Because if he's got a lot of girls around there must be a reason... and they want a piece... plus girls are extremely catty to other girls... dont believe me.. Go to a bar with some nice clothes on and a wedding ring on your finger... thats 2nd best pussy magnet aside from cash
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I love this question because i was talking the other day about how all women lie and taking flack for it. Yet hete is a prime example. No woman will admit to being drawn to that guy. In fact the claim the opposite. But the truth is most of these chickenheads would be all over that guy. It partly has to do with her need to compete and rank higher than other women. And the fact that a guy who is in demand holds premium value over other guys.
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It's the opposite for me. When I see a guy surrounded by many females, that is a big turn off for me. I can get jealous easily and I don't like fuckboys.
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If someone is into such guys, it's because they think they're so special and wants to feel validated. If the guy chooses one girl out of all , people will automatically assume she's something special. It's a competition where the winner gets the fuckboi
Cause then they can see who gets him first and be the winner. I've seen this too and it really make me not understand woman at all. Like he could be a date rapist or something or like American psycho. But whatever it's the woman's choice really it's never the guys I mean I guy can try but if the woman is not having any of you then she's got the real power
Because they're illogical. Men aren't like that. If I see a girl with a bunch of guys around her, I stay far away. Because she's probably more likely to cheat in the future or leave me for one of them.
Her being loyal despite high desirability would be the ideal right?
There's nothing "illogical" about pursuing a popular person. Love when men throw that word around. Sure, if insecurity and fear of competition is an issue, take that into consideration since most people seem to be as loyal as their options.
He didn't say he was sleeping with them... Having many suitors makes you. whore? Most women have many suitors.. what are you trying to say?
You want a valuable man however you define that. With value comes additional attention from others even if he has nothing to do with them; he can't help what someone else feels about him.
You're good He was vague and maybe that's what he did mean. I interpreted as girls wanted him or that many flocked to him. Not that he meant he was sleeping with all of them.
Mmm if that's the case, I guess the reason is that if many girls like him, then there must be a reason why he's so liked, and more girls wanna find out why that is. Even guys would be proud to date a bombshell who is loyal to them no matter how many other guys wanna be with her.
Girls often don’t even know what they want. And they often choose wrong. And they often come to realize it. You should be unforgiving if that happens to you.
Trophy effect, mate. It doesn't signify your victory but other's losses. Plus social psychology has a lot of crap you can probably use up to reason such happenings.
There are limits to this. If he's seen talking to a few and/or has a few female friends, it is beneficial, but more than that and he's seen as a player or fuckboy.
It's the classic human thing of wanting what you can't have. So if a man is surrounded by many women in their heads it's harder to get therefore they want them
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This isn't necessarily true because there are guys who have lot of female friends but no one of them considers him as fuckable. Usually girls use this guy for approaching other boys he knows. Real players never appear with their groupies in public because it deters high quality women.
Also known as Pre-Selection , it makes a man more attractive and seemingly more valuable in the female POV. Conversely , if a woman is surrounded mainly by men , many men will not bother with her.
I think they look at it as a challenge. And they are probably thinking what does that guy have that makes the women so attracted to him. Plus, girls aren't likely to go for a guy who stands in the corner like a wall flower.
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Because if he's got a lot of girls around there must be a reason... and they want a piece... plus girls are extremely catty to other girls... dont believe me.. Go to a bar with some nice clothes on and a wedding ring on your finger... thats 2nd best pussy magnet aside from cash
I love this question because i was talking the other day about how all women lie and taking flack for it. Yet hete is a prime example. No woman will admit to being drawn to that guy. In fact the claim the opposite. But the truth is most of these chickenheads would be all over that guy. It partly has to do with her need to compete and rank higher than other women. And the fact that a guy who is in demand holds premium value over other guys.
It's the opposite for me. When I see a guy surrounded by many females, that is a big turn off for me. I can get jealous easily and I don't like fuckboys.
If someone is into such guys, it's because they think they're so special and wants to feel validated. If the guy chooses one girl out of all , people will automatically assume she's something special. It's a competition where the winner gets the fuckboi
Cause then they can see who gets him first and be the winner. I've seen this too and it really make me not understand woman at all. Like he could be a date rapist or something or like American psycho. But whatever it's the woman's choice really it's never the guys I mean I guy can try but if the woman is not having any of you then she's got the real power
Because they're illogical.
Men aren't like that. If I see a girl with a bunch of guys around her, I stay far away. Because she's probably more likely to cheat in the future or leave me for one of them.
Her being loyal despite high desirability would be the ideal right?
There's nothing "illogical" about pursuing a popular person. Love when men throw that word around. Sure, if insecurity and fear of competition is an issue, take that into consideration since most people seem to be as loyal as their options.
@UninvitedAngel That's my point. I don't want someone who is only "as loyal as her options.". There will ALWAYS be options.
I am not... I run the other way... Im not much for competition.. I rather have a man's undivided attention
I’m not - that is repulsive. I don’t like men who are surrounded by women or like to be because they seem less loyal.
Personally not into manwhores and don't like seeing my guy with girls around him. Soooo I guess not true
He didn't say he was sleeping with them... Having many suitors makes you. whore? Most women have many suitors.. what are you trying to say?
You want a valuable man however you define that. With value comes additional attention from others even if he has nothing to do with them; he can't help what someone else feels about him.
Then my bad, cuz that's how I understood it. Thought he meant he gets a lot of attention (flirting, sex etc) from women.
You're good He was vague and maybe that's what he did mean.
I interpreted as girls wanted him or that many flocked to him. Not that he meant he was sleeping with all of them.
Mmm if that's the case, I guess the reason is that if many girls like him, then there must be a reason why he's so liked, and more girls wanna find out why that is.
Even guys would be proud to date a bombshell who is loyal to them no matter how many other guys wanna be with her.
Girls often don’t even know what they want. And they often choose wrong. And they often come to realize it. You should be unforgiving if that happens to you.
Trophy effect, mate. It doesn't signify your victory but other's losses. Plus social psychology has a lot of crap you can probably use up to reason such happenings.
I personally find loners more appealing tho.
oh interesting
If a guy has a lot of women around him, women think "Hmm there must be something about him. I should check it out".
If none, " There must be SOMETHING wrong with him...".
There are limits to this. If he's seen talking to a few and/or has a few female friends, it is beneficial, but more than that and he's seen as a player or fuckboy.
The same reason people will flock to a location with a big celebrity.
It's human nature to be attracted to those perceived as more successful, and even covet their success and attention.
It's the classic human thing of wanting what you can't have. So if a man is surrounded by many women in their heads it's harder to get therefore they want them
This isn't necessarily true because there are guys who have lot of female friends but no one of them considers him as fuckable. Usually girls use this guy for approaching other boys he knows. Real players never appear with their groupies in public because it deters high quality women.
Most of those men are good looking men or has outgoing personalities that attracts more females, sometimes are even rich. the end of story is
The women that go to the guy probably go to him for the same reason the others did. Some men are just hottt
Also known as Pre-Selection , it makes a man more attractive and seemingly more valuable in the female POV. Conversely , if a woman is surrounded mainly by men , many men will not bother with her.
I think they look at it as a challenge. And they are probably thinking what does that guy have that makes the women so attracted to him. Plus, girls aren't likely to go for a guy who stands in the corner like a wall flower.
They say that all a gentleman needs is to get a little stank on his hanglow and more ladies are sure to follow.