Why are women more attracted to men who are surrounded my many females than man who are not? (Page 2)
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I spent a few years at my job where no girl showed romantic interest in me. But then one eventually did, but when this one did (and made it known to our colleagues), so did a few others within a few weeks 😅 I didn’t see it as a coincidence or that I suddenly became more attractive; my immediate theory was the same as everyone’s theory here (I became appealing to a group by becoming appealing to just one person who made the rest curious suddenly) 🤷🏻♂️
If he's surrounded by females then it obvious they are attracted to him for something else. Could be a bevy of reasons, but most likely wealth as this is the most visible. Once a few women are aware of this the others will follow. There can be other reasons, but unless they have a very projected personality, personality isn't likely as this is slow reaching. Fame can be assumed with wealth, but as a separate quality it could lure some women. Physical appearance could be a lure, but it may not maintain the crowds, it may get a few, but if they are model level it may do so. Of these though, a combination of wealth and fame is most likely.
Fuck NO ! I instantly ignore him and lose my interest. He's the one who's letting many women to surround him. He won't be loyal.
If he is very handsome but a genuine guy then he will maintain the BIG distance from those women and won't allow any random female or acquaintance to wander near him.
He will be honest and a private type of a guy.
That's my kind of guy and the biggest turn on.
Well for one thing women that are attracted to a man that has more females around him tend to want to prove that they are better than the females that is around him or can offer him more than the other females they tend to compete against each other in a silent way but they all have the same intentions on being able to say that they have snagged the popular guy and that their stuff is better than the rest of the women that were around him.
Nothing makes a woman look more desperate and foolish than to be around one of those guys. Unless they start to out twerk each other...
Who knows. I work in a male dominated industry... Like 95% male. Even most of the women are men... And we live in towns or camps that are about 75 to 95% men. I just don't get much of a chance to see this phenomenon. But I would imagine its a competition thing to see who will get the handsome prize... 🤮
Psychology. If a lot of people want something, it's valuable. It's a show of value and a multiple women wanting you is attractive. It also shows you're not needy and you have options. People want what they can't have or something that is a challenge. People are ambitious by nature. You don't need a crowd of women to create this affect though. Treat her like you have options will do the same thing. I'm not saying be terrible to her but don't worship her.
Most of the women don't have much to offer to the society except looks , they don't get much credit , have much work towards actual socity works or problems...
So a guy like that poses a challenge , if she can win she feels some sort of superiority... However our society is changing , current women are contributing towards actual society more so values of those guys are changing. Still there are too many girls are like old times so a guy like that still can get as many as he wants...
Look at the life of Charlie Sheen ,,, divorced multiple times , abuser , drug , alcohol , violence , jail , hundreds of women... girls know about him still they throw themselves at him...
I've never been attracted to anyone based on the gender of people they hang out with. My boyfriend has one friend and he is a boy too. Honestly im the jealous type so id be very uncomfortable with him having lots of female friends but id get over it or just assume he was gay
Because men judge a woman's attractivity mostly by genetics. Aka youth, health, fertility.
Women on the other hand have a lot more components that decide what they are attracted to. One is social status since it is a measurement of a quality men who is desirable and can provide. A man who is surrounded by many women implies that these other women are him as high on social status.
Actually, we just like men who look good. I refuse to share. The lazy girls just like men with money because they don’t want to go out and make their own.
Those are disgusting gold diggers
It's not a fact, especially seeing that these many girls disagree with it in the comments, including myself. I can be jealous, so it would only discourage me if a guy had many girls around him - even if these girls are only his friends.
Hell noo those type of men are made for those attention whores simple , I like people that are to themselves not just to be " popular " lmao
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Wow so should I hire a bunch of women to walk around with me?
I mean it's kind of ridiculous that to attract women you need to be surrounded by women.
But... This does kinda make sense. I rarely hang out with women cause I don't have any female friends.
But whatever I don't really want to waste money hiring women to follow me around.
Because women are gender-conditioned to be attracted to all forms of power (be it strength, money, status etc). Initially it was biological - a "strong" male will have strong children and be able to defend the cave. Later it was just as simple but with less justification - strong male will make the woman look good, stronger, of higher status, he's a better achievement. It's all ridiculously simple, we are apes.
It's not a fact.
But probably what you're referring to is the effect of popularity and the power of the crowd.
In practice, many girls would stay away from him.
Still, it's difficult not to be influenced by the enthusiasm of others.
Social proof. If a man is surrounded by attractive women, he must be desirable. Otherwise he wouldn't be surrounded by them.
Most men experience this to a small degree at some point in their lives. You all know what it's like to be a young man boy and get your first girlfriend, only to then notice that other women suddenly treat you much better and even hit on you.
Because women lack thought they don't want to think they want others to think for them to take charge of the situation in most cases men but, in this case, it takes one woman with decent qualities they look and go oh she's ok with him so he must be fine even though clearly women are different to each other but that doesn't come into play here right LMFAO.
That’s a turn off for me. I don’t want to have to compete for a man’s attention. Girls who choose to form a circle around a guy like that are bimbos anyways.
I am personally not attracted to "players" but for women who are I would guess its some kind of biological things where you think that if a guy has a ton of potential partners than he must be a good mate.
It automatically indicates he's a valuable guy at least in some ways and he's for sure not needy or desperate which women want to avoid at all cost. Some women might also enjoy the competition. And if the guy does something bad or turns out to be a total asshole or manipulator, it's comforting if she was not the only victim.