Seriously I see my female friends constantly saying shit like "her hair and nails are so on-point, omg!! she looks amazing!" for whatever chick or whatever Insta celebrity just posted a pic or whatever, and chick looks like this:...So... why do females think that in ^ this situation, hair and nails and makeup are the point. Is it simply because they're easier? It's simple laziness?
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This was a rhetorical question.
Why do females obsess so heavily on appearance things that don't matter much (makeup, accessories, hair) rather than what does matter (weight)?
Make up, hair and style is a form of art and some get paid a lot to design/ mix colors. These women are talented and we appreciate the talent. We take ideas sometimes from the way others style themselves, style their hair or color it, or on how they wear make up.
You on the other hand can see nothing but weight. Live your life find a partner that is slim and leave others to their own. Because this is getting quite repetitive and boring tbh.
Hello Based department? haha I agree with you. It may seem harsh, but its good you call attention to it. Women can improve themselves so much more through diet and exercise and save money by doing so. Instead they try to cover and conceal. Its sad. And the worst part is the friends, who applaud their friends for these superficial things! It re-enforces the laziness.
Also all that time spent on superficial appearance stuff, instead of developing character.
Except they don't? It's just easier to do makeup I guess in some sense than lose weight and try to be fit. I personally don't like all the makeup and stuff, natural is Better but what you incentivise is what you get, if you incentivise makeup don't be surprised when it shows up.
Why does it matter? Women notice small things. And not all fat people are fat because they don't care about themselves. You have no idea what someone's problems are in life. It's pretty ignorant to assume. But hey, ignorance is bliss so you must be pretty happy 😁
It matters for many reasons, you may as well ask why anything else that matters in life, matters. What a pointless thing to say. "And not all fat people are fat because they don't care about themselves." 1) Answer the question. 2) Then why are they fat. "You have no idea what someone's problems are in life." 1) Answer the question. 2) Why is this relevant. "It's pretty ignorant to assume." 1) Answer the question. 2) Not really. "But hey, ignorance is bliss so you must be pretty happy " 1) Answer the question. 2) Good one. You're very creative.
There's this thing called health problems, which can cause weight gain. You are not imaginative enough to think of that apparently. Have you ever had a surgery? Probably not but the other thing is that, everyone's bodies respond differently to things in life. And yes, I am creative. 🤷🏼♀️ I meant, why do YOU care about other people's weight? Must not have much going on in the 🧠 I guess, to be so shallow. Just an observation. Don't get butt hurt. I was genuinely curious why you care but, you didn't answer the question either.
I did. I said women notice and appreciate the small things. They dress pretty for other women, not for guys. Because most guys don't notice anything but tits, ass and weight. They're unobservant, for the most part
Women do obsess about weight and they obsess over other aspects of their appearance too. They notice things beyond size, so if they see a woman who’s fat but also has great nails or hair then they’re going to say something about that area.
As I sadly had to tell the other chick here, it matters for many reasons, you may as well ask why anything else that matters in life, matters. What a pointless thing to say. "And maybe she likes how she looks." ... no she doesn't, and if she does, she shouldn't. "Just because you would like skinny, doesn't mean all others do." All others with brains do, I'm afraid. And you didn't answer the question.
It would be ideal if people wanted to be healthy, but that's just not how it works because of different upbringings, interests, personalities, and other things. Let people have their sizes and don't shame them.
Also, the things with their appearance are something they can change short term and therefore easier.
Because it's easier to dress up, get your nails done etc rather than working out and taking actual care of yourself. I also think the lady in the pic was thinner/fitter, she would get less compliments from other women.
Because not everyone judges beauty the same. What your may not think is attractive, someone else might. You obviously have a bias against fat people, correction fat women, but not everyone shares your bias...
no matter how much lipstick you put on a pig... it's still a pig
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I am the opposite I obsess over weight, I have to lose the last 7lbs from the 21lbs I gain for eating junk food for a month for charity. I don't wear make up, but if it's a date I will wear light make up, so that it looks like me.
They are groomed that way from a young age by society. Their are billion dollar companies that only exist because they trick society into putting value into invaluable things.
What good is a trophy wife body with an ebt face. They just look homeless in the face. I would rather have a banging face over a banging body. Men who care more about the body and dont care About the Face 9x out 10 just purely trying to fuck.
Because people have their own opinions on what they want to focus on... plus she is pretty and I love that outfit...
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It can matter to a women for many reasons, and why they dont care about their weight, well in some case health problems means people can't do anything about their weight as as such they might go to make up and dressing up to build their own self esteem
@thatsamazing, it’s not their health problem that you’re concerned about. It’s your mental health problem that you need to find a cure for. I don't know why you’re so obsessed with other people
@thatsamazing there are multiple things that can cause a person not to lose weight. Thyroid problems for one are a massive cause of problems with weight, it is a medical problem that can't just be fixed with "not being lazy"...
That is ONE of the possibilities... there are plenty of others... reactions to medical drugs, possibly health conditions that mean people just can't get out as much... But overall, if you dont like it, you can suck it as if the person is happy how is it hurting you...
Because mass media tells them that those things matter and weight doesn't
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There has to be big girls guys don’t want to date that way there’s still someone in short ugly guys league
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