is attracted.
It's not the opposite way for sure. And their heads get bigger every day from it... And then they hit the wall at 30
POOF! Another Karen is born.
Oh wow I’d neverrr say that. Even when sometimes I look in the mirror and think I look good, I still would never think I’m too hot for anyone.
I know some very average looking girls that probably do think they’re God’s gift, but I don’t waste my thoughts on people like that.
I guess being a guy it’s different because it’s the opposite gender.
That being said though I really really don’t like guys that boast about themselves it’s so off putting, and that goes for both physical looks and materialistic things like earning well and having money. There’s a fine line between confidence and being a nob.
Tbh I think that’s actually their insecurity coming through. Anyone who has to say “I am so hot, you better be grateful to have me” is a shallow insecure fuck, male or female. My ex was like that, cheated on me and was faced with the reality of it - he’s weird and cheated on a good woman with something that just washed up onto the shore because that’s all he could get. Heard he’s in therapy now. Reality will hit them soon enough.
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Probably yeah. Like I have this friend who's not bad looking and is kinda chunky but she has such high standards for men. Yes she does manage to date these men but they all just want here for sex rather than herself. Like she's average or below average looking (of course I never say that), she isn't espicially bright, left school at 16, lives with her parents, earns minimum wage, works in a chip shop, can't drive, has no car yet can't understand why some 6ft+, handsome, educated, independently wealthy, big dick prince charming only wants to pump and dump her. Like Cinderella was at least beautiful but in the real world of 2020 at most Prince Charming would have knocked her up and paid child support while marrying a princess.
What do you have against confident women? The world is always going to judge you and say you're not good enough, so why do it to yourself too? I think everyone should think of themselves as a 10/10 and never settle for anything less than they think they deserve. What difference does it make to you? and who told you it was ok to rate human beings? I'm sure some of those women are shallow and do it themselves, but this makes you just as bad. We demand people to reach our level, we don't lower ourselves to theirs.
when you have the guys who are 7,8,9,10's. dating girls who are 5,6,7,8,9,10's. is it no real wonder. many girls think they can do better then just an average guy.
more attractive guys date down or hookup with girl. most often for some quick and easy sexual encounters. with no real intend of staying with them long term. even if they knock her up. unless she has a personality they enjoy.
so most guys date equal or below their own level for looks, income and age.
where as most girls date equal or above their own level for looks, income and age.Well it's okay to have confidence but probably shouldn't be arrogant about it.
I have and never will consider myself hot or sexy. I see myself as average.
If anything I think I have a decent personality.
Hopefully you find a nice, down to earth girl :)This is quite shallow. I would never be attracted to someone describing themselves in this way whether they’re average or more or less, such attitude is just immature. Mature people wouldn’t brag about their looks because they respect themselves and they are rational enough to realize that other people can see and appreciate beauty without being overly demanded to do so.
I presume that part of it is that pretty much any girl can get laid by above average guys if she wants to.
Also, there's no accounting for taste. E. g, maybe most men, even seriously hot ones, don't have the sort of expectations on womens' bodies that you appear to.Yeah kinda.
Even average girls will get tons of interest/complements from the opposite sex which can definitely give them an ego.The woman I've heard talking like this are generally insecure. A friend of mine was dating a woman like this. She openly talks about how "sexy" she is and how men love her body, but in reality she was bulimic and constantly obsessed with little things she didn't like about herself. I am not making light if body dysmorphia, it's a serious mental issue, my only point is that over confidence is often a sign of low self confidence.
I'd literally kick those girls from behind of they ever say those things.
There's no need to be so full of yourself. If you want a man, then stop saying that you're when you're not. These types of things makes me gag. Yes, I'll date a girl, but not a girl who is so full of herself.Some girls dont realize how important aesthetics is to most guys. That being said, I hope you aren't being mean to them about it because girls have to put up with a lot crap from each other and if they think they look good then good for them. About the arrogant ones, its possible they find the guys that will screw anything that breaths so they say whatever they can to get her in bed.
How exactly does this conversation come up when you meet these ladies?My coworker once said that the loudest people are usually the most insecure. I think that’s the case with these girls. Outwardly saying “I’m hot so you should consider yourself lucky to have me” is way of covering her insecurities.
Yeah, but that goes both ways. In my college, there were a lot of really handsome shy men who later said that they had been interested but afraid to approach me, yet I had some morbidly obese, foul, unattractive, and plain-looking men not only come onto me but be rude when I turned them down.
I wouldn't be harsh but I'd definitely play with their arrogance and say "well if you said it I won't disagree" 😁 watch the reaction
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what really bothers me is they want you to be 6’+ with a career a house and a vehicle... it’s like bitch you don’t have any of these things how you gonna expect them of me when I got a firmer ass than you lmao
You may be perceiving their sexual market value as lower than the rest of the world sees it. I don’t think a lot of men understand how they experience life as a woman. They’re saying those things simply because they can.
Oh yeah... A lot of women think they are soooo much hotter than they really are. One of my truisms of life is that basically every woman I've ever met thinks she is hot shit.
Yes. Go on tinder and see how you match. She can have certain standards in regards to physical features but you cannot otherwise you will be a jerk or shame them in some way.
Self worship is often a sign that a girl actually hates her own looks. Not always the case, but she will tell herself that she's beautiful because she doesn't actually believe it.
Since I turned 14, I've seen more average looking girls and women be arrogant about their looks than more attractive women, some of whom don't fully realize how beautiful they are. I will say this, though- this seems to end before they hit 40.
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